Post: #1

Hello everyone,

I read posts here since a while, and have read a lot of great posts talking about how dominate woman, how to fuck them good, how to make them come back after a good sex for a second round.

But i've never read posts about how dominate a girl who actually want be the dominant. So, as I have experiment sex with many dominant girls, I want share here my experience about how dominate them.

Just a disclaimer before start : i'm french, english is not my natural language. I will do my best but my english may be bad, sorry ^^

I just give you here my opinion, based on my personals experience. I don't "give you a lesson", or blame me if you don't think/act like me.

Oh and by the way, this post may be long !

Let's star with the first point :


What I mean by "dominant girls"

I don't speak here of girls who are into BDSM or "weird" stuff. I don't speak too, of girls who give you instructions whereas you are fucking them, and who think this is dominance.

The first kind (BDMS girls) I don't know how to deal with them, because all this shit make me run away ^^

The second kind, is very easy to handle : when you fuck a girl, and she gives you instruction, put your hand on her mouth, and she will stop thinking she dominates you ^^

No when i say "dominant girls" here, i mean these girls who want be on top of you, push you onto the bed, and ride you like a boss. These girls who want control the sex, be the one in charge, and be the one who fuck you.


Why dominate them ? Why don't let them do what they want ?

It's a question I hear or read sometimes. I think she deserves to be asked :it's true, that a wild girl who takes things in charge, and start to ride you wildly is an idea more exciting than a girl who won't do anything in bed...

And it's true to say that this kind of sex (the girl on top of you) may be very good if the girl is skilled.

And actually, many guys I know are surprised and happy to meet a dominant girl. Because the majority of girls are submissive. So, when they meet a dominant girl, they let her do all what she wants. Personnaly, when I was at the beginin of my sex life, I always let the girl on charge when she was dominant. Then I learned this was a bad idea.

But in my opinion, there are three reasons to dominate dominant girls :

1) Letting her always or often dominate you in bedroom, will put her in the dominant role in all the areas of your relation

2) Whether she is your girlfriend, or a sex friend, letting her always dominate you, may will make her get tired of you. She will be bored on bed with you even if she claims the opposite.

3) A dominant girl who often dominates guys in bed will ADORE be suddenly flipped and banged by a true dominant man. If you do this to her, you will be "the special guy", and she will come back again and again.

How concretely dominate a dominant woman ?

To ansewr this question, let's see what a dominant girl and a submissive guy in action look like :

https://fr.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=865695277

Of course, I know this is a movie scene, and I know that what we see there it's what the director want to show us.

But anyway, we have here a typical "dominant girl sex". So we will take this as illustration.

We can see, that right from the start, the girl is on charge.

-She is more wild and more agressive than the guy.

-She handles the kiss

-She pushes the guy on the bed, and she climbs on him

-SHE takes off HER clothes and the guy clothes

-She fucks him in cowgirl position during the whole thing.

Why all of this ? Because the guy did nothing. He just let her do all what they want. So ok, he had a great sex time, but in real life, if this happened, he wouldn't see this girl many times again.

What would he have do to give her a unusual fuck ? A fuck where she would be the submissive one for once ?

For me, there are differents way to do that :

1) Take control immediately.

Is she hot and wild ? Is she taking over during the kiss ? Is she putting his hands on your body and pushes you, or takes off your clothes ?

If you want dominate her, you can react now. Be as wild as her, grab her by her neck and handle the kiss, take her hands and maker her do whit them what YOU want, and take her and pushes her on the bed.

The message will be clear : she will understand that you are not like all others submissive guys and you will be on charge. Then, join her on the bed, go on top of her and... you know what do next

I assure you, she will adore this, and be happy to come back... And, if she is a playful girl, the next time she will try again to dominate you, to see what happens then... And she'd probably do this to be fucked more harder.

2) Let her be on charge... on beginin.

This is an other way to dominate a dominant woman. Let her take controll, during preliminaries, let her handle the kiss, let her push you on the bed, let her take off your clothers and climb on you... Let her fuck you for a while...and then grab her by her hips, and flip her. Go back on top, and fuck her hard.

For her, the sensation of "brutal lost of control" will be incredibly exicting. One second she was in a classic fuck where she as always was the dominant, and the second after that, she is pinned on the bed, banged by a trume a dominant man who don't ask her permission to do what he wants.

For you, letting her be dominant first, and then take back controll will give you the good sensation of total control. You are so confident and so powerful that you can allow her to fuck you for a while. This will drive you insane.

And the sensation of "renvege fuck" (fucking her, stronger, and faster than she did) is incredible.

3) Letting her on top... but still be the dominant one.

That is in my opinion the ultimate way to dominate her. Let her on top, let her ride you, and act as she wants. But when you want, stay under her, and start fucking her. Give her some wild strokes, and grab her by boobs, ass, or hips, to make her go slowly, whereas you go faster and faster.

This will drives her insane. She is on top, on his favorite position, but for once, she is totally dominated and fucked. The sensation of unusual lost of control will make her mad of you.

Up the domination factor

Doing all of that is enough to give her a very good sex. But you can do better.

With a dominant girl, uping the domination factor will drive her crazy.

The idea is to dominate her not only in a physical aspect, but physcologic one too.

There are classics ways to up the domination factor :

-Push her (onto bed, against wall, etc)

-Pinned her

-Pull her hair

-Spank her ass

In short, make her understand that you are the one in charge, and her body is yours. Many dominant girls do all of this (but in "girl to boy" version), so she will experiment what she does usually. She will looove this.

There are other ways to up the domination factor, who are more specific to dominant girls :

- When she is riding you, don't just flip her back, but carry her, stand up, leave the bed, and fuck her in an other place, like against wall or on desk or table.

This will show her you are in total control, not just because you fuck her, but because you fuck her where you want, and as you want You are the one in control, and the one who decides where the fuck take place.

She will love this feeling, and love be fucked in "anusual" places.

- Taunt her, verbally.

An other way to drive her crazy : when you are on control and fuck her, it's the perfect time to taunt her, and especially if she was on top at the beginin of sex, and taunted you.

A good "so, who is the boss now ?" will make her feel more your dominance.

-Look her in her eyes (eventually with smirking)

-When you are in top and fucking her, let her struggle and try to go back on top. Let her try, and make sure she fails : she will feel that all her efforts are useless, and this will make her feel totally in your power.

-Make her beg. When she is about to cum, make sure she doesn't have her orgasm, before she begs you for its. This will be the ultim step to her submission and she will love surrender as this.


That's all ideas I have to dominate a dominant woman. I love doing all of this, and dominant girls I banged this way usually come back for more !

And you ? What do you do when you meet a dominant girls ?

Post: #2

I love it man. great post, its going on my bookmarks.

Post: #3

This is pretty good advice for all women, they all like this stuff. They want to be controlled inside the bedroom and if you can pull it off out of it too.

Post: #4

(09-04-2018 11:26 PM)MarshalZhukov Wrote:  I love it man. great post, its going on my bookmarks.

Thanks !

(09-04-2018 11:35 PM)Eugenics Wrote:  This is pretty good advice for all women, they all like this stuff. They want to be controlled inside the bedroom and if you can pull it off out of it too.

Yes of course ! But I think that all of this is far more crazy for a dominant woman, who usually rides guys who let her do all what she wants.

But yeah, in the bedroom, women want be banged ^^

Post: #5

learn some basic BJJ and effortlessly manhandle them. throw in some chokes & one liners and you'll be sweet.

the real challange is dominating their mind. which I need work on.

Post: #6

Every so called dominant girl is dying to meet the man that will show her her place and dominate her for real.
A verbal dominant girl is a cry for help...be helpful!

Post: #7

Every "dominatrix" I ever met was either a lesbian or a daddy's girl. Go figure.

Post: #8

(09-05-2018 02:45 PM)kuqezi Wrote:  Every so called dominant girl is dying to meet the man that will show her her place and dominate her for real.
A verbal dominant girl is a cry for help...be helpful!

Exactly ! But so many guys don't understand this...

Post: #9

Is anyone has advices or "tricks" to give, to dominate dominant women ? I think I didn't give all advices could be give ^^

Post: #10

OP covered the topic quite well.

A dominant woman is a shit test/strength test of a different sort. If anything, at least in my experience, these women want a strong man even more than most. That's especially true for women who work in high-power jobs. I've dated women who were lawyers and lobbyists, and once you get past the bitch shield and get them laughing, they tend to (sooner or later) admit without prodding that they love it when you make the decisions and take the lead.

It's imperative that you not take orders from a dominant woman, and that is part of the strength test. Your unwillingness to answer questions seriously, or to follow her commands, might make her angry. But that starts the emotional roller coaster, and the exasperation and frustration of her having you not bend to her will (which is what many guys often foolishly do, especially if she is very attractive) is a pendulum that can swing back to her feeling attraction to you, even in spite of whatever agitation you might be causing her in the moment.

As always, you must be willing to walk away if she disrespects or displeases you.

Post: #11

(09-04-2018 01:05 PM)Leonide Wrote:  Hello everyone,

I read posts here since a while, and have read a lot of great posts talking about how dominate woman, how to fuck them good, how to make them come back after a good sex for a second round.

But i've never read posts about how dominate a girl who actually want be the dominant. So, as I have experiment sex with many dominant girls, I want share here my experience about how dominate them.

Just a disclaimer before start : i'm french, english is not my natural language. I will do my best but my english may be bad, sorry ^^

I just give you here my opinion, based on my personals experience. I don't "give you a lesson", or blame me if you don't think/act like me.

Oh and by the way, this post may be long !

Let's star with the first point :


What I mean by "dominant girls"

I don't speak here of girls who are into BDSM or "weird" stuff. I don't speak too, of girls who give you instructions whereas you are fucking them, and who think this is dominance.

The first kind (BDMS girls) I don't know how to deal with them, because all this shit make me run away ^^

The second kind, is very easy to handle : when you fuck a girl, and she gives you instruction, put your hand on her mouth, and she will stop thinking she dominates you ^^

No when i say "dominant girls" here, i mean these girls who want be on top of you, push you onto the bed, and ride you like a boss. These girls who want control the sex, be the one in charge, and be the one who fuck you.


Why dominate them ? Why don't let them do what they want ?

It's a question I hear or read sometimes. I think she deserves to be asked :it's true, that a wild girl who takes things in charge, and start to ride you wildly is an idea more exciting than a girl who won't do anything in bed...

And it's true to say that this kind of sex (the girl on top of you) may be very good if the girl is skilled.

And actually, many guys I know are surprised and happy to meet a dominant girl. Because the majority of girls are submissive. So, when they meet a dominant girl, they let her do all what she wants. Personnaly, when I was at the beginin of my sex life, I always let the girl on charge when she was dominant. Then I learned this was a bad idea.

But in my opinion, there are three reasons to dominate dominant girls :

1) Letting her always or often dominate you in bedroom, will put her in the dominant role in all the areas of your relation

2) Whether she is your girlfriend, or a sex friend, letting her always dominate you, may will make her get tired of you. She will be bored on bed with you even if she claims the opposite.

3) A dominant girl who often dominates guys in bed will ADORE be suddenly flipped and banged by a true dominant man. If you do this to her, you will be "the special guy", and she will come back again and again.

How concretely dominate a dominant woman ?

To ansewr this question, let's see what a dominant girl and a submissive guy in action look like :

https://fr.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=865695277

Of course, I know this is a movie scene, and I know that what we see there it's what the director want to show us.

But anyway, we have here a typical "dominant girl sex". So we will take this as illustration.

We can see, that right from the start, the girl is on charge.

-She is more wild and more agressive than the guy.

-She handles the kiss

-She pushes the guy on the bed, and she climbs on him

-SHE takes off HER clothes and the guy clothes

-She fucks him in cowgirl position during the whole thing.

Why all of this ? Because the guy did nothing. He just let her do all what they want. So ok, he had a great sex time, but in real life, if this happened, he wouldn't see this girl many times again.

What would he have do to give her a unusual fuck ? A fuck where she would be the submissive one for once ?

For me, there are differents way to do that :

1) Take control immediately.

Is she hot and wild ? Is she taking over during the kiss ? Is she putting his hands on your body and pushes you, or takes off your clothes ?

If you want dominate her, you can react now. Be as wild as her, grab her by her neck and handle the kiss, take her hands and maker her do whit them what YOU want, and take her and pushes her on the bed.

The message will be clear : she will understand that you are not like all others submissive guys and you will be on charge. Then, join her on the bed, go on top of her and... you know what do next

I assure you, she will adore this, and be happy to come back... And, if she is a playful girl, the next time she will try again to dominate you, to see what happens then... And she'd probably do this to be fucked more harder.

2) Let her be on charge... on beginin.

This is an other way to dominate a dominant woman. Let her take controll, during preliminaries, let her handle the kiss, let her push you on the bed, let her take off your clothers and climb on you... Let her fuck you for a while...and then grab her by her hips, and flip her. Go back on top, and fuck her hard.

For her, the sensation of "brutal lost of control" will be incredibly exicting. One second she was in a classic fuck where she as always was the dominant, and the second after that, she is pinned on the bed, banged by a trume a dominant man who don't ask her permission to do what he wants.

For you, letting her be dominant first, and then take back controll will give you the good sensation of total control. You are so confident and so powerful that you can allow her to fuck you for a while. This will drive you insane.

And the sensation of "renvege fuck" (fucking her, stronger, and faster than she did) is incredible.

3) Letting her on top... but still be the dominant one.

That is in my opinion the ultimate way to dominate her. Let her on top, let her ride you, and act as she wants. But when you want, stay under her, and start fucking her. Give her some wild strokes, and grab her by boobs, ass, or hips, to make her go slowly, whereas you go faster and faster.

This will drives her insane. She is on top, on his favorite position, but for once, she is totally dominated and fucked. The sensation of unusual lost of control will make her mad of you.

Up the domination factor

Doing all of that is enough to give her a very good sex. But you can do better.

With a dominant girl, uping the domination factor will drive her crazy.

The idea is to dominate her not only in a physical aspect, but physcologic one too.

There are classics ways to up the domination factor :

-Push her (onto bed, against wall, etc)

-Pinned her

-Pull her hair

-Spank her ass

In short, make her understand that you are the one in charge, and her body is yours. Many dominant girls do all of this (but in "girl to boy" version), so she will experiment what she does usually. She will looove this.

There are other ways to up the domination factor, who are more specific to dominant girls :

- When she is riding you, don't just flip her back, but carry her, stand up, leave the bed, and fuck her in an other place, like against wall or on desk or table.

This will show her you are in total control, not just because you fuck her, but because you fuck her where you want, and as you want You are the one in control, and the one who decides where the fuck take place.

She will love this feeling, and love be fucked in "anusual" places.

- Taunt her, verbally.

An other way to drive her crazy : when you are on control and fuck her, it's the perfect time to taunt her, and especially if she was on top at the beginin of sex, and taunted you.

A good "so, who is the boss now ?" will make her feel more your dominance.

-Look her in her eyes (eventually with smirking)

-When you are in top and fucking her, let her struggle and try to go back on top. Let her try, and make sure she fails : she will feel that all her efforts are useless, and this will make her feel totally in your power.

-Make her beg. When she is about to cum, make sure she doesn't have her orgasm, before she begs you for its. This will be the ultim step to her submission and she will love surrender as this.


That's all ideas I have to dominate a dominant woman. I love doing all of this, and dominant girls I banged this way usually come back for more !

And you ? What do you do when you meet a dominant girls ?

Your countryman, mr. Woodman, might have some tips in this department


   

Post: #12

Is that Karl Pilkington?

Post: #13

It helps if you are bigger and stronger than her. Taller for example. So, the answer is to use your pure strength to get what you want in bed.

Post: #14

Stop the action, pull her hair and head back, stare into her eyes and say "you are mine". Don't break the stare or move until she blinks first.

Post: #15

(09-07-2018 02:52 AM)Leonide Wrote:  Is anyone has advices or "tricks" to give, to dominate dominant women ? I think I didn't give all advices could be give ^^

What about psychological games, instead of strength or fight why not taming her ?
Dominant women are usually confident because of encouraging father or no father at all and the only way to strip a woman of her "power" is to make her understand that she has no power to begin with by rendering it null and void...

Post: #16

(09-08-2018 12:09 PM)BigL Wrote:  It helps if you are bigger and stronger than her. Taller for example. So, the answer is to use your pure strength to get what you want in bed.

That's it. But usually guy are bigger than the girl he fuck. But still, some guys can't dominate dominant girls.

(09-08-2018 12:57 PM)tycotacos Wrote:  Stop the action, pull her hair and head back, stare into her eyes and say "you are mine". Don't break the stare or move until she blinks first.

Exactly ! The idea is t obe more wild than her.

Post: #17

Dominate "alpha" girls want to be dominated the most. It's just a facade to find the strongest man capable. Kind of like female mountain lions. I've dated 3 what I would call seriously dominate women. And they wanted to be put in their place the most and were most excited to live out erotic submission fantasies in the bedroom and be totally conquered.

Post: #18

90%+ women I've been with love this shit. They want you to take control. It's a big indicator of sexual experience, confidence and willingness to taking charge.
If you're not sure- start with some lighter, dominating moves and ramp up gradually.

Post: #19

I don't really agree : sometimes it's very difficult to dominate dominant girls. I fucked with girls like this many times, and it happened frequently that i do not succeed to take back control.

I think all tricks you talk about seem easy to do when we read it on Roosh V Forum... But in bed with a hot dominant girl it's not so easy !

But nvm, I like being fucked sometimes !

Post: #20

(12-09-2018 06:25 AM)Curious12 Wrote:  But nvm, I like being fucked sometimes !

I'm seeing your username in a whole new light now...

Post: #21

(12-09-2018 07:15 AM)Spaniard88 Wrote:  

(12-09-2018 06:25 AM)Curious12 Wrote:  But nvm, I like being fucked sometimes !

I'm seeing your username in a whole new light now...

Lol ^^ I just mean, I like when the girl is on top and dominates me ^^ nothing more ^^

Post: #22

(12-11-2018 03:46 AM)Curious12 Wrote:  Lol ^^ I just mean, I like when the girl is on top and dominates me ^^ nothing more ^^

Look, you do what you want... But i assure you : girls love to be dominated in bed. Even them who pretend to be dominant. Filp them and fuck them, and they will adore that, and come back to you...

Post: #23

Cool post, I just don't agree with the idea you have to *always* dominate her to give her good sex

Some girls get off on being on top / in charge. Let them sometimes. It's cool. You're not gunna lose any alpha-creds. The issue I see is if you're doing it because you're shy or timid

The only way that extends to her controlling you outside of the bedroom is if you're, again, timid and not in control outside of the bedroom.

The way that leads to her getting bored is if you're always just doing the same thing and leaving things up to her. If a girl acted with me like the video you linked, I'd let her and tell her how hot she was afterwards. And then the next time we fucked I'd flip her over and ravage her. Just don't do the same thing all the time.

But yeah, 90% of girls prefer to be more submissive. Some don't, though. And some DO get off on being in control at times. Sexuality is weird, it's fine.

Post: #24

(03-11-2019 05:22 AM)benopolis Wrote:  Cool post, I just don't agree with the idea you have to *always* dominate her to give her good sex

Some girls get off on being on top / in charge. Let them sometimes. It's cool. You're not gunna lose any alpha-creds. The issue I see is if you're doing it because you're shy or timid

The only way that extends to her controlling you outside of the bedroom is if you're, again, timid and not in control outside of the bedroom.

The way that leads to her getting bored is if you're always just doing the same thing and leaving things up to her. If a girl acted with me like the video you linked, I'd let her and tell her how hot she was afterwards. And then the next time we fucked I'd flip her over and ravage her. Just don't do the same thing all the time.

But yeah, 90% of girls prefer to be more submissive. Some don't, though. And some DO get off on being in control at times. Sexuality is weird, it's fine.

Hey ! Yes, you're right. I didn't mention it, so thank you for did it.

Yeah, you right, there is any problem to let your GF ride you sometimes. In this post I wanted to explain than if your GF dominates you ALL TIME or very regularly :

1) She will be bored of you because dominant girls love being dominated and want guys who can challenge them.

2) She will control you outside of the bedroom.

And I wrote this post, because I have many times spoke with guys who don't succeed to dominate a dominant girls, who are always dominated by them.

But yeah, I will repeat it, you're right : there is any problem to let a girl dominate you sometimes.

Btw it's difficult for me to let a girl ride me and don't flip her... Not because i'm scared to loose some "alpha creds" but because there is nothing hoter than flip a girl who thought she could dominate you and bang her wildly

Post: #25

(09-07-2018 02:52 AM)Leonide Wrote:  Is anyone has advices or "tricks" to give, to dominate dominant women ? I think I didn't give all advices could be give ^^

In my experience the most important aspect is psychological domination. You should focus on mind-fucking the girl.

Examples:

1. When I have sex with a girl the first time, I find a silly excuse to slap her, hard. Sometimes this comes off as too strong, too soon. I then usually say this line:

'listen. its not right of me to hit you and I understand you may not like that. I want to know what you like, I want you to be comfortable.' I then immediately finger her, and ask her why she is so wet? I tell her this is supposed to be a punishment, she is not supposed to like it so much. Most girls are giggling like teenagers at this point. I then i slap her much harder, make her say please etc.

I love asking girls 'do you like this' and when they give you some PC response, finger them and say your body tells me you're lying then slap them harder.


2. Rape fantasy - After a girl is very comfortable with me (eg after I fucked her good for 5-6 times):

During foreplay I gag their mouths using their underwear. I then tell her 'listen I am going to be really, really rough with you' (or if we discussed anal and she's shy about it, I say I'm going to finger you in the ass).

I then say 'you know we should have a safe word in case things get out of control and you want me to stop'. I then make her say the safe word. I pretend I don't understand what she says, because her mouth is stuffed with her underwear. I make her say it again. I tell her 'I dont understand what you are saying. Anyway I'll do what I want and iIf you want me to stop just say the safeword'. Most women love rape fantasies.


3. Learn to choke properly.

On your neck you have 2 veins - they are called the carrotid arteries. These are on the sides of your neck (google carrotid arteries to see where).

You should choke girls using 2 fingers only (thumb and index). You just need to apply light pressure on their carrotid arteries.

Try it on yourself now: Apply light pressure on your carrotid arteries using 2 fingers only and see what happens.

This is the correct way to choke a girl. Don't be a chode choking with full palm.



Note: shit like this is very powerful, and you should be extremely calibrated when using these (esp no.2). There needs to be a lot of comfort between you and the girl. But tricks like these when executed properly will make girls come back again and again.