Post: #1

I was at the club running game on this woman. She had 2 glasses of vodka redbulls. She seemed drunk. I chose not to pursue it in the end.

Would like some opinions on what would be considered too drunk. Would she have been considered too drunk to consent?

Post: #2

How long is a piece of string?

I'm Here.

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #3

What is the sound of one hand clapping?

Post: #4

To OP,

Go research what the laws in your town/city are around this topic.

This forum is international.
Many different countries around the world have laws that vary greatly.
And no the judge and prosecutor will not accept whatever answer you found on the forum.

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Post: #6

The real question is, how many drinks before you're too drunk to consent?

Post: #7

I know women who could down a bottle of Ardbeg with me and I know a woman who gets put on their ass by 1-2 shots of anything


So how many leaves are on a tree?

Post: #8

(02-17-2019 07:26 PM)Vladimir Poontang Wrote:  The real question is, how many drinks before you're too drunk to consent?

This. Every woman over 150 pounds would be in jail...

Post: #9

By that logic DUIs wouldnt exist because the drunk driver wasnt cognizant of their actions.

She cant consent to sex but she can be held accountable for choosing to drive drunk? Thats why the drunk consent law is stupid.

Post: #10

Depends how sloppy you like your women or how much bullshit you want to deal with because it doesn't matter.

Consent doesn't exist.

Edit: Consent doesn't exist in LAW because it can be changed at a later date.

Consent "happens" in the moment.

This is another example of legalities and reality not matching up.

Post: #11

(02-17-2019 06:56 PM)Rakers Wrote:  I was at the club running game on this woman. She had 2 glasses of vodka redbulls. She seemed drunk. I chose not to pursue it in the end.

Would like some opinions on what would be considered too drunk. Would she have been considered too drunk to consent?

None. She can drug you with Rohypnol and viagra, tie you up and ride you, and have you thrown in jail for rape.

Post: #12

(02-17-2019 06:56 PM)Rakers Wrote:  I was at the club running game on this woman. She had 2 glasses of vodka redbulls. She seemed drunk. I chose not to pursue it in the end.

Would like some opinions on what would be considered too drunk. Would she have been considered too drunk to consent?

Depends on whether she regrets having sex with you or not.

Post: #13

The levels of regret after the fact play a big part...

Post: #14

The important question: how many bars on a jail cell?

Post: #15

(02-17-2019 06:56 PM)Rakers Wrote:  I was at the club running game on this woman. She had 2 glasses of vodka redbulls. She seemed drunk. I chose not to pursue it in the end.

Would like some opinions on what would be considered too drunk. Would she have been considered too drunk to consent?

I was personally witness to an interesting conversation about this on Saturday night.

Two girls, best friends since college, were recalling their drunken antics from a few years ago. It was a generally funny conversation, but then one of them dropped a bomb.

"I was raped in college." she said, tone flat and serious.

Me and my buddy tensed uncomfortably, and looked at each other. The air left the room briefly.

But then a grin cracked across her face.

"But I was totally asking for it!!" At which point she and her friend exploded in laughter, thinking this was the funniest thing in the world. As it turned out, they used to get black out drunk every Saturday, and nearly every time found their way into the beds of guys on the rowing and lacrosse teams.

I used to audio record all my club and tinder girls when I brought them back to my place to hook up. #MeToo insurance before the phenomena actually took off.

If she can speak clearly enough to say "Yes! Yes I like that!" and audibly moan, she is good to go. Morally you're fine, because she is alert enough to clearly understand and enjoy what is happening. Legally as well, because you can prove she was, like, totally into it.

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(02-18-2019 11:07 PM)Guitarhappy420 Wrote:  The important question: how many bars on a jail cell?

How many jail baits sell pussy in a bar?

Post: #17

When you have sex with a girl always be nice in the morning and text them they were awesome the night before and you want to hang out again.

I have been pulling girls from the club and every one does the same thing-Intense make out in the Uber/Elevator, says "we are not having sex" on the way in the apartment, has aggressive sex with me yelling "harder, deeper, yes!", spends the night, has sex in the morning, pretends they were wasted the night before "OMG, I never do that-I never go home with guys I just met" and then presses me to hook up again.

Post: #18

If anyone is interested in the legal nitty gritty, the link will take you to a case decided by Massachusetts' highest court last week revolving around withdrawal of consent.

https://www.mass.gov/files/documents/201.../12530.pdf

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Lower case g, excellent find. Thanks. It's worth pointing out some fatal flaws the rape convicted male made:
1-never respond if police come to the door.
2-never open the door to the police.
3-never let the police enter your residence unless they have a search or arrest warrant signed by a judge and provide you your copy.
At this point he waived his most important constitutional protections by consenting to a partial search.
4-never answer police questions. He had a right to remain silent but waived that too. He also waived his right to have an attorney present during interrogation. Then he showed the police the blood all over the place and, lest we forget, the cocaine.
Sorry, but this guy almost deserves what he got for being so stupid.

Post: #20

Quote: I was personally witness to an interesting conversation about this on Saturday night.

Two girls, best friends since college, were recalling their drunken antics from a few years ago. It was a generally funny conversation, but then one of them dropped a bomb.

"I was raped in college." she said, tone flat and serious.

Me and my buddy tensed uncomfortably, and looked at each other. The air left the room briefly.

But then a grin cracked across her face.

"But I was totally asking for it!!" At which point she and her friend exploded in laughter, thinking this was the funniest thing in the world. As it turned out, they used to get black out drunk every Saturday, and nearly every time found their way into the beds of guys on the rowing and lacrosse teams.

I used to audio record all my club and tinder girls when I brought them back to my place to hook up. #MeToo insurance before the phenomena actually took off.

If she can speak clearly enough to say "Yes! Yes I like that!" and audibly moan, she is good to go. Morally you're fine, because she is alert enough to clearly understand and enjoy what is happening. Legally as well, because you can prove she was, like, totally into it.

That’s crazy the bit about “rape”, man. Although I think the out of control binge drinking hurts both men and women pretty badly. For women, they can’t remember if they consented, much less give consent at that point. For men, they could have consensual sex but the man can’t remember it then the girl accuses him of rape… He has no memory and no defense for that matter. Hypothetically speaking, it wouldn’t matter if the woman was blackout too, the man, according to modern feminist jurisprudence is always the perp.

Recording sounds like a good idea but keep in mind the law, which I will get to in a second. Also, maybe keeping a dated private journal (much like an approach log, or bang log) that gives details of every sexual encounter, as well as the prelude, like for example how many drinks she had, whether she was vocally receptive to having sex that night prior to the event, consent and so on. Maybe even the next morning whaat was said. I think a journal is probably a good idea, much less recording, keeping in mind that laws on recording vary from state to state or country to country, and some places, one party consent recording/video (I think that’s what it’s called) is allowed, but in others, both parties have to consent or criminally you will be held accountable.

Post: #21

It's simple. If she's visibly drunk, stumbling and slurring
her words and not just tipsy don't fuck with her. If she's tipsy always send some variation of the "I had fun last night" text and you're all set.

Post: #22

If you are at some point asking yourself this question, the answer should already be obvious. Even if they are pretending to be more drunk than they are, there are ways you can ensure that this is actually the case by having them say/do things that make it clear that they are consenting and interested in having sex with you.

When you're that drunk the sex tends to be awful anyway.

Post: #23

(02-19-2019 08:52 PM)HAcoreRD Wrote:  If you are at some point asking yourself this question, the answer should already be obvious. Even if they are pretending to be more drunk than they are, there are ways you can ensure that this is actually the case by having them say/do things that make it clear that they are consenting and interested in having sex with you.

When you're that drunk the sex tends to be awful anyway.

Mostly true. Except the bolded part is not always the case. Wasted sex can be amazingly free and filthy but would not advise it with women you are unfamiliar with.

Post: #24

The only thing better than drunk sex is high sex. They turn into monsters.....emotional nasty hyper sexual monsters.

Post: #25

(02-19-2019 11:11 PM)JackinMelbourne Wrote:  Mostly true. Except the bolded part is not always the case. Wasted sex can be amazingly free and filthy but would not advise it with women you are unfamiliar with.

Sex when drunk can be good, I agree, but not "is she consenting or not" level drunk. No?