Basil Ransom
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RE: Have you ever been told that you hate women?
I have, though I don't recall it from being girls I was banging or trying to bang. Usually from women in my life with whom I've shared my experiences and observations. Or girls who clearly perceive my "I won't put up with your shit" attitude, and start resenting me for it. Especially the girls who surround themselves with ass-kissers - they either get turned on or bitter when they meet a guy who doesn't fall into line and kiss up to her.
Misogyny is technically hatred of women, and women conflate misogyny with chauvinism and sexism. I've had tons of girls call me a sexist and a chauvinist, and probably misogynist too because girls think they're synonymous.
Besides, to many an American woman, disagreeing with feminism = women hater.
(03-14-2012 11:46 AM)Timoteo Wrote: "I like dominance... and I also like sensitivity... so however you can make that work."
This is women at their essence. Unending contradiction. It's a combination of not knowing what they want, and wanting men to be whatever they want, whenever they want. And we're supposed to magically know exactly when to be who they want. That's why it's best to just cut through all that and push up strong, thus telling THEM what they need instead.
It sounds like a contradiction, but it isn't really. What she wants is "bang me like an animal, pull my hair, make me your bitch, but look me in the eye while you're doing it. And give me tender kisses after." No problem. Dominance and affection are by no means mutually exclusive.
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Timoteo
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RE: Have you ever been told that you hate women?
(03-14-2012 02:31 PM)basilransom Wrote: I have, though I don't recall it from being girls I was banging or trying to bang. Usually from women in my life with whom I've shared my experiences and observations. Or girls who clearly perceive my "I won't put up with your shit" attitude, and start resenting me for it. Especially the girls who surround themselves with ass-kissers - they either get turned on or bitter when they meet a guy who doesn't fall into line and kiss up to her.
Misogyny is technically hatred of women, and women conflate misogyny with chauvinism and sexism. I've had tons of girls call me a sexist and a chauvinist, and probably misogynist too because girls think they're synonymous.
Besides, to many an American woman, disagreeing with feminism = women hater.
(03-14-2012 11:46 AM)Timoteo Wrote: "I like dominance... and I also like sensitivity... so however you can make that work."
This is women at their essence. Unending contradiction. It's a combination of not knowing what they want, and wanting men to be whatever they want, whenever they want. And we're supposed to magically know exactly when to be who they want. That's why it's best to just cut through all that and push up strong, thus telling THEM what they need instead.
It sounds like a contradiction, but it isn't really. What she wants is "bang me like an animal, pull my hair, make me your bitch, but look me in the eye while you're doing it. And give me tender kisses after." No problem. Dominance and affection are by no means mutually exclusive.
In the sexual context that's true, but they are that way in all contexts. Men are in the position of constantly figuring out when to step up strong, or sit back and just listen, etc.
"The best kind of pride is that which compels a man to do his best when no one is watching."
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