Post: #1

Set I

1. Grace: Never cockblock.

2. Dignity: Never white knight.

3. Respect: Never put down the wingman in front of girls. Mock the girls, especially if she accuses your boy of being 'creepy.' Girls thrive on social approval, and once denied it, they will crumble.

4. Loyalty: Always take your wing's side in an argument. Agreeing with a woman bolsters her ego and closes her vag, to you and your wingman. No one wins.

5. Allegiance: Do not give attention to every woman as if she's a movie star and to your wingman none, as if he were a dirty bum. You and your wingman may even snub the women occasionally, but not so much as to make them feel left out. Pair off and isolate when the opportunity arises, rather than awkwardly ignore each other.

Summary: Women revere men who respect themselves and their fellow men, at the expense of women. Infighting among men in the presence of women is petty, needy and ineffective. Taking her side is sycophantic and emasculating.

Set II

6. Courtesy: Always introduce your wingman.

7. Charity: Let your wing bang your platonic female friends. Leave them alone together when the opportunity arises. Don't get protective over your female friends, it's f***ing lame and disgusting.

8. Sportsmanship: He who opens, chooses. Unless the girls choose otherwise. If this isn't clear, have a tiebreaker, eg your short friend gets the short chicks.

9. Honesty: Any issues between you and your wing should be resolved by direct confrontation, away from the girls. Passive-aggressiveness is unmanly.

10. Restraint: Do not bother the wing if he is otherwise engaged.

Summary: Treat your wingman with courtesy and benevolence.

Post: #2

Totally agree. I always sort these rules out BEFORE I step out with any guy I wing. Most are common sense, but the "Charity" is something I should consider more often. A lot of my wings want to fuck some of my platonic female friends that I have no sexual interest in, but they fear to make a move and step into violation zone with me.

Mixx

Post: #3

My wing has laid out the guidlines ever since we started swooping together; which are very similar to the points above and we've grown pretty congruent and supplement each other's game. My game has grown strongly over time and didn't really notice until I saw my childhood friends recently and noticed just how different our lives have become. 1 just wedded into a life of betatude, and the other 2 haven't changed a bit.

I still have a ways to go down the path I chose, and I am thankful for a legendary wing. My man Mixx.

Post: #4

(06-12-2011 10:11 PM)MiXX Wrote:  Totally agree. I always sort these rules out BEFORE I step out with any guy I wing. Most are common sense, but the "Charity" is something I should consider more often. A lot of my wings want to fuck some of my platonic female friends that I have no sexual interest in, but they fear to make a move and step into violation zone with me.

Mixx

If your friends are subtle, it's not a big deal. I've probably pissed off a few friends' friends, but only after there was some action. Keep a little distance, don't act responsible for your friends, and she won't blame you. She will blame you if you white knight.

My biggest problem is guys taking the girls side so as to get into her pants. Guys always turn on each other for the chance at poon, and it doesn't even work. At all.