(09-21-2014 12:15 PM)freshfresca Wrote: Hey Jay, forgive me for the trollish vibe but I've never really lurked on any other forums unless it's for recruiting tidbits or what 49ers player is getting arrested that week. But from what you can see from my last post, which was posted in the newbie forum, I'm at a crossroads and not very happy with life in the present. I've always been an optimist but have been pretty pessimistic for the last couple months (oneitis).
But never the less, I have received tremendous info after stumbling across this site. This place is an amazing learning center which I hope to contribute to- so I apologize if it looks like I'm just trying to milk information outve y'all.
I bumped the thread because I was curious about OP's original workout plan. I'm about 5'9 150. I'd like to bulk up to 160-165. I've worked out in the past but chalk it up to laziness for not sticking to the weights. I always feel self conscious about my body, but then would get hot girls so would say to myself "I don't need the gym to get girls" which is somewhat true but doesn't help with the fact that I'm not happy when I look in the mirror.
My biggest issue is my chest- always feeling bad about my chest. I wanted to start a program to get that V shape look that all the girls melt for.
So chest/back day
Incline dumbbell press
Barbell bench press
Dumbbell flies
Dips
Pull-ups
Lat pull downs
Barbell rows
(Also want to do a lot of pull-ups and push-ups at home) 50 pull-ups and 200 push-ups per day?
O.k... you have NOT completely rid me of the idea that you may be trolling; however, that additional information may be helpful... to get guys to respond.. but I think you may need to describe a little more in terms of your overall package.. diet, sleep and exercise...
Anyhow, If you are going to the gym regularly, you probably need to rotate body parts and make sure that you are eating well and sleeping well, too, and maybe describe some of that to us.
I am about your height, and when I was in my early 20s, I went from 130 to 155 in no time by eating a lot and weight lifting. but then over the years, I got bigger.. so I am NOT an ectomorph.. so I cannot relate exactly to the ectomorph feeling.. even though when I was in high school I could NOT put weight on no matter what I did.. but once I left high school, I started lifting and eating more and in recent years (I am in my late 40s) I was up to 205.. and currently I am around 175.
I would also recommend NOT to overdo the cardio (maybe 10-20 minutes 3 times a week at most) and rotate the resistant training... which you seem to have pretty good variety - though you seem to be missing body parts in your described work-out..
When I was doing a lot of resistance training in the beginning (in my early 20s), I rotated parts but more or less my rotation was Day 1: chest and triceps, Day 2: back and bicepts Day 3: legs and shoulders. Of course, you can mix this up and have other parts in there too, which I recall that i was NOT exactly strict though I tried to mostly get on a kind of rotation.
Maybe resistance training 30-60 minutes at least 3 times a week.. but then you should make sure you are getting good sleep.. and probably if you are trying to gain weight, then make sure you are eating good and hardy meals.. I am a low carb high fat kind of eater these days, but there are probably ways you can tailor this kind of diet for gaining weight... I do NOT recommend carbs for bulking, even though some guys may add more carbs - and if you follow this route, at least attempt to eat the good ones that come from natural sources like potatoes and rice and oatmeal.. but in my view you gotta be careful NOT to overdo these kinds of carb products.
There may be a little grass is greener on the other side phenomenon going on here... because 150 lbs is NOT totally skinny.. but I can understand that you may at least want another 10 lbs and a V shape seems to be better than a stick shape...
It seems that I was kind of like you and wanted to bulk up.. but once you get bulky, it can be a bit challenging to take it off... so there is a certain advantage to the skinny look ... because it is likely NOT as frowned upon as you are making it out to be...
In LA there is the expression that "you can never be too skinny or too rich."
Actually, I have my own expression regarding girls and long term relationships (if a guy is interested in LTRs)... which is: "You gotta get them skinny because they will always get bigger as time goes on...". Same is true for guys in my thinking that guys are naturally going to get bigger with the passage of time - unless you are really engaging in some deprivation in the diet, sleep and/or exercise department.