Post: #1

A couple months ago I was texting this girl/ messaging her, and things didn't go so well. I've known her for a couple years but a few months ago I wanted to bang her.

She turned out to be a massive attention whore a would play weird games, mostly because I had okay inner game. Now that my inner game is getting better. Way better, I recently cut her off. This was a couple months ago, I tried to get a meet up but she made an excuse. I took her off of my bbm but I told her that I was switching phones hence I wouldn't be using bbm, even though that is bs. I just didn't want her to think I removed her out of spite and start a revenge plot. This chick seems kinda psycho anyway.

Last time I removed a girl off of bbm out of spite, she got her freinds to stalk me on Facebook and she basically tried to make me look like an asshole so no girl would go near me, lol which didn't work cuz really, I don't go out of my way to be mean.

Long story short, I told this recent girl I wasn't going to be using bbm so that I wouldn't get a repeat of the other girl. Anyway, this recent girl has put sappy posts on Facebook and put songs on her posts too, like "somebody I used to know" by got ye. A couple weeks ago she poked me on Facebook and today I got a vague text from her(she still had my number, but I removed her from bbm). The text said "should I get blank or blank, feedback needed!" at first I thought it was just a general question but that kinda question should be asked on Facebook, not a chain text unless girls do that.

I really don't wanna start these games again so I was thinking I'd go uber beta on her to get her off my back. I really don't need more stalkers. Or what I really want to do is text her back saying "who is this?"

Have you guys experienced anything similar, I have a feeling that she just wants validation and this will lead nowhere, any thoughts? She did initiate contact first though.

Thanks

Post: #2

Why are you giving her so much indirect attention in your mind(taking her off bbm, facebook, telling her something else, thinking too much about her intentions etc etc) ?

As a player, you gotta be cold as polar ice. What she does, wants, needs, acts should all be irrelevant. Only what should be relevant is what you want. And what you want is her pussy, on your own terms with as little overall investment as possible. Don't focus too much on her actions. If she initiates contact, play it cool and aloof. Invite her over for a drink. If she comes over, then escalate and bang. If not, give her shit about it and next her. And stop playing these little "bbm/im/facebook/text games", they're nothing but a time sink and ruin your chances. As simple as that.

Post: #3

I've done the "who is this?" With varying degrees of success.

If you really don't want to have anything to do with her dont reply or reply with one or two word answers. She'll get the hint.

Post: #4

Ya that's what I was thinking too. Too much time is being spent thinking about her. I had forgotten about her but ya, I think I should just go for the bang with as little investment as possible.

Thanks