Post: #1

So last night I was out and met a big mixed group of international folks, all studying abroad here.

After a gorgeous Mexican girl had trouble at the bar ordering a "two x," I was so kind as to explain to her that, even in English we say "dos equis," and we started chatting. She was into my Spanish, travels, dancing, and everything was going great. A real friendly conversation with no bitchiness from her. She asked me "You're so friendly, why aren't Americans this friendly always? I never meet friendly people like you!"

Anyway, we talked for maybe 45 minutes just us two, danced some reggaeton, having a good time. It was early in the night, maybe 10:30, and everyone had just started drinking.

My American thinking dictated that I start flirting and dancing with all the girls in the group. The rest were cute Brazilians, pretty but not as killer as the Mexican chick, who was my goal.

Long story short, I ended up being the social butterfly, thinking it made me look like the shit, dancing salsa with the Brazilian chicks, spitting Portuguese, Spanish, French, whatever, thinking I was building up my value.

But all this time my real target was more and more arinconada with this one dude in the corner. She was friendly, and would dance and talk with whoever, but more and more was just talking with this one guy, not really dancing or drinking too much.

I excused myself for a breather, not thinking much of it, and I come back and she's making out with him. I redirect my attention towards a cute Brazilian, and we start making out. Soon it's a big multilingual makeout party all over.

But I blew it with the stunning chick I really wanted by bouncing around. My idea is that, with a genuinely friendly latina, the American style of creating jealousy and acting disinterested goes over their heads.

She didn't try to grab my attention away from the Brazilian chicks. She thought I was genuinely more interested in dancing with the Brazilians than talking with her, so found a guy who would talk with her all night, and they ended up together. Which makes sense in a non-crazy (non-American) mindframe.

So when you find yourself having a nice friendly convo with a cute latina who's showing no bitchiness or anything, do you generally think its best to just focus all your attention on them instead of playing the social butterfly a lo gringo? Seems to me that's what happened. Showing real interest, as opposed to acting disinterested, could actually be rewarded. Amazing concept...

Post: #2

You were playing games when there was no reason to. You were dealing with a Mexican woman. But, you were using a strategy designed for American girls. You have to adjust your strategy to the woman you're gaming. Americans like to play these bullshit passive-aggressive games. Many other cultures do not. If you have been following Roosh's stories from Europe, then you know that Roosh has dropped alot of that "American style" of gaming and is now behaving alot more "beta".

He even wrote a post recently titled - Am I Losing The Ability To Bang Western Women?

Calibration is so important. You can't use the same style on every girl.

Mexican women (born in Mexico) are much more simple then the average American girl. There is really no need to play games. If she likes you, she will display that by being sweet to you and giving you attention.

You went to go socialize with other girls so the Mexican girl probably thought that you didn't like her.

The dude in the corner focused his attention on her and he got her.

Play "gringo rules" with American girls. Adjust to women from other cultures. Thats what this forum is for, to educate yourself on women from other cultures and then calibrate accordingly.

Post: #3

"If you go for some maybe so pussy over some fo sho (for sure) pussy, you end up with no pussy"- My granddad