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Girls who say they want to hang out but don't
I met a solid 9 model about two weeks ago at a club. We exchanged numbers and spoke for a good 20 minutes. I called and texted two days later and no response. Coincidentally I bumped into her 3 days ago and she asked when we could see each other and I said this week. So I texted and called today again. No response. Both times I talked to her I seemed nervous and don't have experience talking to models which this girl is. But she did not need to stop me on the street to get my attention a few days ago if she was not interested.
This is the type of girl with 2,000+ friends on facebook (she asked me if I used it, and I said yes, but did not give it to her). All of this is in Brasil btw.
08-27-2012 10:29 PM
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RE: Girls who say they want to hang out but don't
attention whore, on to the next one
08-28-2012 11:58 AM
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RE: Girls who say they want to hang out but don't
Girls are on the phone 24/7 texting and FB'n. So if she's not responding to you:

1. She's getting fucked at the time
2. You're very low priority to her

She should at least follow up to a message at some point.
I say move on.

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08-28-2012 02:36 PM
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What the others said, if a girl doesn't have the common courtesy to respond and decline just next her.
08-30-2012 02:33 AM
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On to the next one. Alternatively, try non sequitur game.

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08-30-2012 02:55 AM
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RE: Girls who say they want to hang out but don't
(08-27-2012 10:29 PM)PJEUA Wrote:  I met a solid 9 model about two weeks ago at a club. We exchanged numbers and spoke for a good 20 minutes. I called and texted two days later and no response. Coincidentally I bumped into her 3 days ago and she asked when we could see each other and I said this week. So I texted and called today again. No response. Both times I talked to her I seemed nervous and don't have experience talking to models which this girl is. But she did not need to stop me on the street to get my attention a few days ago if she was not interested.
This is the type of girl with 2,000+ friends on facebook (she asked me if I used it, and I said yes, but did not give it to her). All of this is in Brasil btw.

Look on the bright side! She's a 9, not a 5.5! mrgreen

PS: Good move on the not giving fb part.
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09-01-2012 04:18 PM
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RE: Girls who say they want to hang out but don't
(08-28-2012 02:36 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  Girls are on the phone 24/7 texting and FB'n. So if she's not responding to you:

1. She's getting fucked at the time
2. You're very low priority to her

She should at least follow up to a message at some point.
I say move on.

I appreciate these words because they're honest and level headed. This may be an incorrect judgement, but it sounds as if you lost as soon as you learned she was a model. Just as the community is always teaching: "you are not your job." you've have to realize that the same applies to this female.

It's shitty though because the majority of men, aren't us. So as soon as you start treating her "like a model" she starts treating you like "a loser," or like every other guy who goes gaga over her profession. It might be too late on this one bc 1st impressions are hard to rewrite, but just keep that in mind for the next "model" you meet.
09-02-2012 10:00 PM
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RE: Girls who say they want to hang out but don't
IMO it seems that "model" is a job many men will tend to go gaga over.
For instance, we wouldn't be that looking forward to impress if she said "secretary", "nurse", or "fitness coach" even if she is a 8.5, 9.
It's almost unconsciously we pedestalize just based on the word alone. I know I do this, although I'm trying to stop.

Her: "I'm a medical student"
Me: continue normally yata yata

Her: "I'm a model"
Me: oohaah. . . . damn gotta show some DHV

anyone agree or has this happen to them?

I tend to agree with Parlay's answer.
10-24-2012 02:52 PM
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since she's not really THAT interested in you yet.. you have 2 options IMO:

- go all out - tell her straight up what's up and let the chips fall where they may
- plan b - keep sending her invitations from time to time to parties/events but don't really expect her to come out instantly. "hey the spot for xxx day is yyy come join epic fun see ya"
10-24-2012 03:43 PM
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You can tell all that by reading body language. Read 120 body language signals that she likes you. That helped me not to waste time on girls that nothing would happen with.
10-26-2012 12:44 AM
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RE: Girls who say they want to hang out but don't
(08-27-2012 10:29 PM)PJEUA Wrote:  This is the type of girl with 2,000+ friends on facebook (she asked me if I used it, and I said yes, but did not give it to her).


Forget about it, bro. You're just Another Pic In The Wall!

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10-26-2012 05:33 AM
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