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Wingman is cockblocking
I have a platonic female friend who's been my main wing since a red pill friend had a blue pill relapse. She's a 5, maybe 6 on a good day (thus "platonic"). Lukewarm for preselection/social proof, but she's extroverted, connected, and has hot friends.

At first, things were great. She talked me up, excused herself at the right times, even called me out when I was working below my league. She was instrumental in my proudest conquest to date--a hard 9 with great tits.

The last few weekends, however, were bad. I think my success has made me more attractive to HER and the hamster is wreaking havoc. It started with her body language and flirtatiousness (with me) but in the past month has become full on sabotage shit.

It's pissing me off and I'm not sure how to proceed. I don't like to blame others for my failures but I'm frankly not at a level where I can handle in-house threats. I'd call my skill level intermediate, but night game is my weakest area.

Anyone else been here before? I need some advice before it gets any uglier.
10-28-2012 04:59 AM
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don't go out with her... or start acting beta as shit. I've done this a few times to spare the feeling of some girls. I understand why woman are attracted to me, and I also understand how to kill that attraction. Just act beta and needy as shit.
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10-28-2012 05:24 AM
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Yeah what do you expect - you've DHV'd the fuck out of yourself to her without even aiming it at her - which made it all the more powerful.

Nice work!! Now she wants a piece.

Options:
1) Don't go out with her/ start acting beta as shit. Like 20Nation says. or;
2) Sleep with her.

Sounds like she was in love with you from the beginning and she was living vicariously through these other woman because she knows she's not in your league.

My opinion: run!!
(This post was last modified: 10-28-2012 06:23 AM by Nineteen84.)
10-28-2012 06:22 AM
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You don't have to run. Just hit her up for money every time you see her.
10-28-2012 06:44 AM
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Well she's probably done as far as being a wing goes, but you might as well hit that a couple times
10-28-2012 08:19 AM
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(10-28-2012 06:44 AM)Hades Wrote:  You don't have to run. Just hit her up for money every time you see her.

Or tell her to bring the movies. Maybe she'll knife a b*tch for you.
10-28-2012 09:36 AM
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That's the risk you run with a female wing. Fuck her a few times, drop her, then find yourself a new wing or learn to go at it solo.
10-28-2012 09:39 AM
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Bahh, I'm looking for a wing on here after having failed nights going solo and you want to get rid of the wing? The grass is always greener on the other side I guess.

She is a good wing if she got you a 9..I'd continue with her. Basically, get her to open chicks and introduce you but get rid of her before she has an opportunity to cockblock.

Feel the fear..then do it anyway.
10-28-2012 10:01 AM
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Tell her you'll sleep with her if she helps find an 8 for a threesome.

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10-28-2012 12:50 PM
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(10-28-2012 12:50 PM)MattC Wrote:  Tell her you'll sleep with her if she helps find an 8 for a threesome.

She might be into it Laugh



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10-28-2012 01:38 PM
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(10-28-2012 06:22 AM)Nineteen84 Wrote:  Sounds like she was in love with you from the beginning and she was living vicariously through these other woman because she knows she's not in your league.

I'm thinking the same thing. She masked it well for a long time. We were friends for years before I thought to leverage her wing potential. In retrospect I should have seen it coming.

Quote:My opinion: run!!

I'll probably drop her as a wing, or only go out if we're with a larger group. Like I said, we go back, and she's fine during the day. She's also my weed connect...
10-28-2012 03:38 PM
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(10-28-2012 10:01 AM)NewGamer Wrote:  She is a good wing if she got you a 9..
WAS a good wing, before her hamster took the wheel. Her biggest strength was her purple pill awareness and her man-like logical side. It was a deadly package.

Quote:Basically, get her to open chicks and introduce you but get rid of her before she has an opportunity to cockblock.
She's stopped doing even that. Which is fine, I can open no problem, but I don't have experience ditching cockblocks who I came with, who I'm friends with. The usual random-bitch/mother hen tactics don't feel so good when the target is a buddy.
10-28-2012 03:51 PM
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just roll solo if she is costing you lays.
10-28-2012 06:59 PM
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make clear that you appreciate her for helping you to get close to her friends, and that you are just a friend of her. If she doesn't change, eject.

"Fart, and if you must, fart often. But always fart without apology. Fart for freedom, fart for liberty, and fart proudly" (Ben Franklin)
(This post was last modified: 10-28-2012 07:03 PM by michelin.)
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