Post: #1

Hey guys, I know it's been posted countless times that adding girls on facebook comes off as needy and that people go as far as suggesting to get rid of it altogether, and I'm not saying this is bad advice but sometimes I feel like playing aloof and not adding on facebook isn't paying all its dividends. Are there situations when friend requesting could be useful? Even though beta it's for the notch knahmean.

Here are two examples:
First girl short blondie banging body and probs a virgin stumbled into me while drunk at a club a while ago. Kept giving me fuck me eyes. I lost no time, number closed but didn't make out because my crew was bitching around saying they wanted to leave (horrifyingly beta by my part to give in that easily and poor wingmanship, even friend spirit, by them). I'll chalk that up to still trying to better myself and making mistakes. I didn't have the chance to get back at her in useful time so basically her digits went straight to the dustbin.

Second one, another short blondie vixen with nice plump derriere I met at a skiing event. She looked like a total attention whore. My team jumped in on her got rejected in a matter of minutes. I danced by myself in a corner playing super aloof, she came closer, asked me what was up, chatted for a bit, took pics and started dancing beside me. I try grinding up on her to no avail, she keeps teasing me then bounces.


In both these instances, I can't deny it, there has been terrible game on my part but undeniable attraction. I didn't facebook add the first one because I was sure she was going to (her social circle is somewhat connected to mine and she knew me before we met). She didn't. As for the second one, the goddamn drama queen got added by my friends was tagged in a pic where she was feeling me up but won't add me. One of the guys is somewhat of a natural, he is wasting no time and got her digits and asked me if i wanted to come along because they're meeting up in groups but that's impossible since right now I'm back in my hometown for winter break.

Now in both cases I'm highly doubtful I'll get anything out of these two and I have already moved on (even though I feel really attracted to the first one plus she's a virgin... oneitis anyone?).
But I'm wondering, is following all the game precepts to the letter somehow hurting my game?
And
Could I have gotten anything from friend requesting any of the two?

Post: #2

Without reading a single word of your post, I can tell you the correct answer with a 99-percent level of certainty: don't.

Post: #3

Tuth I don't doubt your clairvoyance skills but my post was about aloof game where facebook is only a facet. My bad for naming the thread this way, facebook has been covered over and over and I guess that's why I'm not receiving many replies.

Post: #4

Facebook is your only facet?

What are you bed ridden?

Post: #5

Playing the devil's advocate here:

Last two girls I fucked I had previously added to facebook. Just sayin', it's not all bad.

Post: #6

(12-19-2012 04:22 PM)TheMan Wrote:  Facebook is your only facet?

What are you bed ridden?

Not sure if my phrasing is at fault again here but I'll try to clarify. Does adding girls who have previously shown interest in you on facebook automatically compromise your chances of banging them?
The answer seems to be "yup it does", but in the examples I posted above I'm not so sure about it.

EDIT: I sincerely hope this isn't my male hamster at work trying to rationalize why I didn't bang those chicks

Post: #7

(12-18-2012 08:35 AM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  Without reading a single word of your post, I can tell you the correct answer with a 99-percent level of certainty: don't.

I was going to enter this thread to write the same thing.