Post: #1

Hi there

I need help, and my ex needs help.
What happened is that we were in a relationship, everything was going great, really excellent, we both really enjoyed our time together, but she suddenly started thinking about a girl (as in, a lesbian girl), and started getting confused about her sexuality. However, I'm sure she is not, just as many other have gotten confused about that, and eventually get over it, I put my money in that it is a phase, and she will grow out of it, but I still feel that I must help her in some way.
I don't want her to become something she is not, and losing her along the way, this probably sounds selfish and clingy, and it probably is, but I understand that if things don't work out my life will continue and that I'll be fine eventually.

But this messed me up big time. I feel as a loser, because well, she dumped me for a girl, and it's not that she doesn't want me too (I have evidence), but that she got things so messed up in her head...

I don't know, I feel compelled to help her, but at the same time I think I should just let her hurt herself and separate from her.

I don't know what to do, can someone give me a hand? Thanks (:

Post: #2

(12-30-2012 12:42 AM)Aureo Wrote:  Hi there

I need help, and my ex needs help.
What happened is that we were in a relationship, everything was going great, really excellent, we both really enjoyed our time together, but she suddenly started thinking about a girl (as in, a lesbian girl), and started getting confused about her sexuality. However, I'm sure she is not, just as many other have gotten confused about that, and eventually get over it, I put my money in that it is a phase, and she will grow out of it, but I still feel that I must help her in some way.
I don't want her to become something she is not, and losing her along the way, this probably sounds selfish and clingy, and it probably is, but I understand that if things don't work out my life will continue and that I'll be fine eventually.

But this messed me up big time. I feel as a loser, because well, she dumped me for a girl, and it's not that she doesn't want me too (I have evidence), but that she got things so messed up in her head...

I don't know, I feel compelled to help her, but at the same time I think I should just let her hurt herself and separate from her.

I don't know what to do, can someone give me a hand? Thanks (:

Pick up a Cosmo or something dude. Sorry totally wrong forum.

Post: #3

(12-30-2012 12:50 AM)_DC_ Wrote:  Pick up a Cosmo or something dude. Sorry totally wrong forum.

Haha I thought this was about helping men with women?

Post: #4

Newbie section. There should be one big thread if someone has a question about a specific girl. This is a forum about being a player, not trying to save a girl.

Post: #5

fine

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Post: #7

Ditch her ass pick up new chicks. She prefers a woman over you? Forget her