Post: #1

Whats up guys. Longtime Lurker Here. First Post.


What do you call people who leech off of other people's game? As in, I put in the work of gaming a set while bystanders (by association) reap the benefits. I understand if it was a wingman, he would want to get some action too. Although I HATE having a wingman with game not at the same level as mine. Therefore, reaping all the benefits of my game. This is why I prefer riding solo. Any thoughts on Game Leechers? Lol. Or am I looking at this negatively?

Post: #2

Flying Solo is better for the reason you stated plus many more.

Post: #3

I agree with the "flying solo" edict.

Post: #4

As long as that guy is active and fun to be around I don't care if he's good with girls or not. That's all that matters to me. Conversely, if he's some lame weirdo in the corner passively waiting for someone to bring him some girl then fuck no.

Post: #5

If you don't like him leeching off your set, tell him how you feel or ask him not to enter your conversations.

Sounds like you are having problem setting boundaries?

Post: #6

I don't think the issue is the fact that he isn't flying solo. But it's weird because random people have never leeched off my game.

Post: #7

I'm not entirely sure what exactly you're describing. You open a set, the girls are having a good time, and some other dude sees this and tries to insert himself into the situation to try to pick one of them up? I usually actually appreciate it when this happens, because it makes it easier to isolate one girl while he entertains the rest. When the conversation and vibe can continue once you're gone, it makes things look less like a "pickup" and more like a natural flow of events.

Of course you and the girl and everyone else know exactly what you're doing, but you have much more plausible deniability, and that's all girls really want anyway.

Post: #8

I got no problem in having a wingman or being one, supporting another guy, doing synergics, etc. What makes me mad is when they instead of teaming up with you they try to take a girl you've invested time and money in in spite of having plenty of them around.

Can't imagine something lower than taking food from a friend's dish when he has taken you to an all you can eat restaurant because you're hungry.

Post: #9

If he comes in and makes a move on a girl that you've clearly picked out as a target, then just AMOG him. It could be an honest mistake, or it could be him being a dick, but either way, don't let that shit fly. But I'm getting a big sense of a scarcity mentality in this thread. There's always another girl. There's always enough to go around for you and the other guy. It's not a zero sum game, if you two can help each other out, there's no reason not to.