Post: #1

I'll keep it short.

Met this Brazilian girl outside of this club about three weeks ago, really hit it off with her, she was sweet and fun to talk to. Anyways, I don't have a cell phone so I gave her my soundcloud. The next day she had already favorited some of my songs which was cool . Anyways, I added her on facebook two nights ago, she accepted quickly and immediately responded with "heey" on chat (I wasn't online so it's in my messages)

Anyways, I was just going to respond with, something like

hey, what's going on? saw that you got to my soundcloud, good work. check out my band as well

are you any good at singing? (as an excuse to get her over my house to 'record' . Don't know if that counts as qualifying as well)

let's grab drinks sometime.

Pinch

What do you guys think? I've already waited a day and a half to respond and I feel like I should get back to her tonight.

Thanks.

Post: #2

Hey, my band is playing at acme restaurant on thursday. Come check us out and we can grab drinks after.

Post: #3

That looks good but we aren't playing a show that soon.

Post: #4

I'm probably making it a lot more complicated than it really is, looks like she's somewhat interested, why not a direct response?

Post: #5

Yeah, you're making it more complicated than it needs to be. She's interested, so you don't need some kind of cover to get her out. Just ask her out.

Post: #6

Keep it short, lad. Don't overthink things either and just build some comfort over a couple of messages with her before asking her over. Oh, and get a phone sorted. Too much on Facebook will kill your game.

Post: #7

Yeah I'd probably ask for her number in the next message you send and arrange the meet up over phone.