Post: #1

Generally speaking I tend to avoid girls that are usually only drinking water or a soda if they are out at night usually in the belief it is much harder to get a phone number or anything else off of them. Should I expand my horizon's and see hit on the sober girls ?

Post: #2

(03-19-2013 09:43 AM)rishboy77 Wrote:  Generally speaking I tend to avoid girls that are usually only drinking water or a soda if they are out at night usually in the belief it is much harder to get a phone number or anything else off of them. Should I expand my horizon's and see hit on the sober girls ?

The questions is WHY are they not drinking? Are they a teetotaler? Worried because there is alchoholism is the family? Taking a break from it? Not drinking THAT night?

It's a complicated question with different implications.

Meanwhile, you can game women when they are sober, though it is easier when they are tipsy.

Post: #3

Hit on all girls you find attractive?

Post: #4

Yes you should avoid girls that still have some sense in them. Leave them for me.

Post: #5

Not necessarily. Some of the wildest girls I was with in my early twenties were the self-proclaimed "good girls." These included several church-going Christians and an Orthodox Jewish girl, all of whom didn't drink, do drugs, or even listen to certain types of rock music.

But they were amongst the most forward girls sexually when I brought them back to my dorm room. They were stone cold sober and knew exactly what they were doing.

Women are a crap shoot personality-wise and often live by bizarre sets of rules that will never make any sense to any man. This one doesn't drink. That one won't eat meat. Blah blah blah. It's all usually done to create some sort of "image" that falls by the wayside when the door slams shut and the clothes come off.

By ruling out one segment of the female population, you reduce your chances for some serious action.

(Addendum: I forgot to mention I bonded with these types of girls because I didn't drink much at the time either, since I was heavily influenced by "straight edge" hardcore punk music. Sometimes, deliberately being non-conformist about drinking socially will win you the respect of these women. This, in retrospect, was an "approach" I used, and I'd recommend using it on the non-drinkers -- although if you've not heard of straight edge, you probably want to research what it was, then listen to some Minor Threat and Fugazi.)

Post: #6

Take it one girl at a time. Is she hot? Is she giving off a vibe you can click with? Are there other girls who are drinking who are hotter or situated so they'd be easier to approach? There's no reason not to approach sober gals, per se, though I usually don't if I've had more than a couple of drinks, since it never pans out. It's easier to connect with girls who are at roughly the same level of inebriation as yourself.

Post: #7

Thanks for all the info guys. I hate to be judgemental but I was asking based on previous experience that I rarely have success with women that are not drinking - note I`m not looking for a drunk slut but somebody that is giving off a vibe that she might be interested. Lately I have cut down on the drinking especially if I have to drive. These days I might have a small bite of pot brownie if I need to loosen up before going out.

Post: #8

A lot of girls need to drink in order to loosen up enough to have sex. I've found girls who don't drink and still want to fuck are a lot more open sexually and have fewer hang ups in general. It might take a little more work to seduce them but if you know how to take a girl on an emotional journey you shouldn't have a problem.

Post: #9

no fool dont avoid anyone you're attracted too.

fuck, on the whole the nondrinkers probably make better gf material if thats what you're lookin for

Post: #10

One of my girls didn't drink until I met her ... now I got her drinking whiskey like a champ. If you meet a girl who doesn't drink and you want a girl who drinks, convince her to start drinking. Girls you meet aren't fucking you at first and you convince them to do that. Same thing.

Post: #11

I stay away from girls who don't drink, not because they are impossible to bang necessarily, but because they in my experience at least require a lot more time and effort to bang

Alcohol lowers inhibitions, making quick sex more likely.
Also girls who don't drink tend to be less impulsive, less sensual, less risk taking, more self disciplined and more conservative- traits that make quick sex much less likely
However, keep an eye out for the secret drinker-the girl who says publicly that she doesn't drink but actually does in private. Guess what else she does secretly in private?

Post: #12

Depends, but it general yes. Some people would tell you "hit on everything brah, are you some kind of pussy that can only snag drunk and easy girls" but it's simply a matter of resource saving, and it depends on your priorities (you want someone just for fucking or you want someone for relationship).

Easier close with a tipsy girl > Harder close with a sober girl
Drunk raw wild sex > Sober sex with a bit of (her) nervousness

The only thing that is better with sober girls is the sense of accomplishment that your presence and actions alone made some girl really horny and made her spread her legs gladly for you.