Post: #1

What's the best way of ensuring a good girl doesn't become a bitter bitch after the breakup?

Last night around 2AM I broke up with my 8.5/10 gf of 8 months. Fell in love with her and stuff because she is really sweet and feminine. Had sex as often as possible and she was really considerate because I am a really horny dude. But recently our fights became really bad. I started receiving messages from some random girls I haven't heard from in ages, one of them asking me to do to drinks in a "give me attention and be my beta party guide". Unfortunately she saw it, and made a big deal out of it, asking me to "arrange a meeting with her for us so she can see what's my relation with her". I really didn't want to give some random half-known bitch my precious time that I want to spend with my gf so I firmly denied. She accused me that I am hiding something and the fight got so bad that I knew our tensions reached the breakup level. I told her it won't work anymore because it was the fourth fight over the same stuff in a week and a half.

This girl gave everything to me and now she is in emotional pain. She called me last night at 4AM from her mother's number and I felt like piece of shit hearing her cry so hard she couldn't say anything but painful "good luck my love". I probably failed some major shit test I am not aware of, but she really doesn't deserve the pain she is going through. I think I should've just fucked the shit out of her to make her forget about those messages, but logistics aren't really going to my favor recently (my place isn't available). What are your suggestions? Can I save my relationship? If not how can I save her from "I gave him all of it and he left me. I should've been a bitch so I'm now going to become one" mindset? I don't want to participate in a creation of a bitter feminist.

Post: #2

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

Nothing you can do but stick to your guns and ignore her. It's going to suck for her, but she'll eventually get over it. All of the crying and shit is an attempt to make you feel bad and reconsider. If you do reconsider, expect the bitchiness to increase tenfold.

You should have set that meeting up though. You could have tried to game a threesome, or at least seen a catfight.

Post: #3

The worst thing you can do is try and take care of her.

You shot the deer. It's going to die. The most compassionate thing you can do is let it die quickly.

In the case of a relationship that means no contact. The goods news is you broke up with her so if you play it cool in 6 months or a year you can convert to a FWB/booty call type situation.

Post: #4

As an old German saying goes: Nur Eintopf schmeckt gut aufgewärmt. Only stew tastes good when reheated. Trust me, I've been there and skeeze is right, it'll only get worse.

Post: #5

alternative: go beta, if necessary omega: bomb her with silly messages until she gets literally tired of you, so she'll conclude it's the best for her not to lose time with this idiot.

Post: #6

Phase her out competely or do as michelin says and go full on beta with her. They are your only two options.

It's not your responsibility to take care of her, if she had done the dumping do you think she would care about your feelings and want to look after you while you suffer? No. Girls are stone cold bitches, she would happily toss you aside without any remorse. A lot of guys need to learn to be the same.

If you want to get back with her, chasing her will do no good. She'll most likely come around after a week or so without you and say she'll want to get back with you. This will only happen if you phase her out and go cold turkey.