Post: #1

Check out this ok cupid interraction:

ME: You seem like a go getter. Like myself, I'm always up for a challenge since life is too short. What's one the riskiest decisions you've ever made?

How did you lose the jersey accent? still working on mine.

-ME

15% Enemy 63% Friend 79% Match Sent to fayerocious
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HER: Moving to the west coast right after high school, not knowing anyone or ever visiting.. Might be one. Turned out for the best though...

I don't think I ever really had much of an accent to begin with.


So WTF... She views my profile, i send her a message, she views again and replies. Yet, she doesn't ask anything. Is there even a hint of interest? How do you deal with shit like this or am I just overthinking and should just plow through?

Post: #2

Don't ask questions. Make statements. She gave you a ton to work with there.

Post: #3

(04-01-2013 08:50 PM)Ensam Wrote:  Don't ask questions. Make statements. She gave you a ton to work with there.

And the last few girls i've talked to gave me a question.

What's your suggestion and how would you go about this?

Post: #4

(04-01-2013 10:19 PM)Manystyles Wrote:  

(04-01-2013 08:50 PM)Ensam Wrote:  Don't ask questions. Make statements. She gave you a ton to work with there.

And the last few girls i've talked to gave me a question.

What's your suggestion and how would you go about this?

Give a vague/funny response. Ask an open ended question in return based on that subject or segue into something else you want to talk about that will get you closer to getting her comfortable enough to give you her number.

Post: #5

It's called having a conversation bro. "I love the west coast. The beaches! Why did you move

Post: #6

I've found the "gay" response to a girls lack of questioning, as trended by Heartiste, to be fairly comical, and in the right circumstances, effective in inciting a response and getting a girl interested enough to put the work into asking you a question.

Post: #7

Jaylow is right
Make your response witty, one that you know will/should elicit a response
if she doesn't reply then 'next' her, there will be others who will respond
it's ok to ask a question here and there, as you will need them in order to develop any real connection, but in the initial interactions, keep it light and make more statements than questions
and make statements that are interesting or a little bit different, or if not that, then somewhat provocative, this will help you get your foot in the door per se