Post: #1

So last night I approached 3 girls and it went pretty well (this is a university campus)...I then approached 4 girls and opened with a rough english translation of 'Hello Ladies' and I'm guessing the alpha from the group, looked smiled said hello and then she just started laughing maniacally. Of course the rest followed. The only thing going through my head was 'wtf what do I do with this bag of bones'. Before I would have felt a resounding 'FU go to hell' sort of reply but this time it was just funny. Just wish I had a good way to make the best of something like that.

Now that I think of it I probably should have negged her? Or should I have ignored her and started working the friends over? What would have worked best in that kind of situation?

Post: #2

Your in a university campus. Aren't there any girls alone sitting somewhere?

The main advantage of daygame is no cockblocking by outside sources.

Post: #3

Well if they all laughed from the start then it probably has something to do with how you are portraying yourself and your confidence. Or perhaps it can be the way you dress and your general demeanour.

Were you smiling?

Were you confident?

Were you engaging in interesting conversation and leading the interaction? (I can answer this one for you. No you weren't since you just left the whole thing hanging after saying "hello ladies").

By the sounds of it the "hello ladies" line came across to them as a cheesy run of the mill pick up line.

Post: #4

(05-25-2013 01:10 PM)gandt Wrote:  Well if they all laughed from the start then it probably has something to do with how you are portraying yourself and your confidence. Or perhaps it can be the way you dress and your general demeanour.

Were you smiling?

Were you confident?

Were you engaging in interesting conversation and leading the interaction? (I can answer this one for you. No you weren't since you just left the whole thing hanging after saying "hello ladies").

By the sounds of it the "hello ladies" line came across to them as a cheesy run of the mill pick up line.

Ahh so what you're saying it's ok to start with something lame like 'hello ladies' but I should immediately follow up, whereas 'hello ladies' becomes the attention getter and nothing more. I see I have to make the next move to get them to open up after they focus on me.

Another question. A 3 set I opened yesterday are roommates. Is there a way to play it to get two of them? The problem is I'm not sure which one is more interested from the two (they both seem interested quite a lot).. One was ok with me being physical and returning physicallity, while the other was more intuitively asking me questions laughing and trying to stay in the conversations. She was also getting horoscopy on me. This one also volunteered her number when I first opened them.

Just reading what I wrote I think I screwed up I should of probably have been physical with the one that gave me her number to begin with... I do not have the number of the one that I was more physical with. What would be my best approach right now? Ask out the one that gave me her number, get in contact with the one that was more physical, or try to game them both? And if both...tips please?

Post: #5

Stop thinking about it.
Try other girls.
The only way to get good is to do it.
Before you can be mildly good at something you have to suck at it first.
Don't think so much, do what feels natural
And stop the hello ladies shit.
Every time I read hello ladies I think of an old, creepy and rich Arab man

Post: #6

"Hey, Guys."