Post: #1

I frequent this bar and there is a very hot waitress who works there. We are somewhat friendly and chat from time to time. Anyway, I see her one night while she isn't working and she is out drinking with friends and she comes up to say hi and we are talking/flirting a little bit. Her friend/roommate/coworker says she wants to leave and they leave. I get a text later that night saying "If you couldn't tell I was trying to flirt with you earlier" or something like that.

I take it as a drunk girl late night text but hey, she gave me an opportunity so might as well try to capitalize. We make plans to go out and then BOOM the night before she is with friends and gets this freak kidney infection and has to go to the hospital, can't go out the next day, can't drink or even GO INTO THE SUN for 3 weeks because of anti-biotics. We go out a few days later and it's fine, we have fun but it's a bit stale since there are no drinks to loosen us up. I figure what the hell, wait it out and try to do something when she gets better. I see her at her work when I am with friends and we chat blablabla, hang out at her work one or two times before she gets on work yadda yadda. Few days after she is off medication I try and get her to go out, make plans, day of: her kidney is acting up again, hospital again but no medication this time, I don't attempt to reschedule.

Basically, with my busy schedule and her cockblocking kidneys I am tired of trying to get this lay, at this rate she'll probably die by the time I get her in bed. As of right now I am pretty much done with the girl and her broken ass kidneys and shes on the back burner for that random bang but she is pretty good looking. Advice?

Bad luck like this always happens to me when it comes to girls I have found.

Post: #2

Girls lives are constant problems: illness, accidents,menstrual periods, family drama ,child issues, work problems,money problems, alcohol and drug problems, friend drama, it never ends

Example: recently one of my girls caused a car accident that destroyed her vehicle and seriously hurt the other driver

Here's the secret-if you have one girl, her problems are your problems. Just ask any married guy. But if you have several girls you are seeing, and a lot more girls in your pipeline, the problems of any one girl don't affect you much at all

Solution: approach and date more girls

This is really a Newbie Forum question

Post: #3

(06-10-2013 01:32 AM)MrXY Wrote:  Solution: approach and date more girls

This is really a Newbie Forum question

Yeah I was waiting for that inevitable response. She isn't the only girl I have been gaming, she is just the only one that I haven't been able to bang because of this type of problem that I have ran into before. That is why I am posting, not particularly about this girl I guess. I should have worded it differently, but this situation is the freshest on hand to give an example of.

So you're basically just saying fuck it, next. That's what I thought.

Post: #4

Lets paint a bigger picture for you real quick.

What will you do if you bang this chick and she gets pregnant? On top of that she has an illness that only gives her one year to live.

She wants to have the baby and wants you to keep it because she doesn't want to die with any kids.

You see what MrXY is talking about now?

Post: #5

(06-10-2013 01:32 AM)MrXY Wrote:  Girls lives are constant problems: illness, accidents,menstrual periods, family drama ,child issues, work problems,money problems, alcohol and drug problems, friend drama, it never ends

Example: recently one of my girls caused a car accident that destroyed her vehicle and seriously hurt the other driver

Here's the secret-if you have one girl, her problems are your problems. Just ask any married guy. But if you have several girls you are seeing, and a lot more girls in your pipeline, the problems of any one girl don't affect you much at all

Solution: approach and date more girls

This is really a Newbie Forum question

"...recently one of my girls caused a car accident that destroyed her vehicle and seriously hurt the other driver..."

Man that's so funny. Sorry to digress, but I have to share this.

I just recently had a woman call me complaining her insurance company "dropped her out of the blue." She had no idea how it happened. Hmm..did she ever, like, cause any accidents? Well, yes, she said. Did she get any tickets? Lots of 'em. What else? Well, she let her uninsured sister drive the car and lil' sis caused a multi-car accident.

So I told her "I give up." I have no idea why the insurance company would drop her with that sterling record. She didn't get the irony. At first.