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RE: Official Book Recommendation thread
This just got brought up over at Heartiste -- a classic I need to re-read every couple of years:
Games People Play: The Psychology of Human Relationships by Eric Berne (1964).
Quote:The second half of the book catalogues a series of "mind games" in which people interact through a patterned and predictable series of "transactions" which are superficially plausible (that is, they may appear normal to bystanders or even to the people involved), but which actually conceal motivations, include private significance to the parties involved, and lead to a well-defined predictable outcome, usually counterproductive. The book uses casual, often humorous phrases such as "See What You Made Me Do," "Why Don't You — Yes But," and "Ain't It Awful" as a way of briefly describing each game. In reality, the "winner" of a mind game is the person that returns to the Adult ego-state first.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Games_Peopl...%28book%29
Another red pill book in the same vein:
Scripts People Live: Transactional Analysis of Life Scripts by Claude Steiner
Quote:Not everyone has a script, since not everyone is following a forced, premature, early-childhood decision... [But] the fact that a person has a script is a detriment to the possibilities of living to the fullest human potential." (Pg. 123-124) Scripts covered in the book include: Rescuer/Persecutor/Victim; Poor Little Me; Queen Bee; Big Daddy; Jock; Intellectual, etc.
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RE: Official Book Recommendation thread
The Wisdom of Psychopaths by Kevin Dutton
Interesting book on psychopathy and how science currently views this "illness". It's beginning to dawn on some scientists that a low degree of psychopathy - subpsychopathy - can bring certain advantages in our modern world; many business CEOs, elite soldiers and neurosurgeons (among other professions) exhibit different traits of psychopathy. These traits include manipulating people to your own ends, disregarding the emotions of others and fearlessness. Sounds like a little something called The Dark Triad...
The Second World War by Anthony Beevor
This is the book I'm currently reading. I'd read a lot of good things about Beevor's works and had been looking for a large tome on WW2 to dive into, so this book felt like a natural choice. Beevor is a great writer; there's an urgency in the prose that propels you further into the escalating conflict of this gargantuan war. The amount of research that must have gone into this book is dizzying. I have a feeling I will learn a lot from it.
Thirteen by Richard Morgan
This is a hard boiled Sci-fi, set 100 years into the future. It revolves around Carl Marsalis, a man who's been genetically engineered to be alpha. Cave-man alpha. He's part of a new breed of men called Thirteens, a genetic throwback to humanity's dark, violent beginnings. Thirteens are hyper-violent, fearless and intelligent. As they serve no purpose other than war and destruction, Thirteens are shipped to Mars in times of peace, in order to protect society from these brutal and unpredictable men.
Carl Marsalis, however, has a certain degree of control over his genetic heritage, which makes him suitable for tracking down and apprehending rogue Thirteens. When a shuttle from Mars crashes into the Pacific Ocean, its crew cannibalized, Marsalis is called in to investigate...
Good writing, a tight plot and interesting themes makes this book stand out among other Sci-fi yarns.
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RE: Official Book Recommendation thread
So many good ones out there. But there are a few that I keep coming back to over and over again. If you get a chance, check these two out:
1. "Prisoners of the Japanese" by Gavan Daws. I bought this at a bookstore in Seoul back in the late 1990s and sat down to read it at a fast food joint. I stayed there for about 3 hours straight reading this. It was that good. It's a collection of anecdotes and narratives from Americans, British, and Australians who were captured and imprisoned by the Japanese Army in the Pacific during the Second World War. It has to be one of the best accounts of men and suffering I've ever read, period. It's a precious resource of oral history. It's also useful for providing a window into how men behave under pressure. In these camps, there was starvation, disease, cowardice, heroism, good leadership, bad leadership, and everything in between. This books shows you what human nature really is.
2. "Asad" by Patrick Seale. This is a detailed and informed biography of former Syrian president Hafez al Assad. If ever there was a master of the art of statecraft, it was old man Assad. Even those who are not interested in Middle East politics will find this biography a fascinating account of the rise to power of a driven yet inscrutable man. How he accomplished his ascent to the throne, and how he kept power, is a compelling lesson in leadership.
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RE: Official Book Recommendation thread
This Book is called "As a Man Thinketh" and is free. You can find it in PDF all over the Web.
Suprisingly It's over 100 years old. It speaks about how we, as men, can think a certain way and so it shall Manifest that way. This has been spoken upon numerous times but here is some Raw Nitty Gritty that is an excelllent read.
This a link to one of the many free PDFs
http://wahiduddin.net/thinketh/as_a_man_thinketh.pdf
Quote:Thought and Character
The aphorism, "As a man thinketh in his heart so is he," not only embraces the whole of a man's being, but is so
comprehensive as to reach out to every condition and circumstance of his life. A man is literally
what he thinks,
his character being the complete sum of all his thoughts.
As the plant springs from, and could not be without, the seed, so every act of a man springs from the hidden
seeds of thought, and could not have appeared without them. This applies equally to those acts called
"spontaneous" and "unpremeditated" as to those which are deliberately executed.
Act is the blossom of thought, and joy and suffering are its fruits; thus does a man garner in the sweet and bitter
fruitage of his own husbandry.
Thought in the mind hath made us. What we are
By thought we wrought and built. If a man's mind
Hath evil thoughts, pain comes on him as comes
The wheel the ox behind . . . If one endure
In purity of thought, joy follows him
As his own shadow - sure.
Man is a growth by law, and not a creation by artifice, and cause and effect is as absolute and undeviating in the
hidden realm of thought as in the world of visible and material things. A noble and Godlike character is not a
thing of favor or chance, but is the natural result of continued effort in right thinking, the effect of long-
cherished association with Godlike thoughts. An ignoble and bestial character, by the same process, is the result
of the continued harboring of groveling thoughts.
Man is made or unmade by himself; in the armory of thought he forges the weapons by which he destroys
himself; he also fashions the tools with which he builds for himself heavenly mansions of joy and strength and
peace. By the right choice and true application of thought, man ascends to the Divine Perfection; by the abuse
and wrong application of thought, he descends below the level of the beast. Between these two extremes are all
the grades of character, and man is their maker and master.
Of all the beautiful truths pertaining to the soul which have been restored and brought to light in this age, none is
more gladdening or fruitful of divine promise and confidence than this - that man is the master of thought, the
molder of character, and maker and shaper of condition, environment, and destiny.
As a being of Power, Intelligence, and Love, and the Lord of his own thoughts, man holds the key to every
situation, and contains within himself that transforming and regenerative agency by which he may make himself
what he wills.
Man is always the master, even in his weakest and most abandoned state; but in his weakness and degradation
he is the foolish master who misgoverns his household. When he begins to reflect upon his condition, and to
search diligently for the Law upon which his being is established, he then becomes the wise master, directing his
energies with intelligence, and fashioning his thoughts to fruitful issues. Such is the
conscious
master, and man
can only thus become by discovering
within himself
the laws of thought; which discovery is totally a matter of
application, self-analysis, and experience.
Only by much searching and mining are gold an diamonds obtained, and man can find every truth connected
with his being if he will dig deep into the mine of his soul; and that he is the maker of his character, the molder
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RE: Official Book Recommendation thread
I'm only about a third of the way through, but so far I'd highly recommend "Thinking, Fast and Slow" by Daniel Kahnemann.
It's a well-written exploration of how the mind makes decisions, breaking the brain up into two separate operating systems, system 1 and system 2, and explaining the roles they play in thinking. It's fascinating from a number of viewpoints, and is useful when thinking about attraction, learning, teaching, problem solving, etc.
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RE: Official Book Recommendation thread
(08-23-2013 10:10 AM)DarianFrey Wrote: I'm looking for a book on the history of Ancient Greece. I've checked out The Landmark Thucydides but I don't feel intellectually mature enough to read it yet. It's the kind of book one should read while sipping whisky and smoking pipe in the study of an 18th century mansion.
Any recommendations? Big plus if it's available on Kindle, though not necessary.
Don't worry, Thucydides History of the Peloponesian War doesn't need a mature intellect.
It's very plain and direct in its prose.
More than anything, it requires patience.
It can be a huge slog at times and you question why you decided to read it in the first place.
I personally didn't enjoy it as much as I thought I would.
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