Post: #1

To the guys who CONSISTENTLY hear "omg that was the best sex I've ever had" from the women they are banging...

What are your go to moves in the bedroom?

I know we have threads on sex. But I want to hear it from the experts who fuck women so well they turn the hottest unattainable women into stage 5 clingers.

The most powerful orgasm for a girl is the vaginal orgasm, which is achieved through consistent pounding in the right spot for 15-20 mins.

As you can imagine, achieving this can be a problem for most guys. So some resort to getting the girl off through oral.

Another thing is that when guys see a girl lying there and not moving when you are fucking her, they assume that it's because she isn't enjoying herself so we change the angle or position. However, it seems that you should keep fucking her without change for 15-20 mins to make her cum.

So to the guys who leave girls bodies shaking and their minds blown. Have at it!

Cheers!

Post: #2

Difficult to write about this subject without coming off as a blowhard or a braggart but I do think I have some insights to share. I don't know about "CONSISTENTLY" but I have heard that exact phrase a couple dozen times. So here are some things I've told to other men on the subject.

You're right about seeing through the clit-centric view which is pushed by the feminist-psychiatric-publishing complex—it's bullshit. It's not that the clit is unimportant, it's just that it's not the whole world.

Anyway, what I tell guys is: be deliberate about what you're trying to stimulate. Intercourse has the advantage that you can reach things you can't reach with your fingers or your tongue—specifically her cervix and the spaces formed by it on either side (anterior and posterior fornices). With some couples, the man won't be able to reach these no matter what he does but I believe that most men paired with most women won't have a problem if the man knows what he's doing. You can feel these structures with your cock (you can feel them with your fingers too; that's what gynecologists do during a routine pelvic and it proves that you don't need a monster cock to reach them) and you can judge by her reaction which of them is her happy place. For many, what you'll end up doing is sliding back and forth over the cervix and into the posterior fornix.

Don't assume that the girl has a clue about how to make this sex thing work. If she moves her legs or hips or whatever into a different position, that doesn't mean it was a smart move. They are at war with themselves over whether to cum or not. You are the agent that settles it. Speaking of positions, that's how you control what you're hitting. Whether she's on top, you're on top, or you're hitting it from behind, what matters is the set of her hips and the angle of your attack. Again be deliberate and pay attention to what you feel in there. It's fun.

And here's a big practical tip: high frequency, but low amplitude. Once you think you're hitting something good with your stroke, take short strokes. Long strokes push you toward orgasm, not her. You can "jackhammer" the chick with high frequency without high amplitude. Then, when you think she's getting close, you maintain that frequency, turn up the amplitude, and boom: simultaneous orgasm.

The mainstream view on sex, in keeping with the mainstream view on everything, is to denigrate success and normal desires and views of sex. But we all know that most couples want to have orgasms together, during actual real sex—not after thirty minutes of licking or whatever. I think that this goal is within reach of most people, if they are healthy and fit (that's important) and if they can cut through the bullshit they read in Cosmo.

Post: #3

spiderman squirting hand

Post: #4

Get inside her mind, dirty talk from there, leading/encouraging her to do it for you. If you tick the right boxes and she wants to do it for you, then its game over. Eye contact the whole time, never stop. This is 100% true when shes climaxing, I like to grab them in towards me with heavy eye contact and kiss/whisper in her ear etc.

You have to be into it.

Specifically, I find putting a pillow under her tailbone lifting her ass towards me when shes on her back helps and lifting her legs over my shoulders. Same applies for spiderman squirting hand technique, minus the legs.

Post: #5

Eat her out until she is literally seconds away from coming

Stop, laugh at her when she shows her dissapointment

Insert dick

Fuck her while rubbing her clit until she cums

Call her a dirty girl for cumming all over you

Tell her its your turn to cum all over her

When your about done, pull out and bust all over her stomach/tits/back/whatever

Bonus points for bonus orgasms. My record is eight. She came eight times. And she has been in the rotation for years now because thats how rare a good fuck session is for a female.

Post: #6

Ah damn you, my record is a paltry four (but one of those was 'a big one', in her own words). And yup you're right, even though a lot of girls nowadays have lots of sex, a good fuck session is really rare for them.

Post: #7

(08-03-2013 08:02 AM)gandt Wrote:  To the guys who CONSISTENTLY hear "omg that was the best sex I've ever had" from the women they are banging...

What are your go to moves in the bedroom? So to the guys who leave girls bodies shaking and their minds blown. Have at it!

Bondage + clit/vaginal stimulation seems to work pretty regulary. I think the combo of being physically dominated and being tied down really sets them off deep in the hindbrain. This has been discussed here and elsewhere, it's a very common fantasy for women.

Plus, you can always put a vibrator on/in her if you're getting tired or want to grab a beer or watch some TV ...you could put some porn on as well.

But it really doesn't matter to me if she says that or not. It's less important that she has 0 or 7 orgasms compared to how many I have...

Post: #8

There's a correct order and technique for giving a woman multiple orgasms within 60 seconds - working from inside out:

1. Deep Spot - 99% chance no-one's taken her there before, may need multiple sessions with some women to get them off.
2. G-Spot - go straight to the spiderman hand and go to town, she's already warmed up and if your technique's good she'll pop like champagne.
3. Clit - finish off with a bit of rapid frottage, this has to be last as most women get over-sensitive after a clitoral orgasm.
   

Beware, this can exhaust a chick to the point where she's physically incapable of being an active partner. Definitely a powerful ego-boosting move though, watching the look of disbelief in her eyes as she completely loses control is grade A.

"I'd hate myself if I had that kind of attitude, if I were that weak." - Arnold

Post: #9

Wait, what...women have orgasms?

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #10

Your question made me think - when did I get good at this? At one point girls wouldn't recontact me because of the sex, but later they contacted me for sex.

The answer - a longterm girlfriend. I had never had one before, but afterwards the what I had learned with her made my sex abilities jump many levels. You probably can't achieve the sexual volume needed to get better with just pickup. For about a year you need to practice with one woman 3-4 times a week. If you can (mostly) please her at that frequency, you are ready to jump over and begin individualizing your technique.

Think of it like learning a sport - you don't get better with once-a-week pickup games, you get better by joining a team and practicing regularly.

Post: #11

(08-07-2013 10:31 AM)Nolecbo Wrote:  Your question made me think - when did I get good at this? At one point girls wouldn't recontact me because of the sex, but later they contacted me for sex.

The answer - a longterm girlfriend. I had never had one before, but afterwards the what I had learned with her made my sex abilities jump many levels. You probably can't achieve the sexual volume needed to get better with just pickup. For about a year you need to practice with one woman 3-4 times a week. If you can (mostly) please her at that frequency, you are ready to jump over and begin individualizing your technique.

Think of it like learning a sport - you don't get better with once-a-week pickup games, you get better by joining a team and practicing regularly.

Not worth it.

Post: #12

(08-07-2013 10:31 AM)Nolecbo Wrote:  Your question made me think - when did I get good at this? At one point girls wouldn't recontact me because of the sex, but later they contacted me for sex.

The answer - a longterm girlfriend. I had never had one before, but afterwards the what I had learned with her made my sex abilities jump many levels. You probably can't achieve the sexual volume needed to get better with just pickup. For about a year you need to practice with one woman 3-4 times a week. If you can (mostly) please her at that frequency, you are ready to jump over and begin individualizing your technique.

Think of it like learning a sport - you don't get better with once-a-week pickup games, you get better by joining a team and practicing regularly.

Haha just kidding man. Makes total sense. And I have experienced similar things when I had a long term gf. You are able to last longer consistently, fuck harder, etc...

Post: #13

Sex begins and ends in the mind, more so for women than men. This is why the saying goes: blow her mind. They don't say blow her body. We think about sex in terms of how we view it: physical pleasure but for women great sex is more about emotional pleasure - the physical pleasure is secondary.
You could be greatest lover in the world, if she's not comfortable with you and you can't ramp up her emotions doesn't matter what tricks you can pull out of your dick.

Post: #14

one time a girl gave me LMR with the line "it's too late i already masturbated today"

my reply: "that's ok i'm not gonna make you cum anyway"

she fucked my balls off

Post: #15

I read somewhere that in order for a girl to cum she needs to be completely out of her conscious stream of thought.

I order for her to do this she needs to be 150% comfortable in the situation. Comfortable could be interpreted as knowing you for a longer period of time. Or comfortable could mean so mentally dominated through dirty talk that she forgets about reality.

Nomad, maybe you can elaborate. It seems like you have more you could add to this topic that you didn't include in your post.

I have touched on it in the link in my signature but maybe you have something else to add.

Post: #16

To be honest I always find it humorous listening to men talk about sex like it's something they DO to women instead of something they experience with a woman. To most men sex is like dancing to some sexual house music: you are dancing apart from the woman and you are dancing to impress her. Men never really stop to think if a woman would really like something or not. They learn about sex from other men and porn movies. It never occurs to them that a woman may just be going along with them to please them - thinking well if he likes that, ok. Why are American women acting like wanna be porn starlets because they look at porn movies and go oh, ok, I guess that's what men want. The irony of it is that neither of them really want half the shit they do or see. Most men and women are just following a script like they they do with most things in their lives e.g. I am suppose to love getting wasted then having some crazy sex that I can't even feel or remember. (Ye, that sounds like a great plan for some great sex.)

If you want to learn about great sex go to the masters: the Brasilians. They don't have to get drunk to have sex, actually they would prefer not to. Great sex is like a dancing with a woman together - like a Latin dance e.g. salsa. It doesn't matter how good you are, if the woman isn't a decent dancer herself you are not going to enjoy it that much. Have you ever tried dancing with a woman that couldn't dance? It isn't much fun. Most women do not/cannot have an orgasm the first few times they have sex with a man because they are just not comfortable enough. It means they can't really enjoy themselves because they are too concerned about how they look and what you think of them. But most men are oblivious to this because their are primarily concerned about their own physical pleasure. Less than 10% of the women are out have the potential to be good lovers. (In a country like Brasil it's much higher...) What this means is that 90% of the time if you are just Ok and you can provide some emotional fulfillment it will be good enough. You don't need to waste your time and energy doing all kinds of crazy shit she won't be able to appreciate anyway. (Roosh wrote about this in one of his post: that he stopped even trying to be good, it was just a waste of time. Here http://www.rooshv.com/the-female-orgasm-is-trivial)

I already wrote about this in this thread: /thread-25274.html

Post: #17

(08-07-2013 12:19 PM)Nomad77 Wrote:  Sex begins and ends in the mind, more so for women than men. This is why the saying goes: blow her mind. They don't say blow her body. We think about sex in terms of how we view it: physical pleasure but for women great sex is more about emotional pleasure - the physical pleasure is secondary.
You could be greatest lover in the world, if she's not comfortable with you and you can't ramp up her emotions doesn't matter what tricks you can pull out of your dick.

She hasn't met me yet.

Post: #18

(08-03-2013 08:02 AM)gandt Wrote:  The most powerful orgasm for a girl is the vaginal orgasm, which is achieved through consistent pounding in the right spot for 15-20 mins.

I'm not a sex master by any means, but to say that the vaginal orgasm is achieved by consistent pounding in the right spot for 15-20 minutes is just misleading.

Women are turned on through their minds. Some will have different emotional/mental triggers, some will require slightly different stimulation, but if you learn how to read women they will tell you most of what you need to know. I've given a woman a vaginal orgasm within only 2-3 minutes with just my dick. The reason is because of how turned on I got her before I put anything it inside of her and because of how I dominated her and had her dripping in anticipation. Again, I'm not a sex god, but you will be a sex god to a woman if you can have her dripping in anticipation through mentally turning her on and physically dominating her and teasing her.

I haven't even tried making a girl squirt yet, but multiple vaginal orgasms, orgasms within 2-3 minutes both vaginally and clitorally, all that is straightforward if you really learn how to turn a girl on.

Just like gaming a girl, once you realize that they aren't like men much at all and often just the opposite (watch their actions), you will do MUCH much better.

Post: #19

Have a massive penis.

Be really nonchalant about it.

Post: #20

You have to aim your dick up because most of the nerves are on the roof of the pussy.

Do the spiderman hand.

Also, you have to be able to sense when the girl is not into it and calibrate accordingly.

There's nothing more of a turnoff for a girl than we she senses the guy doesn't get her.

There you are pumping away to you heart's content, and she's on a totally different planet.

The sex is boring that way. You aren't dominating her in anyway. She can't wait for you to finish.

The best is when you take her to the brink of her existence, where she is completely surrendered to you and totally vulnerable. You are the man. You have the power. It's sort of like a transcendent moment of honesty that is rare in modern society.

Post: #21

Women go insane when I finger them like a mad man, or smash them from behind.

With genital manipulation, I start with one, and build up slowly (as well as the overall intensity) to two fingers. I even throw in occasional clitoral stimulation with my thumb, unless she's already taken it upon herself to start rubbing off. When it comes to an aggressive curling of the fingers or rapid in-and-out motions, some girls have a penchant for one method, or prefer a combination of the two. It's all about reading their body language and paying attention to their breathing when figuring this out (the same goes for the speed and intensity).

My fingering technique is almost always a sure-fire way to make women go crazy, orgasm and consequently keep coming back for more sex.

Post: #22

A woman does not necessarily judge sex by whether or not she climaxes, or by the intensity of that climax. It's very much about the total experience for her.

Risky sex in public places. Romantic sex after an intimate dinner. Spontaneous sex in an otherwise non-sexual situation (like church).

Submissive women very much like the sensation of having been ravaged. Rough, intense, vigorous sex often leaves a woman feeling spent even if she hasn't had a massive climax.

Talking. Appealing to her emotions while you're inside her to create a sense of bonding and intimacy. A compliment that given on the street the same woman would receive as crude becomes a testament to her desirability when you're balls deep in her ass.

In short: unlike men it's not always about "getting off" for her. It's often more about the totality of the experience.

Post: #23

(08-03-2013 08:02 AM)gandt Wrote:  To the guys who CONSISTENTLY hear "omg that was the best sex I've ever had" from the women they are banging...

What are your go to moves in the bedroom?

I know we have threads on sex. But I want to hear it from the experts who fuck women so well they turn the hottest unattainable women into stage 5 clingers.

The most powerful orgasm for a girl is the vaginal orgasm, which is achieved through consistent pounding in the right spot for 15-20 mins.

As you can imagine, achieving this can be a problem for most guys. So some resort to getting the girl off through oral.

Another thing is that when guys see a girl lying there and not moving when you are fucking her, they assume that it's because she isn't enjoying herself so we change the angle or position. However, it seems that you should keep fucking her without change for 15-20 mins to make her cum.

So to the guys who leave girls bodies shaking and their minds blown. Have at it!

Cheers!

Females are emotional reptiles, you need to blabber on in there ears, let them hear what they want to hear etc

Begs the question, do-we-care, doing it for me not for her, if she has a O good for her!



"Lifes about, shooting your load"

Post: #24

@ Mack

What sorts of things do you all like to say?

Post: #25

@valhalla see my signature