Post: #1

Hey, so starting tomorrow I'm going to do a 100 approaches here in Dominica and post how they went to show you guys what it's like down here and for practice. I'm creating the thread now because I kept procrastinating on it, so I guess this is a form of motivation.

For those of you who don't know me, which I must imagine is near all of you here's my post on the introductory thread

- I'm a 17 years old as of august and I've been new to game for about a year now. I read BANG last summer. Since then, I've done about roughly 70 approaches and have been following the forum and learning from you guys. I'm from Dominica, which is a Caribbean island you might have to search up. It's pretty small. I travel somewhat often, if you consider once a year often for my age. I'll be going to college this September so I decided to create an account on here.

So yeah, I'll keep you guys posted

Post: #2

Eh, I am now realizing that 100 new approaches might be harder than i thought. I approached one girl today, but that's because most of the girls I already know them so that's not really approaching. But, yeah here's what happened.

Oh and we talk with a Caribbean accent down here but I'm going to translate it to proper english.

Light skinned girl 18 years old :

Me : Hi, are you from around here?
Her : Yeah, I live in Copthall
Me : Oh are you 'Girl I'm cool with's sister?
Her : No, she's my cousin do you know her
Me : Yeah, I've known her for a while

Oh and any pointers or mistakes you'd like to point out would be appreciated.
Her : Oh ok
Me : She's cute
Her : Yeah
Me : Must be a gene
Her: *Blushes*
Her : How old are you?
Me : I'm 12
Her : Laughs, no you're not
Me : No really I am
Her : seriously
Me : Nah, I'm 17 you?
Her : I'm 18
Me : Ah , I guess you don't like guys younger than you huh
Her : No, it's not a problem
Her : What's your name?
Me : Youngdominican (People find it hard to believe my real name
Her : no your real name
Me : Yeah that's it
Her : Laughs
Me : I'm serious
Her : Oh that's cool
Me : What's your name?
Her : Lightskin, it translates to a flower name
Me : Yeah, I'd like to water you (with a grin)
Her : Haha what?
Me : How's your love life
Her : complicated how about you?
Me : I'm single, you got a boyfriend? (shouldn't have asked that -_-)
Her : Yeah
Me : Oh ok, so what's your number?
Her : gives me her number
Me : cool, I got to go ( I left, felt a loss of motivation on the boyfriend thing)

Post: #3

If she said "complicated", then I daresay there is still some hope! She could have said "sorry I have a boyfriend" or some other outright negation.

Quote:Her : How old are you?
Me : I'm 12
Her : Laughs, no you're not
Me : No really I am
Her : seriously
Me : Nah, I'm 17 you?

This one was great

Post: #4

Thanks, I still got a lot to learn.

Haha, That she has a boyfriend link in your signature made me laugh. I wonder how that would work out in real life.

Post: #5

Good luck man. Its a fun journey. I like to record my approaches in a word document when I get a chance, good way to break down interactions and figure out what you can do better. Eventually you start running into the same type of dialogue situations and get a lot faster of thinking on your feet.

Post: #6

Hey, I haven't posted on this for a while but that's because I rarely see any fresh meat around my town. On the 23rd college will be opening for me and I will have new meat to attack, not to mention moving about a lot more.

I met this high school girl (High school down here is from ages 11-16 usually ), she was out of school a little earlier than normal.

Me : Ditching school now are we
Her : No awa (it's a slang down here), I just have to go and print my project.
Me : (I Blanked out) What subject
Her : Business, I have to go now
Me : Ok

Fail, serious fail

Post: #7

Ooh right, forgot to update this... I think I'll just post in the approach thread from now on but here's all approaches I did this week which was all on Tuesday. Keep in mind I try to type in proper English but that's not how we talk.

Situation : We were sitting in the Bursar's office waiting, I was sitting next to her. Cute light skinned, skinny girl with glasses maybe a 7.

Me : Hey, glasses you waiting for your ID?
Her : Does it look like I'm a first year student?
Me : *Looked her up and down* Yeah
Her : *Fights back a smile* No, I'm a second year
Me : Oh yeah, big difference sorry
Her : *rolls eyes*
I just stopped digging her vibe, seemed like a bitch so I killed the conversation.

Situation : Waiting around campus for my class to start, see an 8 chilling by herself.

Me : Hey, where is the IT building?
Her : I'm not sure
Me : You are a first year?
Her : No, second year
Me : *shook my head* And you still don't know the place
Her : Well, I know most of it haha
Me : *shook my head* Where are you from?
Her : Town, you?
Me : Possie
Her : Oh ok, how comes you don't know your building
Me : well, I'm new so
Her : So?
Me : hehe, yeah anyway I'm going to go try and find it

Post: #8

(09-08-2013 04:14 PM)YoungDominican Wrote:  Eh, I am now realizing that 100 new approaches might be harder than i thought. I approached one girl today, but that's because most of the girls I already know them so that's not really approaching. But, yeah here's what happened.

Oh and we talk with a Caribbean accent down here but I'm going to translate it to proper english.

Light skinned girl 18 years old :

Me : Hi, are you from around here?
Her : Yeah, I live in Copthall
Me : Oh are you 'Girl I'm cool with's sister?
Her : No, she's my cousin do you know her
Me : Yeah, I've known her for a while

Oh and any pointers or mistakes you'd like to point out would be appreciated.
Her : Oh ok
Me : She's cute
Her : Yeah
Me : Must be a gene
Her: *Blushes*
Her : How old are you?
Me : I'm 12
Her : Laughs, no you're not
Me : No really I am
Her : seriously
Me : Nah, I'm 17 you?
Her : I'm 18
Me : Ah , I guess you don't like guys younger than you huh
Her : No, it's not a problem
Her : What's your name?
Me : Youngdominican (People find it hard to believe my real name
Her : no your real name
Me : Yeah that's it
Her : Laughs
Me : I'm serious
Her : Oh that's cool
Me : What's your name?
Her : Lightskin, it translates to a flower name
Me : Yeah, I'd like to water you (with a grin)
Her : Haha what?
Me : How's your love life
Her : complicated how about you?
Me : I'm single, you got a boyfriend? (shouldn't have asked that -_-)
Her : Yeah
Me : Oh ok, so what's your number?
Her : gives me her number
Me : cool, I got to go ( I left, felt a loss of motivation on the boyfriend thing)

Few tips:

Never ask a girl if she has a boyfriend. It doesnt really matter if she has or has not a boyfriend, majority of girls cheat on their boyfriends. Don't let this discourage you, if she gave you the number, you should call her and aim for the bang.

She was older than you and you told her, ''i guess you dont like guys younger than you'', never say that, don't underestimate yourself next to a girl, you want to sound bossy and confident. Do you think a president of a country would say this? Always think to yourself that every girl wants to fuck you, don't tell her what she wants or doesnt want.

Keep on approaching, good work.

Post: #9

As pitt mentioned, you want them to think you're confident...even if it means you have to be arrogant (just not too much). Be like "well, age is just a number. maturity is what matters" or "my ex is (4 years older than her)". Projecting confidence will put them off and wonder why you are like that.

Post: #10

Hey man, kudos to starting out this whole game thing early. I'm not sure how the carribbean girls are down there but my general impression is that they can be a sassy bunch. Don't let that discourage you, if anything that will help you sharpen your game in the long run. If you're ever at a loss for what to say, just say hey and incorporate something situational (a comment on what is going on in your surrounding environment, something she's wearing, etc.) or you can fall back on some canned go-to lines that you like (nothing cheesy or complicated, just something simple and cheeky). Try to incorporate some playful banter mixed with some simple questions (what's your major, etc.), tease them a bit and close (remember not to take the joshing around too far, as you don't want to be seen as a dancing monkey). A positive, playful vibe and projecting confidence will take you far.

Post: #11

@ Pitt and Castle - Yeah thanks. I know never to ask a girl that it was just a game lapse, the reason I said you don't like guys older than you is because she was a shy looking girl but your right.

@Free wheeler - Yeah, thanks for the advice man I always welcome advice on how to improve my game

Post: #12

Got 12 number so far, I'm on a roll.

From what I remember here's how I got one girl's number

Was the first time I came to the class missed the first one, I sat in her seat and she told me to get up, I said no. She said please then I said sit next to me, she said ok just move over YOU can sit next to me anyway I moved. We talked for a bit and eventually some how I got her to do my classwork for me. Here's the number part.

Me : What's your name again?
Her : -----
Me : (I entered it in my phone in the create contact part then handed it to her for her to enter her number, learnt that from someone on the forum can't remember who tho)
Her : But I don't know you
Me : So
Her : haha, (enters 000000004)
Me : (takes phone, looks foward, looks back at her then I go to my contacts I have my number in my phone under Me then I hand it to her )
Her : She laughs then she takes down my number
Me : I take back the phone and I was like so is 00000004 ur number
Her : no haha it's --------

Smooth

Post: #13

When she puts her # and it's a real one...call her to make sure it's hers.

Post: #14

Yeah, I texted her when she put it in and she answered me.