Post: #1

I'm not sure if I'm really concerned if she's monogamous... I'm more concerned about picking something up if she isn't monogamous... since we're going at it 'raw dog' fairly consistently.

If it matters, I'm 40 and she's 22 years old - so I'm guessing she's with guys her own age too... just don't know how to bring up the subject.

Thoughts? I'd really like to stay going raw dog on her... That young tight feeling drives me crazy.

Post: #2

I think about this all the time with the girl i've been banging.

My own decision is that I just don't want to know.

Most girls, even the slutty ones, aren't banging tons of guys at once. They might have a couple, if that. Usually they want to get fucked by one stud, with maybe some occasional side D on the side.

The risks coming from that aren't huge. Or at least that's what I tell myself to rationalize the fear away.

Post: #3

The less you care ...the more faithful she'll be. If you feel like she's cheating then she probably is in some form or another ...sexually or emotionally(flirting). That's what girls do. Either way it's a product of your insecurity. It's something you have to work on.

Once you get to a certain point with girls you can do things like openly check out other girls in front of her ...and with her. They like that shit. It's shows confidence. It' shows that I don't give a fuck attitude that they find so attractive. I've taken girls to strip clubs with me and tried to bring girls home for a threesome. Hell your girl will do most of the work for you. That's when you know she's not out cheating on you behind your back. Try to get to that point.

Post: #4

(09-09-2013 08:51 PM)mcr Wrote:  I'm not sure if I'm really concerned if she's monogamous... I'm more concerned about picking something up if she isn't monogamous... since we're going at it 'raw dog' fairly consistently.

If it matters, I'm 40 and she's 22 years old - so I'm guessing she's with guys her own age too... just don't know how to bring up the subject.

Thoughts? I'd really like to stay going raw dog on her... That young tight feeling drives me crazy.

You already know the answer to this question. She's seeing other men. Don't bring it up. When she's trying to suggest exclusivity, then you know she's decided on monogamy with you. Until then, she will continue to keep her options open, so I suggest that you do the same.

Post: #5

As if she would tell you, "yes, I'm a hoe, I'm taking it in the ass, mouth, pussy, and sometimes the ear from X other men."

Never expect a woman who's not that invested in you to be honest about her sexuality, if she hasn't already exposed herself to you as a hoe, then she's not going to announce it now, if that is in fact the case.

Since you're already getting some, don't dry it up by announcing yourself as a clinger alert with such a question.

Post: #6

(09-10-2013 12:06 AM)Parlay44 Wrote:  The less you care ...the more faithful she'll be. If you feel like she's cheating then she probably is in some form or another ...sexually or emotionally(flirting). That's what girls do. Either way it's a product of your insecurity. It's something you have to work on.

Once you get to a certain point with girls you can do things like openly check out other girls in front of her ...and with her. They like that shit. It's shows confidence. It' shows that I don't give a fuck attitude that they find so attractive. I've taken girls to strip clubs with me and tried to bring girls home for a threesome. Hell your girl will do most of the work for you. That's when you know she's not out cheating on you behind your back. Try to get to that point.

Post: #7

(09-09-2013 08:51 PM)mcr Wrote:  I'm not sure if I'm really concerned if she's monogamous... I'm more concerned about picking something up if she isn't monogamous... since we're going at it 'raw dog' fairly consistently.

If it matters, I'm 40 and she's 22 years old - so I'm guessing she's with guys her own age too... just don't know how to bring up the subject.

Thoughts? I'd really like to stay going raw dog on her... That young tight feeling drives me crazy.

Parlay's comments are pretty spot on.

As I'm dating a 23-year old I know what you're going through. The tightness is awesome - in my experience that can mean something or it might not. Would be interesting to get the Forum's views on this as typically tightness should mean she's banged fewer guys, but plenty of exceptions out there.

I think generally her youth means she's been with less guys that you might think but not sure as I don't know what sort of girl you've got there. She coulda have had 1-2 boyfriends or banged the entire football team, who the hell knows.

Did she specifically state she likes older men? Mine did/does and I believe her FWIW, and she also doesn't drink, another good sign.

Think we need a little more background on this girl to come up with a better analysis.

Post: #8

Seeking a truth that you can't trust?
Once you know about hypergamy, you can't un-know it.

Welcome to the red pill.

WIA