Post: #1

This has happened to me a few times when I have ended up in bed with a girl who I have slept with previously who, after a period of time away from each other (I travel a lot) told me in not un-certain terms that, on my return to town, that there was no way in hell we were hooking up again.

This was not done in a playful way or in a flirty way but in a firm and resolute way.

Then when I turn up, all protests disappear, they jump on my bones and when I question them about it in bed afterwards they say "Oh just ignore me when I say things like that, I am crazy."

You might think that this is a nice problem to have but it pisses me off.

Last time it cost me 3 nights of hotel accomodation that I had to pay for when I reserved and paid for a room for myself that I never ended up using and the hotel would not give me a refund.

Do you guys ever get this? Women who throw a brick wall of resistance in front of you and then tell you to ignore it afterwards?

Post: #2

Theyre being honest about how they feel about themselves.

Post: #3

I have many girls tell me things like "you better run away" or "I scare guys away." They want you to chase them but the majority of the time they're doing you a favor because they really are crazy.

Post: #4

Been said many times, you are better off paying attention to a woman's actions because it is their nature to lie.

Post: #5

One told me she was a bitch, turned out she didn't want to fuck.

I keep remembering a saying I heard, I think it was from a woman tired of players whom she had tried to change-- "When people tell you who they are, believe them the first time. "

Whatever the motivation, it sounds like some kind of distancing crap to me. Lowers her potential quickly, greatly.

If a chick said she met a guy she liked who had said to her "I'm a player, what would you think was going on?"

Right, playing judo to get her to try to change him. Player.

Post: #6

Before the bang, it usually means "You don't have enough attraction built to get me into bed, you better up your asshole game if you want to get anywhere". As a corollary to that, I've also once heard a girl boast that her ex killed himself over her. LOL.

After the bang, I don't really know what it means. I guess it's an attempt to save face.

Post: #7

In my experience this usually means she's feeling guilty about hooking up with you for one reason or another. Could be she's got another guy she's attempting to be exclusive with or just feels slutty having casual sex with you. I think in some cases it's just the pressure of feeling like if you stay with her you'll be expecting that you guys will hook up. If you think that might be the case ask if you can crash at her place and offer to take the couch - no funny business. Then you can go for the bang if it feels right and you save yourself the hotel room.

In any case:

Post: #8

Every girl i have ever gamed have said this to me in one way or another, they just realize the incongruence between what they say and what they end up doing

Post: #9

(09-15-2013 02:09 AM)liveandlearn7 Wrote:  I have many girls tell me things like "you better run away" or "I scare guys away." They want you to chase them but the majority of the time they're doing you a favor because they really are crazy.

Any girl that I've known to be legitimately crazy has had some form of sexual abuse.
I'm a magnet for them. They always find me.

Just get it in your head that you can't fix them. They are what they are.
They usually like rough kinky sex. It's the only way they get off.

If you want a nice girl then learn to be happy with a boring sex life.

Post: #10

(09-15-2013 02:09 AM)liveandlearn7 Wrote:  I have many girls tell me things like "you better run away" or "I scare guys away." They want you to chase them but the majority of the time they're doing you a favor because they really are crazy.

Obligatory: http://dangerandplay.com/2013/04/29/women-are-crazy/

Post: #11

Women do this so that when they end up having sex with you it's your fault she's a slut and not hers.

It's basically moral weakness. They don't want to accept any responsibility for what they are going to do so they pass the blame onto someone else.

It's like when a girlfriend cheat's on you and says, "I'm soooo sorry it just, happened..." I mean she did tell him they weren't going to sleep together before she drove to his hotel room and cheated on you.

Post: #12

Literally the most accurate statement a girl will give you.

Like others have said, they are correct and indeed are batshit crazy. My experience has confirmed this as well.

Related to what Eel said, I had a girl come over ultra late one night out of the blue without calling. She walked in my room and started undressing, with a feeling of urgent hornyness. I shrugged her off because I wanted to sleep. She went downstairs where my ultra beta roommate was watching tv. She came back upstairs to my room after 15 minutes and tried again to get me to wake up. As she took off her clothes and got in bed, she grinned and said "you're lucky your roommate isn't an asshole."

Post: #13

The only times I've heard this, the girls actually were crazy.

Sometimes I listened and sometimes I didn't. Always regretted not listening.

They'll get this weird spacey look in their eyes and say that shit. Disappear.

Post: #14

(10-08-2013 09:04 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  The only times I've heard this, the girls actually were crazy.

Sometimes I listened and sometimes I didn't. Always regretted not listening.

They'll get this weird spacey look in their eyes and say that shit. Disappear.

One thing I learned, years before I got into all this game stuff, was that if a girls tells you she is crazy, she is, most likely, crazy.

I tend to avoid these girls.. they can be a liability for ONS or LTR.

Post: #15

^^^Nothing can bring a man down quicker than a crazy bitch. False rape claims, violence, theft, lies, etc.

Fuck that. Plenty of normal chicks to meet.

Although crazy girls tend to be great sex...haha

Post: #16

A lot of girls say things like that and they are always right about it!

Girls that say that are DTF, but will really disrespect you if you treat them with even the most basic courtesies. They will think you are a low value man if you cater to their crazy selves. You must be a total asshole with such girls, take them vigorously, pump harshly and dump rapidly.

These girls will never be happy because every guy willing to offer them a non-abusive long term relationship will be labeled as a loser for doing this for a crazy girl she knows she is.

Basically this is the shy but messed up girl way of saying - "I want to have crazy sex with you with no strings attached" Enjoy her craziness but if you try to attach any strings expect her to get insane and dangerous expect drama, accusations, provocations for violence, embarrassment and other ugly stuff.