Post: #1

I originally starting learning some game to get "women" (just like most of us, I'm sure), but quickly saw the potential for building an amazing social life - and was doing well, until getting into a relationship that is presently holding me back with my ideas of "personal growth" (she is very jealous, and thinks we should spend all free time together (time we're not working that is) - hell, even my time @ the gym is "questioned").


Anyway, I've been given the opportunity to move across the country with a work placement -- it's totally optional, and I'd be starting in a city I've never been to, with no friends, no family (not much for family here anyway) and no relationships. Not really much more for pay, so there isn't incentive to move in that regard.

I think it would be an interesting "challenge" and think that I could give myself a sort-of-deadline of 30 days to have several new friends (men & women) and a couple or more "relationships" on the go.

Is 30 days "enough" or too long? Would you do something like that given the opportunity? Have you done it? Should "being new in town" (with no friends) help or hinder "game"?

Any thoughts are appreciated... I am a bit "concerned" about it, the only expense I'll have is taking 2 weeks off work to make the move... so the worry, I think, is the possibility of becoming a "porn addicted hermit", instead of a social guy pleasuring women.

Post: #2

Have you ever left everything behind before? It's a way to free yourself to develop. Peole who've known you for 5+ years often really don't want to see you change/improve. It makes them look bad.

Post: #3

dude ditch that grl. the LASt thing u want in a gf is jealousy, and possessiveness

it depends on what city ur moving to in order for me to give u advise.

you can start from scratch in ur current city.