Post: #1

Is a guy basically screwed if they are into this kind of porn? Well, that's a bit vague. I mean is there something psychological going on that will make the guy always want to be subservient to women, or do they just want to essentially control a woman and then have her do dominating things in the bedroom, but the guy still essentially calls all the shots in the relationship as a whole.??

Post: #2

If by screwed you mean pegged, then yes.

Post: #3

Well, I don't think uber manly players are into it. Not into porn so I'm not the best to answer it. But it seems effeminate.

Post: #4

I'd answer that with a resounding yes. Men own their character and identity and as such desire freedom and autonomy. Manginas need mommy to validate their character and identity, and as such they seek acceptance and validation. I'd bet that 99% of guys into fucked up submissive fetishism are manginas.

Post: #5

Hm. Also wondered about that. FWIW, I knew one guy that once told me he went to a place to meet likeminded folks. And he was somewhat alpha-ish in day to day life and was hitting on 18 year olds as well.

Post: #6

Femdom is ugly - women look bad when assuming dominant form and men look just pathetic when in submissive positions.

In a good healthy porn women need to look submissive and vulnerable and men need to be jacked and dominant to create a bigger contrast that outlines the female tempting vulnerability even more.

Post: #7

That's pretty messed up. I guess some pretty badass dudes are hardcore sadists and masochists but femdom sounds like humiliation porn. Maybe this femdom-porn fan is just jaded of porn and seeking something particularly novel to get off.