Post: #1

Guys
1. Do I reschedule right away, 2.meet her earlier or 3. wait a week to set something up?....
Finally got a hold of girl on POF. Had a good chat on the phone today and agreed to meet for drink tomorrow pm . 1 hr after hanging up I receive the following text:
"great to finally speak with u ! I should never make plans without checking. I forgot I have dinner plans with a few girlfriends at 8 tmrw nite. I can meet u for a drink before if its around 530 or 6 if that would work for u. Is that too early? ".
Advice please!

Post: #2

Situation
- reschedule from one on one with a possibility of it going into the night
- into a brief interview
- she may also be lying her ass off. She could be on the rag, or double booked with a guy slightly ahead of you in fuckability.

Options

1) Got Strong game? - take the interview @ 5, and either put it on her so hard, she cancels her plans, or 5th wheel it at the girls night out dinner

Chance of same night lay for a new guy ? - 3%
For a vet? - 30%

2) Reschedule for another night -

SNL for newb - 20-30%
SNL for vet - 50-60%

But you now have to juggle with the schedule game.

I'd go for Saturday night, or Sunday Evening, both can turn into a lay, if you use the Tuthmoses formula.

3) Player option? - MEET AFTER HER DINNER WITH THE GIRLS.

She needs to either be older, and the kind of girl who sticks to her plans (unlikely)

or

If she's young and likely to go party, You've got to somehow increase your fuckability

Requires good text/phone game and tight logistics.

I'd go with option 2 myself. Reschedule for a different night when she doesn't have constraints.

"Sorry, i'm busy teaching my Self Defense for Catholic Nuns class...that's not going to work for me, how about...."

IN THE MEAN TIME...

Get on other broads. Send more messages, hit the cafes and coffee shops, bars and night clubs.

WIA

Post: #3

I like the idea of meeting her at 5 and then joining her for dinner with her friends ( make sure I don't get the bill!) and then banging one of her friends .....ok wake up Walter Mitty!

Best I delay the date for another time - cant reward this blatent flake

Post: #4

First off, she is not a flaker. A flaker stands you up and doenst show up for a date, or always cancels.

This is different. Anytime a women gives you alternative times, it likely means she wants to see you but cant. When she cancels and doesn't give you alternatives, well.. thats starting to get flakey.

Post: #5

(01-30-2014 09:23 PM)El_gato Wrote:  Guys
1. Do I reschedule right away, 2.meet her earlier or 3. wait a week to set something up?....
Finally got a hold of girl on POF. Had a good chat on the phone today and agreed to meet for drink tomorrow pm . 1 hr after hanging up I receive the following text:
"great to finally speak with u ! I should never make plans without checking. I forgot I have dinner plans with a few girlfriends at 8 tmrw nite. I can meet u for a drink before if its around 530 or 6 if that would work for u. Is that too early? ".
Advice please!

reply:"don't know if i can make it, i'll let you know tomorrow"

the next day set something up around 6ish

Post: #6

Meeting her for a quick drink - crafty girls always seem to upgrade themselves from a coffee date to drinks!

Post: #7

Ok - looks like this broad is going to be 30 min late - suggestions ?

Post: #8

Go chat with the hottie over there until girl shows up.

Post: #9

If you're meeting a chick, you have to pick a good meet location, because chicks flake, and you'll waste valuable game time.

Post: #10

Debrief:
Had enjoyable 90 min with the girl over a few drinks . Total cost $45 and a few laughs. . It is a shame that she has such a wide caboose . Would shag her for get personality if I had nothing else to do . It is shocking I had to spend so much time and go through a few hoops just to have a date with such a sub par woman. Life in Tdot .....

Post: #11

P.s. I like commiejoe's tip to chat with a hottie whilst waiting - timeless sage advice - always chat with hotties - always raise your social proof . Amen brother !

Post: #12

Ppss. I don't know why I break my own rules... 1st date should always be a coffee date - less expensive and low time spend . That $45 I spent on drinks with that wash out could have bought 4 coffee dates . Live n learn in the Tdot...

Post: #13

(02-01-2014 09:24 AM)El_gato Wrote:  Ppss. I don't know why I break my own rules... 1st date should always be a coffee date - less expensive and low time spend . That $45 I spent on drinks with that wash out could have bought 4 coffee dates . Live n learn in the Tdot...

Ideal first date is drinks at a bar close to your living quarters.

WIA

Post: #14

maybe I am just cheap, but the only time i buy a woman drinks is if it is happy hour. if it is 2 for one drinks and i just give her my free drink.

Post: #15

(02-01-2014 09:24 AM)El_gato Wrote:  Ppss. I don't know why I break my own rules... 1st date should always be a coffee date - less expensive and low time spend . That $45 I spent on drinks with that wash out could have bought 4 coffee dates . Live n learn in the Tdot...

In Canada it is, move to Wisconsin and its the other way around. $1 drinks at a 4-7pm happy hour. You can thank the business cartel known as the Tavern League for your low cost per notch on that one.