Post: #1

So I've been hitting pretty decent using okc since I made one in March. 4 unique bangs in 4 weeks (a couple of them have become regulars too, so it's been a success). Of the dates I've been going on and the sex I've been having, there are two girls I've had experiences with that really made me think deeply about some things. I may even turn this into an rok article:

I've gone on 1st and 2nd dates with these two girls, and have both 3rd dates lined up (one tonight and the other Monday). Both of these girls are 24/25, live in the suburbs of a large city, and are dramatically different from one another and applying myself and my personality/tastes to these two polar opposite women has been interesting to say the least.

Girl A: A tall white girl with an average-but-attractive build (5'10", acceptably thick with no hanging fat but long legs and ample T&A). She is a fairly typical slutty air-head. She has the mouth of a sailor and the libido and sexual resistance ability of a 18 year old boy. She is very receptive to typical game tactics. First night we met we wound up back at my place (she already assumed we were going to have sex when we drove there and brought it up before I did). She gave me pornstar-head and we fucked twice (she physically grabbed my hand and put it around her throat when I fucked her from behind). 2nd date she came to my place and was totally cool eating leftovers and watching TV shows on my couch. She was on her period and said no sex and she's not doing anything unless she is getting something out of it. She ended up happily blowing me before going home and I did nothing for her (and anal was an obvious on-the-table possibility). 3rd date she wants to go for a ride in my truck and fuck in the woods...

Tall blond trashy white girl. Grade-A ho unabashedly slutty and easy. Totally not LTR material but spectacular fuck buddy.

Girl B: Short petite pretty-faced black girl (very dark skinned, not mulatto) super tight body (5'3" about 110lbs tight squeezable butt and perfect handful-sized B cups). Intelligent, engaging, receptive, a touch of class to her. Hard to game on - need to be more traditional. First date we made out but she did not like when I put my hand on her ass. Was reserved about kissing in public. 2nd date I made dinner at my place with wine and a movie (essentially the same date just a tad classier). We ended up getting hot and heavy but she wouldn't let me take her shirt off. Explained she had a strict no boob-play no-under-the-pants rule this early. She was firm about it and I respected that.

Petite gracious black girl. Reserved with her body, intelligent, watches what she says. Seems like LTR material.

What I'm getting at: Girl A almost seems more my type - super casual, easy and fun in the sack, easily pleased, classless, sarcastic, bitchy, and full of red flags. Girl B makes me work for it more, makes me feel somewhat on the defensive at times, and prompts chase. I'm more excited about Girl B and the prospect of "winning" her pussy (maybe tonight?) I feel more rewarded when Girl B shows signs of attraction than Girl A.

This is a real life example of male pre-selection at it's finest. I am physically attracted to both women and get along well with both, but the girl that is more reserved, resistant, and "traditional" provokes my attraction level and my intrigue more. She makes me want to try harder and put in more effort to impress.

Don't really have much of a end-game plan for this - ee where they go basically. Anyone else have any self-reflective examples of this in their conquests?

Post: #2

Its a psychological trick.

a) We value things we heavily invested in more, than our easy accomplishments.
b) Her being restrictive with her pussy implicates, that shes not a slut.

Search for "reformed slut" or "former slut" in the forum and rooshs blog. Test if she is a reformed slut.

Post: #3

That's all you my friend. Aside from girl A being too tall for me, I'd be more into the one that goes with the flow.

Conquering prudes has done nothing for me. Could be a sampling error, but even after Sunday school opened the legs, the sex would often be wack, because she was still holding back, waiting for me to unlock slut mode.

All else being equal, slut wins. Usually all isn't equal though. Fast fuckers typically have DIFFERENT problems than slow ones, but all in all, with both I end up dealing with some broads drama. Slow broads still have issues. Can't really generalize, because chicks off kinds bring their problems to the table if you're fucking them.

Hence the player way is to stay hungry and keep a rotation with new chicks.

WIA

Post: #4

The title of this thread struck me because it's a similar title of a write up I want to do. I also have two girls on OKC that I met around the same time: One's Colombian, the other a typical American girl.

The Colombian is sweet, coy, feminine, long hair, sexually restrained, yet passionate etc. everything you read about.

The American is promiscuous, kinky and loud. She's cute and not masculine by any means, but it can't compare.

The thing is while the Colombian is great to spend time with, the American girl is so much more fun to be with, so I have to agree with WIA.

I'd definitely rather raise kids with the Colombian girl, but for now as a 22 y.o. it's sluts all the way.

I can totally see your point, and I plan on spending time with both these girls until...well idk when, but I guess I just look at it differently.

Post: #5

Well, date number 3 basically went no further than date number 2 sexually. Refused to get the bra off and refused to give the genitals some air... but she was more than willing to cum but having me rub her clit over her pants and hold her down by her neck (I didn't give her the satisfaction, I'm not getting any girl off unless my dick is coming out and getting serviced). Fuck that.

There was a minute where she totally had me and her respect game was working on me - now it's past the point of endearing and now it's just plain cock-teasing. 86'ing this one. It's a damn shame because her body is absolutely mint and I would love to get in it, but she told me "doesn't really go all the way with a guy unless she is in a relationship with him" so no thanks.

I appreciate her reserve, but I'm not giving more of my time and resources to a girl who is not going to give me what I want in equal return.

Slut girl wins.

Post: #6

Slut girl is sleeping with someone else too I reckon. I would happily have girl A for a week but then my self-preservation would kick in and start wondering how many other rides she is getting.

Girl B is making it hard for you, not playing by your rules and you're blue balling yourself by edging your t levels to a point where you're angry to backtrack.

I've noticed something on here and in myself, men who are demanding sex based on their own goals are not very good at backing down upon crossing a certain threshold and you end up pissed off. You end up deleting her number and then by the time you've had your fill of A girl you're moping over what you could have done better.

Girl A will be gone within 2-3 weeks.

Girl B wanted you to hold her down by her throat, that is something you should be keenly aware of and exploit to your advantage.

I reckon girl B is shit testing you really badly, does she always wear pants? Get on the horn and tell her the next date is at some decent restaurant and she is to wear a dress. Take it from there.

Post: #7

Hmmm I don't know. Hard-to-get girl has plenty of options, is taking a 3 month trip away at the end of June, and lives 45 minutes away without a car so I've been giving a lot of my time and resources to her for essentially nothing besides high-school level dates. She is attractive and cool to hang with, but it's not going as fast as I like it to and her end-game is unclear. Kinda feel like I'm getting out-gamed and played a little... not sure.

Just spent a nice adventurous 24-hours with Girl A peppered with a generous amount of enjoyable sex and bj's. Still want to fuck Girl B like you read about.

Post: #8

so wait, she's taking a 3 month trip in less than 2 months. yet, she claims she doesn't have sex unless she's in a fucking relationship?

Ok, so be her fake BF and fuck her with the strength of 12 Gorillas for 2 months until she leaves. Because she's just using you for entertainment purposes otherwise

Post: #9

You only have to pinky swear that you're in a relationship with her, not sign any legally binding contract. Just saying

Post: #10

Also for Girl B, have you tried the classic "In case of doubt, take it out"?
If she doesn't want to take her bra off or let you in her pants, just take out your dick & put her hands on it. This has broken LMR a few times for me.

Post: #11

(04-23-2014 02:41 AM)casio Wrote:  Also for Girl B, have you tried the classic "In case of doubt, take it out"?
If she doesn't want to take her bra off or let you in her pants, just take out your dick & put her hands on it. This has broken LMR a few times for me.

Yes, actually. Last week on date 3 we were in my bed and I was getting to the breaking point (and getting downright frustrated with this cocktease LMR bs) so I undid my pants. She asked "Are you undoing your pants?" "Maybe" "I think that's my cue to leave"

Brutal.

The only thing is with the playing boyfriend act, seeing as how he has been so prude so far, it will take a fair amount of dating this broad to get to "boyfriend" status. Not sure if thats an investment I'm willing to make to maybe pipe this girl out a month and a half from now.

Post: #12

Haha, tbh I try to do it without her noticing. SURPRISEDICK!

Post: #13

(04-23-2014 09:58 AM)casio Wrote:  Haha, tbh I try to do it without her noticing. SURPRISEDICK!

lmfao been there done that. Just wear sweatpants.

Seriously though, I had this dilemma last summer.

I cut ties with the prude and kept on fucking the other girl. She still comes around about once or twice a month. So I'm still playing the field and seeing other girls.

After a good 5-7 dates I couldn't even get her pants off. I would get further back in high school in less time. Fuck that.

Way too young to be waiting around and spending resources/time on blue balls. Even more in your case since she's leaving in a couple months.

Post: #14

(04-20-2014 10:14 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  Well, date number 3 basically went no further than date number 2 sexually. Refused to get the bra off and refused to give the genitals some air... but she was more than willing to cum but having me rub her clit over her pants and hold her down by her neck (I didn't give her the satisfaction, I'm not getting any girl off unless my dick is coming out and getting serviced). Fuck that.

There was a minute where she totally had me and her respect game was working on me - now it's past the point of endearing and now it's just plain cock-teasing. 86'ing this one. It's a damn shame because her body is absolutely mint and I would love to get in it, but she told me "doesn't really go all the way with a guy unless she is in a relationship with him" so no thanks.

"We may be at an impasse. I only put a woman in a relationship if the sex is extremely hot. How do I even know you can keep up sexually with my appetite?"

This is more of a last resort: throw down a challenge.

Post: #15

Figured I'd take a stab and try to setup a 4th date. Her response text verbatim:

"At this time in my life I'm not interested in jumping into bed with someone I barely know and the pressure I felt the other night turned me off so I think it/s best if we don't see each other again. Wish you he best."

I appreciate her honesty and steadfast reserve. Maybe I really had a good girl on my hands and blew it by being too forward and pushing for the bang. Oh well. I'll be perfectly honest, I'm kinda bummed mainly because I wanted to cross black-girl off my bucket list, and I'm not usually too attracted to black chicks so this one was kind of hard to come by. Whatever life goes on.

Post: #16

Girl B will either turn into a spinster or an outright cockwhore come her 30s. Two girls who I knew did this exact thing with the "oh Im so special" bullshit and were turned out by a couple of guys somewhere along the line and they loved it.

Since then they were just easy bar sluts.