Post: #1

serious concern. How do you feel about exiting a venue it you sense a fight or something.

For example: you're with a girl and it looks like a brawl is about to go done. Do you change venues, or is that submissive?

Post: #2

(04-22-2014 10:13 AM)blackglasses Wrote:  serious concern. How do you feel about exiting a venue it you sense a fight or something.

For example: you're with a girl and it looks like a brawl is about to go done. Do you change venues, or is that submissive?

Nah. It's not submissive to get out of dodge if you sense trouble.

You're protecting her. You're making a mature, responsible decision based on your street smarts too. Boom and boom.

Guys fighting at the bar often go home alone. You're just getting away from the jackasses before shit gets ugly.

Not to mention it's a great excuse to get her out of there, whether to pop back to your spot, mess around in the car, or just change venues.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #3

I love an excuse to venue change. I am still a noob, and sometimes get in a rut in one venue too long. I find a venue change helps me get it going again.

If shit was going down, I'd welcome the chance to take her somewhere else.

Post: #4

Fighting is something that you do because you have to.

Post: #5

(04-22-2014 10:13 AM)blackglasses Wrote:  serious concern. How do you feel about exiting a venue it you sense a fight or something.

For example: you're with a girl and it looks like a brawl is about to go done. Do you change venues, or is that submissive?

Discretion is the better part of valor.

If she's of a somewhat sound mind, she will greatly appreciate you doing so. If she's trashy, then she will probably rag on you/ get turned off.

When it comes to bar brawls, not worth it. Your life and good looks are more important than some lady's perception of you.

Defend yourself when necessary, use your better judgement.

Post: #6

I don't mean me fighting. I mean if there is a fight in the venue

Post: #7

(04-22-2014 12:39 PM)blackglasses Wrote:  I don't mean me fighting. I mean if there is a fight in the venue

View it as a gift from the "Player Gods", A reason to venue change your cricket back to your place and destroy another beautiful pussy.

That in my books does not make you look submissive.

Post: #8

It's not submissive to avoid getting shot, stabbed or hit in the face with a bottle of Goose.

I got jumped a few months ago and a good friend of mine got his jaw broken with a bottle of alcohol at the club. He'll need reconstructive surgery etc.

IF it can be avoided, get the fuck out! In this situation it came out of nowhere and I had three guys jump me randomly.

Post: #9

I've left clubs when it was looking like a fight was gonna break out, or even when a bunch of goons came in and the atmosphere changed.
I just grab the girl I'm with and bounce.
Most of the time the girl is cool with the venue change and appreciates the fact i was avoiding a confrontation.
About half of those got super wet because of my actions.