Post: #1

As some of you may recall from a previous post, I am in a rather complicated situation with a little sex freak. I started to develop a really nasty rash of oneitis, thanks to some good feedback from the fine gentlemen on this site, have pulled back emotionally and put this situation in the proper context: She's my little sexual plaything, nothing more. She, of course, loves being objectified as my little sex slut and has asked me to do whatever I want to her.

I obviously plan to take her up on that...a bit of rough sex...other semi-degrading things (think the end of nearly every porn scene you've ever scene). But I also thought I'd use some toys on her. Has anyone here had any luck with that? I was thinking of starting with some semi-kinky but fairly benign stuff - silk blindfold, maybe some hand ties or cuffs. But then I thought I'd get a little kinkier -- this girl likes the idea of being my little sex slut so I think I can push the envelope. was thinking of getting a (small!) butt plug. Or maybe a rabbit vibrator to beat up her clit.

Truthfully, I don't have a lot of experience with toys...has anyone here used anything that drove your little slut crazy?

Post: #2

get a remote controlled vibrating egg. Granted, this only works if she is reasonably sensitive from vaginal stimulation. 2 out of 3 girls I have used this on loved it. The third was kinda nonchalant, probably because it is difficult for her to climax vaginally.

Anyways, as you might imagine, there are a lot of things you can do with this egg. A lot of psychological play here.

Most intuitively, for example, is to establish a master-slave relationship. Only you have access to the egg, and only you are allowed to take it out. You instruct her that when she can or cannot be released from her "pleasure prison" is solely at your discretion, pleasure, and whim. If she reacts as you would reasonably expect to the egg, once you turn it on she should be writhing in pleasure. The two girls I tried this on with success immediately begged me to fuck them once the egg was on. Their instinctive next move is to start giving you a bj. You can let them, and indulge in that, or you can even take that option away as a means to control their sexual expression.

One scenario I enjoy is shortly making them put their clothes on after they've reacted to the egg. You can take them for a walk, and turn the egg on each time you pass somebody on the street. You can go on the subway, and have it turn on while she is standing in the middle of a crowd. You can take her to a restaurant and have it go on when the waitress comes. Take her to meet your/her friends. Lots of possibilities there. By the time you take her home, she will jump on you. However, make sure she is kept under your watch and within your control. Anecdotally, I have heard of a guy who once took his gf to a party and left her for 20 mins while he talked to other girls. Next thing he knows, she is blowing some other guy at the party.

Another scenario is to tie her up in your room with the egg inside her and leave there for an extended period of time. Leave the egg on and just let her squirm while you go get the groceries/workout/do whatever the fuck you want. You can even just decide to stay in the room and watch a tv show or read a book for all you want.

Post: #3

I like the way you think...

Post: #4

One thing I have done is have them insert a vibrator. Turn it on as high as you can without having an audible buzz, then go out and do some stuff for an hour or two. Similar idea is to tie them up, insert the vibrator, and go play video games.

Post: #5

Sex toys are great, but if she's your "sex slut" I'd use her to pull a threesome.

Post: #6

(06-10-2014 07:31 PM)mbare Wrote:  Sex toys are great, but if she's your "sex slut" I'd use her to pull a threesome.

Nice try but you are not coming over this weekend.

Post: #7

Hitachi magic wand for when you can't be there.
Anal plugs to train her ass.
Some riding crops. Ball gag. Spider gag. Collar. Ankle cuffs that attach to an extendable rod. This should cover most anything a normal girl wants

Post: #8

(06-10-2014 09:31 PM)The Father Wrote:  

(06-10-2014 07:31 PM)mbare Wrote:  Sex toys are great, but if she's your "sex slut" I'd use her to pull a threesome.

Nice try but you are not coming over this weekend.

Haha..caught me red handed.

Seriously though...I don't know how old she is, but if you have this girl on lock the way you describe, then you can really bring out the sex freak in her. It just depends on how she's feeling about you, and only you'll know that. But you can train these young ones that are YOUR sluts.

The best ideas are the ones where the other person thinks they came up with it. I'd ask her about her fantasies, if she's ever kissed a girl, etc. Play it off as an experience/fantasy and she may go for it.

Girls who are in on the "game" with you can be pretty good at times getting another chick to do things. Also, they usually prefer a stranger so she could try to game a girl online, or at a bar. I think online is where it's at though. I don't know how sexually charged your girl is though. If she's a little "fire starter" then you'll be golden.

Post: #9

Tie her up, blind fold her, double penetrate her with a vibrator, do whatever, its gonna be a real fun experience, I guarantee it. Just act like its a totally healthy, normal and fun thing to do. I actually bought a vibrator for a girl when I was in a LTR so I could do nasty shit with her, she NEVER used it on her own ("You know how to do it way better then me"). I took her to a sex shop with me when I bought it, and also chose some sexy lingerie that she will buy herself and wear when I request it.

A year after a breakup when I caught up with her, she told me she didn't used either with anybody else (although I know for a fact she did have other men after me).

Post: #10

Bitches love nipple clamps too! A lot of the above suggestions are gold. Try doing some outside/public stuff. I know a few girls who are into the whole exhibitionism stuff. I once banged a girl who was leaning out my apt window for all my neighbors to see.

Also give her the McQueen!

Post: #11

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Post: #12

Sidenote- Nothing to do with thread, but the title and your username is priceless.

Post: #13

(06-11-2014 05:52 AM)Snowplow Wrote:  Bitches love nipple clamps too! A lot of the above suggestions are gold. Try doing some outside/public stuff. I know a few girls who are into the whole exhibitionism stuff. I once banged a girl who was leaning out my apt window for all my neighbors to see.

Also give her the McQueen!

They do love the public exhibitionism! I've gotten with girls on balconys of hotels and apartments...they know there is SOME chance of getting caught, but not that much of a chance. Also, if you're staying in a hotel that has a large ballroom, it will be empty during the day...sneak in there and do whatever!

What's the McQueen??

Post: #14

If you have a gal who's willing to do threesome positions but isn't willing to bring an actual warm body into your pairing than you can have all kinds of fun with a dildo or fingering. Specifically, I've noticed the following among the past:

- A gal sucking your dick while being fingered / dildoed gets into it like crazy and is more likely to want to please you; she has been able to fulfill her desire of being penetrated while sucking you off so there are numerous ways you can capitalize on this. She's already good to go so you can use those toys in any kind of perverted combination (as long as none of them involve going up your ass) in order to get her off.

Post: #15

I told a girl to get a butt plug. SHe got 3 varieties and wanted to get a vibrating one afterwards.

And this girl was all for denying my her arse until I got her used to me playing with it. From a prude to a freak in less than a month. Toys are great when used well.

Post: #16

(06-09-2014 09:51 PM)SHANbangs Wrote:  get a remote controlled vibrating egg. Granted, this only works if she is reasonably sensitive from vaginal stimulation. 2 out of 3 girls I have used this on loved it. The third was kinda nonchalant, probably because it is difficult for her to climax vaginally.

Anyways, as you might imagine, there are a lot of things you can do with this egg. A lot of psychological play here.

Most intuitively, for example, is to establish a master-slave relationship. Only you have access to the egg, and only you are allowed to take it out. You instruct her that when she can or cannot be released from her "pleasure prison" is solely at your discretion, pleasure, and whim. If she reacts as you would reasonably expect to the egg, once you turn it on she should be writhing in pleasure. The two girls I tried this on with success immediately begged me to fuck them once the egg was on. Their instinctive next move is to start giving you a bj. You can let them, and indulge in that, or you can even take that option away as a means to control their sexual expression.

One scenario I enjoy is shortly making them put their clothes on after they've reacted to the egg. You can take them for a walk, and turn the egg on each time you pass somebody on the street. You can go on the subway, and have it turn on while she is standing in the middle of a crowd. You can take her to a restaurant and have it go on when the waitress comes. Take her to meet your/her friends. Lots of possibilities there. By the time you take her home, she will jump on you. However, make sure she is kept under your watch and within your control. Anecdotally, I have heard of a guy who once took his gf to a party and left her for 20 mins while he talked to other girls. Next thing he knows, she is blowing some other guy at the party.

Another scenario is to tie her up in your room with the egg inside her and leave there for an extended period of time. Leave the egg on and just let her squirm while you go get the groceries/workout/do whatever the fuck you want. You can even just decide to stay in the room and watch a tv show or read a book for all you want.

Do you recommend a specific one?

Post: #17

The McQueen is after you nut on her tits, finger her a little, scoop up the baby batter and shove it in her mouth. Her juice and yours to suck on.

Post: #18

I'm really ambivalent about sex toys. Toys have the natural appearance of compensating for a man's lack of prowess in the bedroom. It's a very dangerous trap, where you start competing with the toy, and it's hard to compete with a robot that never loses stamina.

On the other hand, sometimes toys are practically necessary to get her off, and she'll be happier having used them.

There might be a good way to navigate these two extremes, and use them with the right frame of mind, but I haven't quite found that yet.

Post: #19

(06-13-2014 11:56 AM)party1981 Wrote:  I'm really ambivalent about sex toys. Toys have the natural appearance of compensating for a man's lack of prowess in the bedroom. It's a very dangerous trap, where you start competing with the toy, and it's hard to compete with a robot that never loses stamina.

On the other hand, sometimes toys are practically necessary to get her off, and she'll be happier having used them.

There might be a good way to navigate these two extremes, and use them with the right frame of mind, but I haven't quite found that yet.

It's only in your mind that you're competing with a sex toy.

The 'needing a toy to get off' bit needs explaining.

If a girl regularly uses vibrators on her clit to get off, it will de-sensitise her, and make normal stimulation less rewarding.

Post: #20

blindfold, silk ties, bondage cuffs, spreader bar, hogtie, ball gag, collar is a good start. Magic Wand.

Post: #21

(06-11-2014 03:25 AM)FilipSRB Wrote:  Tie her up, blind fold her, double penetrate her with a vibrator, do whatever, its gonna be a real fun experience, I guarantee it. Just act like its a totally healthy, normal and fun thing to do. I actually bought a vibrator for a girl when I was in a LTR so I could do nasty shit with her, she NEVER used it on her own ("You know how to do it way better then me"). I took her to a sex shop with me when I bought it, and also chose some sexy lingerie that she will buy herself and wear when I request it.

A year after a breakup when I caught up with her, she told me she didn't used either with anybody else (although I know for a fact she did have other men after me).

Wow man , looks like you have lot of experience with sex dolls