Post: #26

(09-25-2014 02:00 PM)MikeinMKE Wrote:  

(09-25-2014 01:55 PM)blacknwhitespade Wrote:  So do you dump them/delete them from your cell phone after you get the bang on the 3rd-5th date? Artfully let it fizzle??

You guys sound pretty attractive, I haven't been online enough to get a good sample size yet.

I'm a white guy, early 30s, college-educated, good job/income (well, mechanical engineering, not sure if that's a pro/con?), good-looking with good photos. I'm 5'9" but have a narrow/tall-ish build, I've fudged my profile to 5'10" since several of the girls I've met obviously "overestimated" their own height.

I'll kind of delay my texts, seem more distant, see them one more time but maybe "not in the mood for sex" and then let them down via text or even a phone call. Maybe the mistake is I should drop them after date 2 or 3 so it doesn't get so difficult. But I enjoy having sex multiple times because the process of sliding a finger in their bum, maying banging them in my building's service elevator, etc is as fun to me as the initial time in my bedroom. I always feel bad though - they're good chicks who probably think I'm boyfriend material.

How old are these girls? 20s? 30s? I think you can just disappear after the 3rd date or so but if it goes beyond that, you've got to have the awkward discussion. I once did this with a girl towards the end of the 5th date, I thought it would be a little more dignified than doing it via phone. We actually sorta became friends and she invited me to her church.

Post: #27

Usually by experience, any dating site works, in Canada I was able to get laid after 2-3 dates, but I had to fake interest in a relationship or I wouldn't score.

In most cases, the hard part is not getting the bang, but ditching the girl when you're done with the job.

Whatever site you choose, stay out from Fuckbook.com. They wanted to make this site a "Facebook for sex", but all profiles were fake. I paid $29 for 1 month of full privileges, got around 10 messages, all from fake profiles. When I am in Canada I live in a French-speaking place, and curiously, no one of those 10 girls spoke French, but dared to claim that they were here for a while. Their customer service wouldn't refund me, so I had to send a chargeback their way. I won the dispute but ended up wasting time.

In Canada, Réseau Contact (French) and POF got me a few lays, I'd say 70/30 ratio. In Thailand, ThaiFriendly and Farangdate got me a few ones, a lot easier of course.

Post: #28

Online dating: The odds are good but the goods are odd :/

Post: #29

(09-28-2014 07:12 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  Yes, you can get laid on the Match.com, I've gotten the bang in 4 hours. The next record is like 10 hours. Plenty of older bitches wanting to fuck on there. Matter of fact, all of my bangs in the last year were from there. Used that place since I was 17, gotten at least 26 bitches from there. At least.....

Just make it seem like you're a fun guy and don't rush too fast. I have moms sending me nudes and shit. Got a 20 year old from there too.


I posted this on the EE Lounge: /thread-9856-p...#pid840762

Man, ever since I got on the "no fap" program it seems like I'm going on the "blue balled" program!

Friday, two bitches wanted to fuck. Both of them had their kids over so I couldn't fuck.

Yesterday I spam messaged on Match.com, one bitch replied.....later that night night this bitch got drunk, sent me nude pics, we live 10 minutes apart yet didn't want to meet up.

Today, I spam messaged on Match.com. One brazilian broad replied, she liked my vibe, gave her my number, it was going well. I didn't want to sexualize the convo and scare her so I proposed coming over to "enjoy her patio". She gave me a call, said yes, gave me her address. So I went from First Contact to going to her place in 3 hours. She started going hamster on how she never brought someone straight to her home without meeting them. So we met in the parking lot, went to her apartment, tried to escalate but my efforts were futile. Then she made up some BS excuse on having an errand, mentioning how this was going too fast, and I bounced.

I don't have a regular (as of last week) so I'm out of luck on steady pussy.

Also, these are all from Match.com

TL;DR - Had 4 bitches, 3 who wanted to bang. 2 couldn't bang due to kids, one is flakey, I escalated too quickly on the other one.

Hey Cattle Rustler,

I'd love to hear more about your game on Match.com. What kind of messages are you sending these women? How do you approach the conversation? Are you very sexual right upfront, or are you just playing "nice" game and then transitioning to sexual when you meet them face to face?

Post: #30

I tried match a year or two ago. Used my opener on 200 match profiles and at same time 200 cupid profiles.

Match I got 1-2 responses. Cupid was around 30-40

Post: #31

(03-13-2015 04:55 PM)chyamor Wrote:  I tried match a year or two ago. Used my opener on 200 match profiles and at same time 200 cupid profiles.

Match I got 1-2 responses. Cupid was around 30-40

I got much better results on OKc and even Tinder than on Match. I used the same profile description, photos and messages on OKc and Match. To me, Match is not worth the money.

Post: #32

(03-13-2015 11:10 PM)Brodiaga Wrote:  

(03-13-2015 04:55 PM)chyamor Wrote:  I tried match a year or two ago. Used my opener on 200 match profiles and at same time 200 cupid profiles.

Match I got 1-2 responses. Cupid was around 30-40

I got much better results on OKc and even Tinder than on Match. I used the same profile description, photos and messages on OKc and Match. To me, Match is not worth the money.

I get probably 8 dates off of match for 1 date I get off of pof and okcupid combined.

I'm convinced I could email the same exact girl on match and get a date and email her on pof and get no response or a flake.

My friend gets winked/emailed by chicks initiating him all the time on match, but on pof only gets 2/10 to respond to one of his emails.

I can get equal number of responses on pof or probably even more off the initial message, but the conversion rate from response to actual meetup is night and day.

Conversion rate of response to a meetup on pof is worse than getting a response on the opening message. 10 percent and less.

Match 35 - 40 percent of times it's a date if i get a response.

- Ask girls. They will tell you. They don't get as many emails on match. One girl told me she didn't like that. Less options, less hypergamy.

Post: #33

^It may be different depending on location. The girls I target live in/around NYC.

Post: #34

I've had modest results with Match.com so far. I tried it for a few weeks last fall and pulled three dates, nothing too spectacular. I've been trolling it again last month and this month and have yet to even get a date. I get a lot of terse responses or no response at all. I'm a good-looking guy with great photos, clever profile write-up, I'm writing 3-4 sentence emails, emphasizing quality over quantity, but still little love! Meh.

Post: #35

(03-13-2015 11:10 PM)Brodiaga Wrote:  

(03-13-2015 04:55 PM)chyamor Wrote:  I tried match a year or two ago. Used my opener on 200 match profiles and at same time 200 cupid profiles.

Match I got 1-2 responses. Cupid was around 30-40

I got much better results on OKc and even Tinder than on Match. I used the same profile description, photos and messages on OKc and Match. To me, Match is not worth the money.

What's weird is Match group owns a lot of these sites, so the software behind it is more than likely the same. The only difference is the demographic, for whatever reason (aside from the free versus paid model).

Match spends a shitload of money on data analytics but they find that progress is tough, since everybody lies about their information. Can't make a real match between two people if the input is invalid.

Post: #36

Match is around £30 for the one-off month in the UK!

I rejoined Pof on Saturday due to the decline of Tinder and I was shocked at the low class of women there. I deleted my profile as soon after the 24hr minimum membership period as I could.

Does Match have a presence in continental Europe? As my value with European women seems higher than with British women, the chance to fly to Europe to meet someone might justify the fee.