Post: #1

Hi guys,

I'm kind of in a weird situation with this asian chick I've been banging lately. She's good sex, really submissive, but not a girl I would ever plan on dating in the long run. Plus, I'm in a dry spell so I wouldn't mind keeping her around for a bit. She doesn't seem to mind.

A little background: I'm a university student living in a pseudo-frat house. Met this girl at a party at my house, brought her back to her dorm and nailed her. We've hooked up a few times since.

The last time she was over, I completely underperformed. Whether I was too tired or what, I just couldn't get off and couldn't get her off either. To top it all off, I failed just about the easiest shit test. She asks me if I "have sex a lot" and I responded with a "not really" and told her she was the only girl I'm fucking right now (bad move, I know).

Now, I literally don't talk to this girl other than making arrangements for her to come over. I tell her to come over, she does, we fuck, she leaves. She's turned me down two times in a row, once because she had to "get up early" and tonight because "she's sick and doesn't want to get me sick."

She apologizes for being sick and asks if it's okay if we do it another time (which she said last time as well). I respond with:
"No worries, I just invited the other girl over anyways "
No response. I was actually making plans with a tinder chick at the time, so it wasn't entirely false, but she doesn't know that.

My first instinct would be to stop texting her and let her come to me. But the whole arrangement we have is I text her, she comes over, so all not texting her would do is not get me laid.

Any ideas what to do next?

Post: #2

Fuck. She's in control now

do you have her on snappicture?

Post: #3

I'm assuming you mean snapchat, no I don't. Only her number.

Another really weird thing: Every time she comes over, which is like a 3 minute walk, her friends walk her over. One time they hung out in the living room with my roommates while this girl and I had sex. Weirdest shit.

Post: #4

Put her on the back burner for now. Let a week or two go by before you contact her again.
Nothing too major.
It's just sex, but make sure the next time she's over you perform well if you're interested in keeping her around.

Post: #5

You don't openly say you're having another girl over, you imply that and by being busy you confirm her suspicions. And you dun goofed. So now if you pull a Houdini she'll likely contact you after a period of time that should be twice as long as you usually contact her. If not then re initiate then. By not needing her for a while you'll confirm your "im having another girl over" fib. And go talk to more girls