Post: #1

I've been texting with this girl that i knew from a friend of a friend and we had good hours of talking and afterwards I asked her out. She subtly ignored the question and continued talking. I stated that out and after stating it, it eventaully ended up with no deal and I ended talking by going to bed. I tried it afterwards one more time and it ended up in the same way and me now deciding never to contact this girl again.

I know that everyone here uses texting only for logistics but aside from that do you think that my decision is correct and that this girl is only wasting my time?

Post: #2

It's very confusing to figure out what you're getting at. What your main question is.

Regarding this girl, it seems clear that she is not interested. Next!

Post: #3

Next.

Post: #4

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Post: #5

Decision correct.

Post: #6

I thought so, thanks.

Post: #7

(11-15-2014 02:43 PM)harveyspecter Wrote:  I've been texting with this girl that i knew from a friend of a friend and we had good hours of talking and afterwards I asked her out. She subtly ignored the question and continued talking. I stated that out and after stating it, it eventaully ended up with no deal and I ended talking by going to bed. I tried it afterwards one more time and it ended up in the same way and me now deciding never to contact this girl again.

I know that everyone here uses texting only for logistics but aside from that do you think that my decision is correct and that this girl is only wasting my time?

Yes you're right it's solely for logistics and and keep things interesting.

How old are both of you ?
How did you ask her out ?

I wouldn't ever directly ask a girl out (IE Hey want to go out on a date?)

But yes radio silence and next her was the correct choice.

Post: #8

18.
In a subtle way, she actually sad yes first time but could not go afterwards. ( not BS, actually could not)
Then a week after we talked and I brough it up again and she somehow avoided the subject.

Post: #9

I did as I said determined to finish the conversation, and next her but after not talking with her for a week she texted me first. After the convo ran its course she texted me first again after a week, and then a week after that again.

Asked her out, going with her on friday.

Post: #10

harvey specter is the man!

btw, whenever a girl withdraws, you need to withdraw further
and brevity is the soul of wit

just putting this out there..

Post: #11

Flake chance about 70%.

Post: #12

Even if you manage to get a date, she will say "yeah... could be great" and flake chance is very high as Traversy444 said.

It is clear she is not interested. NEXT.

A girl who's interested will say "yeah sure where do you wanna meet", or "can't make it Wesnesday, how about Thursday?"
A girl who's not interested will say "yeah I will let you know when I can" or just change the subject.

Waste no more time. Unless she offers something by herself, silence.

Post: #13

Its a waste of time. Id wait 2 weeks and hit her up to hang out (keep it short -5 mins or less).

No reason to spend hours on a girl. Rule #1
No reason to spend unn-necessary money on a girl. Rule #2
If it looks like the girl doesn't like you, she doesn't like you. Rule #3

Disregard all rules when you have swooped at minimum 15+ girls as a ONS and have more experience.

Post: #14

Should have asked her out within the first 5 minutes of conversating. Really just no reason to give her the validation of talking to you for so long when she hasn't reciprocated at all.

Post: #15

(12-09-2014 12:20 AM)tallandblonde Wrote:  Should have asked her out within the first 5 minutes of conversating. Really just no reason to give her the validation of talking to you for so long when she hasn't reciprocated at all.

Write this shit down.

Way too much talking. You could've just asked her to put you in the friendzone.

Post: #16

You need to see yourself as the guy forcing her to make moves one way or the other.

Not waiting and reacting to what she does. It's your ball, your court, your game.

Post: #17

(12-08-2014 07:53 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  Flake chance about 70%.

We went out, everything went fine but i did not even made out with her and it was mainly my fault. I did not even try because i picked out a crappy place to hang out where I couldn't go for the kiss. Afterwards was too cold and we couldn't sit somewhere alone su we went to another place which was also bad for making out and I wasted this chance.