Post: #26

Opened asking " Hey i'm looking for an American Apperel around here "
She said sorry don't know and continued walking before a could even get another word in . I let her go

- Hey i'm looking for the nearest tram stop .
She proceeds to show me how to get there . She's giving IOI's so I switch to GALNUC .

Hey by the way are you half german ?
- She laughs
- I go through my German routine joke where I saw " no seriously you've got German cheeks whilst smiling and touching my cheeks .
- She laughs
- I try and bait by saying " im actually from france and i use to go to germany all the time for my art project ..
( She doesn't bite , I keep talking )
- How old are you
- I'm 18 , ooo what am I saying i'm actually 19
- I laugh , did you just turn 19
- Yeah
- That must have been a great party what did you do
- I went to tiger tiger

At this point I go through my routine about how I'm new to the city and im looking for places that play good music, I also throw in a funny story about my first time partying in london and how weird they party compared to french people ,

She laughs again .

At this point her baby starts crying and she says she's in a rush she's got to go .

I take out my phone and say " hey put your number in my phone , you seem cool we should hang out sometime " ( This is by far the smoothest number close i've pulled so far .

As she puts her number in my phone she says something like yeah the baby isn't mine it's my brothers ( aka validating herself to me .)
Number closed


Opened with " Hey I just broke my iphone screen I'm looking for a place where i can get it repaired for cheap "

She gives me directions ( which were wrong by the way but i digress )
I switch to GALNUC and go through my german cheek joke routine

She laughs and tells me she's actually polish , then excuses herself . I let her go .


Approached with the same opener as number 23 .

She gives me directions , I switch to GALNUC and go through the german cheek joke routine , she's giving me IOI's and i thinking this is going to be my second number close of the day .

I ask her how old she is and she tells me " I'm 21 , with a baby and a boyfriend "

I attempt to bypass by ignoring and saying " So what do you do around here "

She brings it right back . She ends up wishing me good luck with my iphone screen search and i'm wishing her good luck with her baby . Fair play to her .

Okay this one was weird . The girl walks past me giving me an IOI . I follow her and open her by saying " Excuse me " . She puts her palm up like she was VIP celebrity and turns away from me .

I'm like " you just held eye contact with me 30 seconds ago wtf ? " I brush it off though .


Okay this one was my fault , I experimented with another opener " Excuse me , i'm looking for a place to buy a trench coat for my little sister "

She wasn't helpful , and closed whilst looking at me with a slight sarcastic smile . I didn't even bother switching to GALNUC with this one . Maybe I should've went direct instead .

Post: #27

17/01/2014

Opened at the tram stop :

- Excuse me where did you get your coat

- Oh i got it from ****** , it was ages ago though

- yeah I'm shopping for a late Christmas present for my sister

-have you tried zara ?

- well i'm not from here and most of the people i've spoken to recommend zara , where i'm from there not really known for quality you see

- really ?

well yeah , i'd hate to spend a lot of money on something that's not going to last very long , your one seems to be holding up very well , how much did you spend on it

- 100 pounds

Yeah my sister doesn't deserve that much money spent on her ( I say this with a smirk )

By this time the tram had arrived , I ramble on about the coat as we step on and I sit next to her . Once we're sat I switch to GALNUC . I do my german cheek joke and now we're talking about me and where I'm from . Which leads to studying and she tells me she's a lawyer . A family lawyer to be exact .

We converse throughout my entire journey ( around 20 mins ) with no awkward silences . I'm really amazed at how my conversational skills have improved .

I didn't go for the number close because she told me she had a fiance . I don't mess with people who are married or going to get married . Not based of some deep moral principle but mostly for my own safety .

Can't think of many things more dangerous and unpredictable than a blue pill cuckolded man .


I don't usually count the approaches that I do in my retail store but I got a number out of this one so I guess it counts .

She asked me about an item , I rambled about it . I then switched to GALNUC .

Turns out she WAS actually half german . (LOL) Anyway , we conversate for around 20 mins , I close by saying we should get together sometime to smoke some weed . ( She'd told me she was a smoker ) Number closed .

However I text her at the end of my shift :

- hey it's sensei , how are you ?

- Hi really sorry my partners not happy about u texting I wish u all the best with your quest in life good luck

Another dead lead

The numbers I got last week led nowhere too .

Still chasing my first game aware bang . Trying to end a 6 month dry spell . It's hard out here for a pimp man .

Post: #28

So in the last 2 days i've done a total of 7 approaches . Most of them didn't get to the GALNUC stage . ( Unwillingness on my part to follow through ) . I did do my first direct approach on a girl that literally looked like a thinner version of my favorite pornstar , I had to try and approach . It didn't go well :

I was following her as she walked towards the exit of the mall , as she reached the door to leave I sped up and pretended to reach for the same door at the same time as her . I essentially created a false confusing moment . I looked at her , and we both smiled and excused ourselves . As I look at her I deliver the opener :

- Hey your cute , what's your name ?
- What ?
- I said your cute what's your name ?
- I'm sorry i don't speak very good english ( at this point she knows its a pick up and her body language has shifted and become defensive , she's also walking away )

Not willing to give up , walk alongside her and say :

- oh okay , where are you from ?
- Romania
- oh ok so how long have you been in the uk ?

At this point I realize it's a lost cause , as I eject she says " thank you " lol . The way I planned the approach was absolutely beautiful though lol .

I also did my first public transport approach :

I enter the tram and sit right next to a girl that's I think is around 27-28 , I wait for a couple minutes then I open :

- Hey where did you get your shoes ?
- Oh these are not from the UK
- Well ive been looking for a pair similar to those for my little sister as a late Christmas present , but im not from here i'm having a hard time ..

Blah blah blah , I finally switch to galnuc for the first time in 7 approaches , we talk about poland ( her country of origin , I'm in the middle of a ramble on my city of origin when she says " sorry this is my stop " and gets off .

What's funny is that for this approach I had absolutely no approach anxiety , even though there were numerous people within direct earshot . It's funny how AA comes and goes like that .

Post: #29

To give myself more motivation to follow through my approaches , I've made the decision to stop watching porn completely , i'm not a porn addict but I've realized it's an unhealthy habit for me . I think that subconsciously my brain is thinking " it's okay if you let this one go , you can always go home and masturbate " .

I mean i've been watching it for 10 years already.. that's a long time . It's time I let it go . I'll think about past bangs instead . I'm also limiting fapping to twice a week .

Post: #30

26/01/2015

12 Approaches , 2 Number Closed

Big update today . I've made another major development in my game . Today has been , without a doubt , my hardest working day since I've started game . This is due to two reasons :

1. My no fap/no porn policy that I've implemented
2. I've made a switch from indirect game to direct game .

Now In daygame Roosh makes a point that indirect game is the better option as he is in the business of getting dates , not numbers. His method reduces the chance of flakes and dead leads as he build attraction through 5/10 minute sets . However I believe I had found a method that works for me by combining his method and adding my own invention .

1. My opener is : Hey this is going to seem really random but you seem cute and I had to say hi .

2. I then lay out my hand and introduce myself " My name is Sensei , nice to meet you "

3. If her body language is positive I'll then use Roosh's " By the way are you half german ? "

4. I'll then go through with my german cheek joke that i've mentioned a few posts above .

5. I may go through with asking her age , effectively only using GAC of GALNUC

6. After that i'll add a false time constraint like " hey i'm late for work give me your number and we'll hang out you seem cool "

The result is that my investment time is low , my average set time has dropped from 5-10 minutes to probably around 2 minutes . I am able to get a lot more sets in .

Also my opener screens a lot of girls out . If she continues on her path : She's not interested . Had I gone indirect , I would have wasted 10 minutes rambling for nothing .

Switching to direct has also come with another change : I now only open girls I want to fuck , not girls who i think would fuck me . That's a subtle but huge change.

I opened a lot of 8-9s today . I never did that with indirect game . I would open with an excuse , but I could never muster up the courage to switch to GALNUC with an 8-9 .

With direct I feel more powerful , more masculine . Here's a girl I want to fuck , i'm going to open her by stating my intent immediately .

By nature I'm a shy person , I didn't thing that direct game was for me , but my experiences today have changed that .

I’ll detail today's 12 approaches in the next post .

Post: #31

26/01/2015

12 Approaches , 2 Number Closed

Opener : Hey this gonna seem really random , but you seem cute and I had to say high

Approach number 36 :
-Opener
-Oh thank you ( She doesn’t stop walking)
-Are you half German ?
-No I'm actually half Norwegian
-Oh okay you've got German cheeks
-Oh thank you bye have a good day

Approach Number 37

Opener
She laughs and stops
Are you half German ?
No ( looks confused )
Really you’ve got German cheek ?
What's a German cheek ?
Well I used to live in France and I used to go to Germany a lot for my art project , you’ve got a german vibe..
Oh okay ,
What's your name ?
Ashley ,
Okay I'm Sensei nice to meet you
How old are you ?
18
I'm 44
For real?
Yeah I put rejuvenating creamy in my face every morning ..
She laughs
Hey I gotta rush I'm a bit late for work .. Can a grab your number ?
Yeah I don't usually give my number to people
Well you know you can make an exception for me right ?
Well I feel a little uncomfortable..
Okay well take care


Opener
Thank you very much ( doesn’t stop walking)
Am I bothering you , are you in a rush ?
Yeah I'm in rush
Okay well take care
Opener ,
Aww thanks turns around and I let her go

opener
Thanks ,
I'm officially two minutes late for work ..
Oh okay well can I give you my number ?
I've got a boyfriend ..
Okay cool we'll take care
I like your style ..
I like yours aswell.. Bye

Approach 38

opener
Ok thank you ( doesn't stop walking )
Are you in a rush ?
Yeah
Okay we'll take care

Approach 39
Opener
Oh thanks
What's your name ?
Anne
Okay nice to meet you
Are you in a rush ?
Yeah..
Okay welll if I give you my number ? ( yes that's how it came out ..)
Yeah I've got a boyfriend,,
Okay well take care Anne

Approach 40

Opener
She laughs
Hey my names Sensei what's your name ?
Lauren, Omg I can't believe this is happening
Well your actually in a dream so pinch yourself and you'll wake up
Ok (doesn’t laugh at my joke)
By the way are you half German ?
No I'm English
You've got German cheeks
She laughs again
What do you mean German cheeks
Well I used to live in France and used to go to Germany a lot for my art project so I used to see a lot of Germany people and they have ugly cheeks .
(She laughs and she hits my arm)
Hey listen can I give you my number ?
Yeah , or shall i give you mine ?
We exchange numbers .

Opener
My names yann what's your name ?
Rania
Are you in a rush ?
Yeah
Okay well do you want to grab my number ?
Do you have snapchat
No I'm not really on that social media stuff
Okay well do you want mine
Sure
We exchange numbers

Approach 41

Opener
She mumbles thanks or something and continues on her path (Blowout)

Approach 42

Opener
Oww thanks ( she's walking away )
My names Yann what’s your name ? (Handshake)
Are in are rush ?
Yeah
Can I give you my number ?
Sorry I've got a boyfriend ( she's still squeezing my hand whilst walking away as she says this )
Cool take care

Approach 43
Opener
No response (Blowout)

Approach 44

Opener
Okay thanks
Are you half German ?
No ( laughing )
Well you've got German cheeks ( laughs )
How old are you ?
Guess ?
65, ( I laugh ) no I'm just joking 22 ?
No 24
I'm 44
( She nods whilst smiling )
I put rejuvenating cream on every morning , I'll give you the name of it .. You look like you need it ..( laughing )
She says thanks smiling ( but I think she took offence here )
Hey can I give you my number ?
What for ? ( whilst smiling )
So I can text you so we can hang out you seem cool ,
I have a boyfriend
I have one too , it's not working out we want different things ..
She laughs , well I can give you my boyfriends number of you want ..
I laugh no I'm alright , take care bye


( I'm on approach 44 , nearly halfway through )

Post: #32

Another big update . Today I experimented more with my new direct approach method , and i've decided to modify it further . After losing what should have been a number close due to a joke she didn't understand .

Usually at this point the "No girls" and "Maybe Girls" are still in motion even though they've slowed down . If she still hasn't stopped walking by this point I usually go say " Are you in a rush ? " to which they usually reply " Yes " and so I'll go for the number close . e.g " Okay well can I grab you number so we can hang out sometime you seem cool . "

However if she's stopped or replied that she's not in a rush I would go into GALNUC and say " Are you half german ? " , wait for her to respond . And then do my german cheek joke routine where I say " are you sure , you've got german cheeks " ( I say this whilst smiling ) .

I've realized that this is very hit or miss , some girls just don't get it and it cost me a number as you'll see when I detail today's approaches below .

As a result , if she has stopped and said she's not in a rush I go with a more universal joke/routine which is the following :


This modification is much better than the german cheek joke as :

1. It's much more universal and establishes a playful rapport

2. As i've said earlier I'm only opening 7s 8s 9s and 10s , girls who are used to having unimaginable amounts of attention from guys . As i've opened with a compliment it's crucial that I also neg her as quickly as possible to show her i'm not intimidated by her beauty .

27/01/2015

7 Approaches , 2 numbers

Approach #45

-Opener
Oh thank you ( She doesn't stop walking)
- Are you in a rush ?
Yeah ( She's still walking )
- Can I grab your number ?
Yeah sorry my boyfriend won't be to happy about that
- Okay Take care
Thank you

Approach #46 ( After this approach I decided to ditch the " German Cheek Joke " )

- Opener
( She does a nervous laugh )
-Hey I'm Sensei what's your name ? ( I go for the handshake)
Courtney
- Cool are you in a rush ?
No ( Fixes Hair = IOI )
- Great so are you half german ?
No ( She says this with a weird look ) ( I'm losing it )
- Oh okay because you've got german cheeks
(She doesn't laugh at my joke)
Hey sorry i've got to go to my friend .. ( She starts walking away )
- Okay cool can I grab your number ( Hail mary move )
Sorry I've got a boyfriend
- Okay cool take care

Approach #47 ( Testing the age joke routine after losing approach 46 to my polarizing joke)

-Opener
Thanks for the compliment
- My name's Sensei , what's your name ? ( I go for handshake )
Lily
- Cool so how old are you
I'm 19
- Nice i'm 44
Your 44 ?? ( She laughs )
- Yeah Black don't crack i'm 44
( She laughs again )
- I put rejuvenating cream on my face very morning.. I'll give you the name of it , you look like you need it..
( She laughs , as she laughs I put my hand on her back and say i'm just joking with a smile )
- Hey i'm in a rush can I grab your number ?
I have a boyfriend ..
- I have one too.. we want the same things it's not working out
Well he wouldn't be happy your doing this then ( Whilst laughing )
- Ok check this out , you give me your number .. I'll text you.. if you don't reply , i'll delete it , if you do .. something magical will happen..
But I have a boyfriend ( whilst laughing )
- Okay then take care
Okay you too , thanks for the compliment

Approach #48

- Opener
She ignored me ( blowout )

Approach #49

- Opener
Oh thanks ( She doesn't stop walking )
- What's your name ? ,(I offer my hand )
( She doesn't take it and keeps on walking )
- Are you in a rush ?
Yeaah
- Aw damn , can I grab your number ?
Sorry I don't have it at hand
- Okay cool take care
Thanks

Approach #50

- Opener
Thanks ( She doesn't stop walking )
- My name's Sensei , what's your name ( I offer my hand for handshake )
Lydia ( She's still walking but she's slowed down and we're still holding hands )
- Are you in a rush ?
Yeaah
- Can I grab you number ?
( She pauses for a second during which I say " We can hangout sometime "
Yeah
- I give her my phone and she puts her number in .

Approach #51

- Opener
Aww thanks ( She stops )
- My names Sensei , what's your name ? ( I go for handshake )
Carol
- Cool are you in a rush ?
Yeaah
- Can I grab your number so we can hang out sometime ?
Yeah sure
( As she's putting her number in my phone we ramble about shopping a bit , until she says she really has to go and bails . )


No fap/no porn policy is really fueling my direct approaches , I'm actually starting to enjoy daygaming now . Seeing the girl , going over to approach , getting the number . It's becoming addictive to me . I feel powerful opening this beautiful girls I was once scared to even look at .

( I'm officially halfway through the challenge )

Post: #33

in which country are you making your approaches?

Post: #34

What if you ditched the half german routine and went direct?

Have you heard of James Marshall? He has videos on youtube of how he does it, just simple and to the point

Post: #35

@ Aguirre I'm in London

@ Edtf : I have ditched it lol . I've replaced it with the age joke routine I described above as it is more universal and it's also a funny neg .

My approaches are pretty short and direct . I seen the James Marchall and Sacha videos , those guys do their thing , I think I've found a strain of direct game that works for me .

Now it's all about tweaking and perfecting .

Post: #36

28/01/2015

Approach #52

- Opener
( She doesn't say anything )
- I'm Sensei what's your name ?
* Sorry i'm late for work
- Alright cool , can I grab your number ?
* Boyfriend sorry ..
- I've got a boyfriend too , we want different things it's not working out ..
* ( She laughs ) Sorry..
- Okay take care

Approach #52

Opener
( She gives me a weird look , doesn't say anthing..)
I'm Sensei what's your name ?
Ashley
Cool so how old are you ?
14
14 ??!!! Okay cool take care Ashley

Approach #53

Opener
* Oh thank you
- My names Sensei what's your name ? ( Handshake )
*Zoe
- Are you in a rush Zoe ?
* Yes
- Can I grab your number and we'll hang out ?
* No
- Cool take care

Approach #54

Opener
* She ignored me ( Blowout )

Opener
* ( She has a confused look on her face )
- Hey i'm Sensei what's your name ?
* ( I forgot her name lol )
- Are you in a rush ?
*No
( She still looks abit uncomfortable so I say : )
- I'm I bothering you ?
* No not really
- Great so how old are you ?
* 24
- I'm 44
* No your not ( She laughs )
- Alright you caught me i'm 21
* Oh your far too young
- What ? age is in the mind ..
* No a women has to have a man that's at least 5 years older than her
- Why
* Maturity levels
- Well i'm mature , I came up and talked to you blah blah blah ( wrong move , i'm qualifying myself , I should have agreed and amplified )

Anyway I go for the number close and I don't get it .

Approach #54

Opener
* Oh thank you
- My names Sensei what's your name ?
* Alex
- Are you in a rush ?
* Yeah a little bit
- Damn well can we hang out sometime .. can I grab your number ?
* Maybe .. I don't usually give out my number so quickly though , so it will have to be next time .. ( She starts walking away )
- Ok well facebook ? Actually check this out , you give me your number .. I'll text you .. if you don't reply i'll delete it , if you do .. something magical will happen
* Ok
- great let's go ( I whip out my phone )

Number closed

Approach #55 ( I kicked myself over this one )

- Hey excuse me are you in a rush ( I deviated from the standard opener )
* What ?
- Are you in a rush ?
* Yeah I am.. ( She starts walking away )
- I just had to say you look really cute and I had to say hi ..
* Thank you , you too .. ( She's already past me and gone )

i should have pushed a bit further .

Approach #56

Opener
* Thank you ( she doesn't stop )
- My names Sensei what's your name ? ( she doesn't take my hand for the handshake )
* ( She tells me her name ) I forgot it
- Are you in a rush ?
* Yeah i've got to get back to work
Damn , can I grab your number ?
* No sorry

Approach #57

Opener
* Oh thank you
- My names Sensei whats your name ?
* Cleo
- Are you in a rush ?
* Yeah i've go to go see my nan
- Damn well can we hang out sometime .. can I grab your number ?
* My number ?!? ( She does a funny fake shocked face )
- ( I laugh ) well I wanted to talk but you've got to go right ?
( She pauses for a moment and thinks )
- Yes ? No ? Maybe ? ( with a smile )
* But a barely know anything about you ..
- I know but check this out , you give my your number , i'll text you , if you don't reply i'll delete it , if you do.. something magical will happen ..
* ( She laughs ) , whats going to happen ?
- Well I can't tell you yet ( With a Smile )
( She pauses once more )
* But it's very irresponsible , I barely know you
- I know right .. My last name is scumbag
* ( She laughs )
- Do I look threatening ?
* nooo
- Well there you go ,you look threatening though , you might be pulling reverse psychology on me( with a smile )
* ( She laughs ) Yeah i might kill you , what's your name ?
- I'm Sensei , i'm 44 years old ?
* What 44?!?!
- I'm just playing i'm 21 , how old are you ?
* I'm 17
- Really ? you look older
* Yeah I get that a lot
- So what are you doing here ? Work ? Studies ?
* Well I work at house of fraser and i've just come from college..
- Okay what college do you go to , i'm from france so I don't really know the area too well
* Your from France ??

Okay at this point I give her a DHV on Paris blah blah ... In the end she cedes and I get the number close .

My proudest Approach thus far , I was calm , cool and collected .

Approach #58

Opener
* Oh thank you
- Are you in a rush ?
* Yeah i've got to get somewhere ..
( She says this but she has stopped so I ask her : )
- So can we talk for a bit
* We're talking right now
- ( I laugh ) , your right , so how old are you ?
* I'm 21
-Cool i'm 44
* your 44 ?!?! ( she laughs )
- Yeah i'm 44 .. so what are you doing here ?
* Well i'm from New York and I just came her to visit blah blah blah

Turns out she leaves tomorrow evening !! I number closed after a DHV and I told her i'll call tonight and we'll figure something out ..

During the conversation she said I was dressed like a model.. It's the second girl that has complimented me on my looks today . One was a high 7 , this one was an 8 . Boosted my confidence .

Approach #59

- Hey excuse me i'm looking for the toilets
* Just down the corner
- Thank you , and also , you look really cute
* Thank you
- Are you in a rush ?
* Yeah
- Ok well can we hang out sometime , i'll grab your number ?
* sorry i have a boyfriend
- Okay well take care
* You too

Approach #60 ( Phone approach, not really my type ( a high 5 ) but she gave me a strong IOI so I did it anyway )

- Hey excuse me , I know your on the phone , I'm sorry but you look cute and I had to say hi
* Oh thank you ( walks away )
-Are you busy ?
* Yeah
- Okay cool take care

Approach #61

Hey excuse me this is ..
( She shakes her head and refuses to look at me )
- You don't want to talk to me ?
* No
- Okay cool , take care

Approach #62

- Opener
* Sorry ?
- I repeat my standard opener ..
* Sorry no , she turns around and walks away

Approach #63

Hey excuse me ..
* Sorry ( She walks away )

Approach #64 ( Last approach of the day , decided to go indirect for this one )

- Hey excuse me where did you get that bag ?
* Top shop
- really , i'm looking for a late chritmas present for me little sister and I've just came from there
* ( She doesn't say anything )
- Did you get it during the sales ?
* No not really , like 2 weeks ago , it was only £30
- Oh maybe they've ran out , would you recommend any other places to get one , she reallllly wants one
* Maybe River Island ?
- I've check that out too .. I think i've looked everywhere but I'm not really from here so I may have overlooked a few places..
* Really , where are you from ?
- France
* Really ? why don't you have an accent then ?
- Well my parents are english , so i'd speak french in school and english at home .. you thought I was lying didn't you ? ( I say this with a smile )
* Yeaah ( she laughs )
- I actually just moved here , i'm not liking it at all ..
* Really why not?
- Well i'm from paris so I'm used to huge parties .. you don't really get that over here
* Do you not have any friends or ?
- Well i have the friends it's just the places that they take me aren't that great , you seem like a party girl though
* Really what makes you say that
- Well you seem like a fun person , are you boring ?
* No
- Well there you go
* She laughs
- So where do you go when you party ?

( At this point her tram arrives , I try and number close but she has a boyfriend )

Post: #37

I think you should cut out asking if she's in a rush, it establishes no rapport and makes you eject too early

Post: #38

So I haven't updated this in a week but I haven't been slacking off on my approaches . I keep abbreviated records of my approaches on my iphone but until today I didn't have the time ( or the motivation ) , to sit down and write down transcripts of the totality of my approaches during this time .

During this time I did a total of 14 approaches not counting today's approaches . I got 2 numbers and 2 Blowouts .

06/02/2015

Approach #79

Blowout

Approach #80

I was approached by a cute girl from a charitable organization . As I stopped I set the tone by saying " Well your cute so i guess I'll listen to you ." , I then proceeded to troll her by saying things such as " How old are you , 44 right ? " ( With a smirk ) , eventually we proceeded to talk about fashion and fashion houses , her boss was lurking so she had to switch back into professional mode of a minute but I managed to get the number . During our interaction she said " I can't tell when your serious or not . "

Is this a sign that I need to dial down my negging game ?

Anyway I still number closed her .

Approach #81

I opened her with my usual opener , I trolled her hard . Did the usual "age joke" and the " cream joke " . To the point where she actually said " your sooo ruuuude " whilst laughing . I think my hard negging works because I opened on a compliment . Anyway I managed to get the number .

Number closed

Approach #82

- Hey excuse my where did you get your coat ?
* My coat ( She looks confused )
- Yes your coat where did you buy it ?
* My coat ? ( She looks confused , then her expression switches to a worried look and she starts walking away )
- I have a little sister , and she's looking for a coat similar to yours
* Primark ( As she says this she scurries away )

Socially awkward girl .. I quickly brush it off though

Approach #83

I am very proud of this approach as I went direct on a store manager .

- Excuse me I know your on your shift right now but you seemed cute and I had to say hi
* Hey ( Handshake and we exchange names )

I do my usual age and cream jokes and it's vibing well , at this point her co-worker shows up with a very angry/jealous look on his face and she goes cold and starts working again . I sense that it's over and eject gracefully .

Approach #84

- Hey where did you get that bag ?
* Micheal Kor ( She doesn't stop walking )
- Yeah but which one ? ( with a smile )
*Oxford Street
- Oh okay how much did you get it for ?
* I don't know it was a present from my boyfriend

I let it go .


I think I'm negging to much , I'm definitely not putting pussy on a pedestal anymore . I'm trying to make more statements and cold reads rather than asking questions and i never give straight answers to questions I get asked unless I can give a DHV on them .

But maybe I need to work on comfort building.

Post: #39

Wow already up to 84… good job on the 2 numbers, it seems you're getting good results when you're going direct, then teasing and building rapport. Much better than the half german thing

Post: #40

You didn't make a lot of follow-up from those approaches. What do you think your number / bang conversion ratio is?

Post: #41

@Edtf , yeah I think i'm starting to find my groove.

@ Rawmeo , I don't make follow up posts because as of right now despite all these numbers I still haven't managed to convert a single one into a date , let alone a bang . Towards the beginner up until recently I was following the roosh text message method which is strictly logistical and many leads fell cold here .

I think it's because my daygame sets are very short so maybe not enough comfort or attraction had being built . Either that or i've just being extremely unlucky .

Lately i've been experimenting with teasing and cracking jokes for a few exchanges before a go in for the date .

It's too early to assert conclusions as to which method is best for me so i'll have to experiment with more leads before I can say for sure .

Just know that if I don't follow up on a lead , it's because I haven't got the bang .

Also , if leads go cold, I delete the numbers . I have a no tolerance policy on women who reject me . I give them one chance , if they don't take it , it's their loss , I'm on to the next .

This helps me as when I don't have any active leads on my phone I hit the streets more motivated .

Post: #42

delete

Post: #43

Okay very big update today a total of 36 approaches . 6 on the 9th and 30 on the 10th .

I got 8 number in total I'm going to go ahead and break down the approaches here :

09/02/2014

#85

-Opener
* Thank you ( she doesn't stop walking )
- Are you in a rush ?
* Yeah i've got to pick up my kids
- Oh okay well can we talk for a sec
* Talk while we walk
- Cool so how old are you 46 ? ( I say this with a smile )
* I'm 31 mate ( Whilst laughing ) Look for me on facebook
- I don't have facebook but you know what you can do , you'll give me your number and ..
* ( She cuts me off ) No i'll take your number
( I give her my number )
* What's your name ?
- Kanye West
* ( She laughs ) Okay i'll text you later

UPDATE ON THIS LEAD :

She actually did text me later and the convo went like this :

* Good evening Mr West lol xxx
- Hey how are you , try to keep our meeting a secret I don't want paprazzi following us
* hahahah don't worry my lips are sealed
- im in #### for uni tomorrow do you want to hang out ?
* Uni ?? How old are ya ?? I can't my sons is poorly so i've got to do the super mum ting all day lol xxx
- I'm 46 . ok
* lmfao xxx
- i can come over for drinks on thurday , i've got some new recipes I want to try
* Radio silence

I deleted her number , but was my text game good ? Did I push too hard ?

#86

- Hey where did you get that bomber jacket ?
She quietly says Zara and scurries away before I can put another word in .

#87

- Compliment opener
* Oh thanks
- My names Sensei whats your name ?
* Tells me her name
- So how old are you 46 right ? ( I say this with a smile )
*she laughs
- No really how old are you ?
* 18
- Well i'm 44
* You look it
- yeah i know , I actually have this rejuvenating cream that I put on my face... I'll give you the name of it .. you look like you need it
*She laughs
- I'm just playing ( As I say this I put my arm on her shoulder )
- So what are you dong here ...

More talk , I go the number close and she declines .

#88

- Hey excuse me where did you get your coat ?
* H&M
- Oh because i've been looking for a similar one for ages
* She starts to walk away
- I like you style though it's very original
* Thank you
- Your cute too .. what about me ? ( I smile as I say this , I say it in a funny way not in a needy way )
* (She does a shy expression ) I have a boyfriend
- I have one too , we want different things it's not really working out ..
* She laughs
- Anyway i'm going to let you go take care
* you too

#89

Compliment opener
* She laughs
- What's your name ?
* Rhianna
- Are you ina rush ?
* Yeah abit
- Let's talk while we walk , so how old are you 46 right ?
* ( She laughs no i'm 18 )
- well I'm 46 so I hope your open minded and that we can put the age difference to the side
* No your not ( She laughs )
- I am
* I don;t believe you
-why not
* you don't look 46
- yeah i have this rejuvenating cream...

More talk , I get the number close and I hug her before I eject .

UPDATE ON THIS LEAD :

* hey random , how many girls do you talk to like that , catching me off guard
- Around 2 billion
* daymm there lucky
- Actually your lucky , I have a team of clones that usually talk to girls for me but you ran into the original .
* ahh well i guess I am hehe , sorry for the late reply , playing gta 5
- do you want to hang out tomorrow
* Radio Silence
She text me this morning :
* hows you

Im not sure how to respond

#90

Blowout

Post: #44

10/02/2014

Okay I did 30 approaches and got 6 numbers but I really don't have to motivation to write down every single one . Instead i'm going to give a basic layout of the game I used of the majority of these approaches . I had two women tell me that I was very confident , that was a big plus for me as it means I'm getting a lot smoother in my approaches .

I think this is a direct result of me putting myself in uncomfortable situations such as opening girls that intimidate me .

The basic layout of the game I use looks like this :

- Hey excuse me this is going to seem random but I thought you looked cute and I had to say high .

90% of the time they'll say thank you .

I then lay out my hand for the handshake and say " My names Sensei what's yours ? "

Or if she has a playful vibe I say " im Kanye West , it's a pleasure to meet you "

Then i'll tease immediately by saying " So how old are you 46 right ? "

Some play along , others just laugh . I then proceed to ask their real age .

I'll then tease again by saying well i'm 50 so I hope your open minded and the age difference doesn't bother you..

Most of them will a variant of " What ? your not 50 ?? "


That leads to the rejuvenating cream joke where I say ..

Well see I have this rejuvenating cream that I use every day , it's a ingenious product that I invented , if i put it out it will change the face of the world BUT ... I'm selfish so i'm keeping it to myself .

They'll usually laugh here , some will play along and say some shit like " Oh wow , can i try it ?? "

Whatever her response is , I'll say " I might give you some , because .. well.. you look like you need it .. "

Of course I have a very playful vibe and demeanor so it's very obvious i'm teasing .

I get a few scared cats that filter themselves out here . But most of the time by this point i've gotten her laughing a few times and I can switch to something like " so where are you from " or " are you working ? Studying ? "

That's how most of my approaches went .

I've also being experimenting with an indirect-direct game where I say :

- Hey where did you get X item of clothing ?
* Oh I got this from xxxxx
- Oh okay I like your style , it's very original ..
* Thank you
- Your cute too , so I may aswell introduce myself , my names Sensei what's yours ?

From there I just game as usual and start with the " So how old are you ?46 right ? "


So I'm on 120 approaches which means I've officially completed the 100 approach challenge .

However I want to keep this thread going until I get my red pill bang if that's okay with the mods .

I've gotten countless numbers but NO dates . Let me repeat : ZERO dates .

I think my text game needs some work ...

Post: #45

12/02/2014

19 Approaches , 6 Number Closes

#121

- Opener
* (She smiles) Thank you
You in a rush ?
* Yeah kinda
Cool well lets walk while we talk , your 46 right ?
* What ?
Well your 46 years old right ?
* She laughs
I'm just playing , how old are you ?
* 18
Cool well i'm 50 so I hope your open minded and not going to discriminate..
* (She laughs ) How old are you really ?
Ok you got me i'm 5 , I had a grpwth spurt when I was 2 and i've just been the same since ..
* ( She laughs )
So where are you from ?

I drop some bait about being from France , I go for the number and get it .

#122 This approached really showcased how much my game has improved . This lizard was basically my dream girl . If you go back to earlier in my approach thread I described an approach where I was basically intimidated by the beauty of a girl and forgot my material and frame ... not this time .

- Opener
* Oh thank you
You walk so fast i'm out of breath trying to catch up with you
* ( She laughs ) I'm on my way to a meeting
- You off somewhere important ?
* No not really
Okay anyway how old are you 46 right ?
* Huh ?
How old are you 46 ?
* ( She laughs ) I'm 25
- Ok well i'm 55 so I hope your not going to discriminate ..
* ( She laughs ) Well i'm not going to discriminate but I have a boyfriend so..
- Oh you have a boyfriend ? I have one too
* really ?
- Yeah but it's not really working out we want different things.. Here's what we can do , you give me your number , i'll text you and if you don't reply..
* ( She cut me off ) Yeah but I know I won't reply
- You and your boyfriend could break up tonight , and you might get home and be like " damn , what if I'd given my number to that cool guy .. "
* ( She laughs ) You do look cool though
- Your not looking too bad yourself , I like your bomber jacket

I manage to get the number close after working for it . I did text her and she didn't reply . Probably because of her bf . But I chased down a knockout 10 ( In my eyes ) and got her number with some solid game . I'm counting this as a victory .

#123

- Hey where did you get those Jordans ?
* Footlocker but ages ago though
- Oh, I like your style though
* Thank you
- Your cute too , so I my as well introduce myself , I'm Sensei what's your name ?
* ( She laughs ) I'm Chloe
- So how old are you 46 ?
* ( She laughs ) I'm 18
- Okay well i'm 50 so I hope your open minded and your not going to discriminate..
* ( She laughs ) There's no way your 50
- Well I have this rejuvenating cream... If i put it out it's going to change the face of the world .. But i'm selfish so i'm keeping it to myself ..
* ( She laughs ) Oh okay I understand
- I'll give you some though .. because you look like you need it
* ( She laughs)

We talk for a few more minutes , I'm teasing and saying some stuff like " what's your name again , Miley Cyrus right ? " , she's playing along and eventually in the 5th minute of the pick up I grab the number and bounce .

# 124

- Opener
( She laughs )
- I'm Sensei , what's your name ?
* Ellen
- How old are you 46 ..

We go back and forth for literally 30 seconds and I go for the number . She didn't reply when I texted her though . My fault for not building enough rapport .

#125

- Opener
* Thank you
- I'm Sensei whats your name ...

I follow my script and then I go for the number :

- Would you like to hang out some time ?
* I have a boyfriend
- I've got one too it's not really working out
* ( She laughs )
- well here's what we can do , you give me your number and i'll text you and if you don't reply i'll just delete it , if you do something magical will happen

I get the number , she didn't reply though .

#126

- opener

I run the usual script , we vibe , I go for the number , she says she has a bf , I use my usual bf destroyers but she's not having any of it . So I hug her and eject . As we hug she says " your funny though , it was nice meeting you " .

#127

- hey excuse me
* ( She jumps , very afraid )
- I didn't mean to scare you , it's just I saw you over there and you looked cute so i had to come over and say hi

I go through the usual routine , get her laughing quite a few times . We get in front of her workplace and I say :

- Well listen , i know this is your workplace so I'm going to have to let you go... I know you'd love to stay .. but that's just how life is sometimes ..
* She laughs
- You seem cool though would you like to hang out some time ?
* Maybe... I'll take your number

I give her my number , I didn't think she'd text and she hasn't so far . We'll see.

#128

Opener
* She says thanks but starts walking away immediately . I wish her a good day and let her go .

#129

Literally the exact same scenario as #128

#130

- opener
* Thanks
- I'm Sensei whats your name ?
* I'm Joyce , I'm married

I let her go

#131

- Opener
* Oh thank you , I've got to get back to work though
- Can we talk for a minute
* Your probably 10 years younger than me
- I'm 50
* What ?
- yeah I have this special rejuvenating cream..
* ( she laughs ) I work with boys your age
- Are you sure you don't want to exchange numbers ? You might get home tonight and be like " damnn I wished i'd given that cool guy my number "
* ( She laughs ) Yeah i'm sure
- Alright well have a good day
* You too

#132

- Opener
* oh thank you

I introduce myself and her bus shows up , I try and number close but she's not biting .

#131

- I open and go through my regular jokes , she tells me she has a boyfriend , I try and use my bf destroyers but she's not buying

#141

I open and I recognize her french accent . We switch and start talking in french . She has a boyfriend but I plow through and get the number .

#142

- opener
* I'm 15 mate
- Oh my bad you look older , have a nice day ( As I turn my back to eject I touch her lightly on her arm , it's just a light social touch , i do this to everyone these days )
* Can you not touch me please

I'm way too fly to engage in her pettiness though , my back is already turned and my mind is on the next approach .


I did 4 more approaches but couldn't get anymore numbers , I decided to call it a day and head home .

Post: #46

13/02/2015

A combination of bad weather and poor motivation means I did a relativly low number of approaches today . I told myself i'd stop after I'd get 2 numbers .

The first 4 approaches gave me various boyfriend rejections .

The 5th approach was a "hard set" . I consider hard sets to be a girl thats above an 8 that i'm approaching in a very public setting . Initially I wasn't going to approach but I said " Fuck it , what have I got to lose " and turned around and chased her down . I heard a few snickers when I opened , but I got the digits so I guess the jokes on them . She did hesitate before given the digits though so I'll doubt she'll reply . The wind made it hard for us to hear each other but whatever .

The 6th set was a girl that I noticed in front of me , she had a nice body so I gambled and went ahead an approached before seeing her face . Again I manage to get the number but she asked for my facebook ( I said I was a famous celebrity and I don't have facebook as I get way too many friend requests, that made her chuckle ) . She hesitated before giving the digits too so i'll doubt she'll reply .

The important thing isn't the numbers but keeping myself socially lubricated and able to mentally motivate myself to approach when conditions aren't ideal .

Both these women were way older than me by way . 26 and 23 respectively , for some reason I more attracted to the 23-28 age group than 18-22 .

Anyway that takes my approach total to #148 .

The law of averages say I'm little closer towards a bang .

Post: #47

read your entire thread and I can already see significant progress within the ~120 approaches. seems like translating numbers into dates i.e. text game might be a sticking point for you (it is for me) so check out the text thread here and this short writeup that gives you a general streamlined guide. regardless, I respect the brass balls it takes to finish 100 approaches so quickly. keep up the good work

Post: #48

@ Balkan , thanks for the words of encouragement and the text game recommendations . I Incorporated some of your suggestions into my text game and I've managed to set up 2 dates . Progress is being made .

14/02/2015

2 Approaches , 2 number closes

Today was a work day , I usually don't approach on work days but as I arrived at work 30 mins before my shift ( I always do this as it gives me an oppertunity to greet all my co-workers ) , I was chatting to a co-worker of mine when I saw a cute girl in the opposite aisle . I excused myself and went to go approach .

I used my indirect- direct game which goes like this :

Hey excuse where did you get those roche runs ?
* Oh I got these from xxx
- oh okay because i've been looking for similar ones for my little sister ...

I ramble a bit and then I switch to direct :

- I like your style though
* Thank you
- Your cute too , so I may as well introduce myself , Kanye west it's a pleasure to meet you ...

From there I just went with my usual routine and got the digits . I did text her and she didn't reply .

I did feel like a boss in front of my co-workers though .

#145

I'm walking home from work , i walk past a cute girl . I usually don't approach when it's dark as I don't want to scare the girls plus I already had a number from earlier so I wasn't even going to approach this girl .

But as she walks past she gives me serious IOIs , so I turn around , say " excuse me " to make her stop , and approach .

She smiles as I walk up to her , I run my usual teasing game and get the digits in under 5 mins . I text her 30 mins later and I've set up a date for today . I hope she doesn't flake .

Game is such a big part of my life now that I'm neglecting uni . Starting next week i'm going to have to spend at least two days a week studying hard . Maybe I'll figure a system out where I approach early in the morning before coming back home to study all day .

I just feel like something good is going to happen if I keep on approaching like I have been these past few weeks . I don't want to stop approaching and get rusty .

Post: #49

Good, let us know how this date goes!

Post: #50

15/02/2015

2 Approaches / 0 numbers /1 Date

Working again today so I approached a girl who was with her friend on the tram on my way to work . Used my indirect-direct approach and managed to make them laugh a couple times , went for number got a boyfriend rejection . Turns out her friend was her boyfriend's sister .

#147

At work I spot a cute girl with her mother looking around . Luckily my lunch break is in 5 mins . I approach and go direct ( In front of co-workers and her mother ) and turns out she's 14 ! I eject gracefully .

1st Date

I'm so frustrated at how my first game aware date went . First of all she was late .

I'm waiting in front of the station for her for around 20 mins when she sends me " I'm with my cousin is that ok ? " .

I know I should check her for it but after more than 100 approaches and being so close to my first date , I don't want her to cancel due to last minute anxiety so I stupidly send " it's cool " .

I'm thinking it's cool , I'll grab a drink at my bar with her and her cousin , I'll tease them endlessly , eventually i'll escalate with her at the bar and her cousin will get the message and leave .

She turns up with not one but two of her cousins . She's around my age and when she said i'm with my cousin I assumed she meant a cousin around her age , but she brings a 16 year old cousin and a 14 year old cousin .

I try and get her to tell her cousins to leave us alone but apparently she says her mother has ordered them to stay with her . This is coming from a 19 year old girl .

I decide to cut my losses and fake a phone call and eject .

I'm so angry at the time I wasted right now , when I was waiting for her at the station I was getting IOIs left and right but I choose not to approach as I didn't want her popping up on me mid approach and potentially ruining my date . I wish I had approached , at least I would have 1/2 numbers as a consolation .

Anyway , back on the number farm . Hopefully it won't take another 150 approaches to get another date .