Post: #51

16/02/2015

#148

- opener
* Thanks but I have to get to work
- Cool have a nice day
* bye

#149

2. I open by asking for directions , ramble a bit then I switch to direct by saying she's cute . I go though my usual routine . She asks me if I do this often , I tell her I'm a pro . I get the number close but she was hesitant . I doubt she'll reply , we'll see .

#150
3 . Blowout

#151
4 . I follow her into the supermarket and open . Go though my usual routine . She asks me if I do this often too . I get the number but she was hesitant too . We'll see .

#152

5 . I open and I find out she's 15 . I eject graciously .

#153

6 . I spot a group of guys eye fucking a girl that's has her back to me . I go and approach and go though my usual routine . I get the number and she seems interested . We'll see .

#154

7 . I wasn't vibing with this one , she isn't laughing at my jokes and quickly loses interest in me . I go for the number and its rejected .

#155

8. I ask her for directions and she ejects as soon as I make the switch into direct game .

#156

9 . I approach a girl who's with her friend on my uni campus . Boyfriend rejection

#157

10. On my uni campus I approach a girl who I've had my eye on for a long time . She's in my lecture group . I go through my usual routine and she's eating it up , we talk all the way into our lecture room and she gives up the digits when I ask if she wants to hang out .

#158

11 . I approach another girl on my uni campus and i get a boyfriend rejection .

#159

12. 30 years old women who looks 26 . Wall survivor recognised . I go through my routine and she also asks me if I do this all the time . I tell her I'm 50 years old and I've been doing this for 25 years . That made her laugh . We vibe but she tells me she has a boyfriend and that I'm too young when I go for the number . Fair enough , I wish her a good day .

#160

I open and ramble for like 2 mins , I go for the number she says i'm too young .

Another day at the office .

What's with all these women asking me if I do this all the time ? Have i become a lot smoother or is this a new shit test I'm running into ? Either way I've already memorized the ideal response .

Post: #52

Interesting. Maybe you're coming off as too rehearsed. Women never ask me if I do this all the time, because I'm a bit nervous and stammer a bit, and use 'uh's and 'um's here and there. Shit, I've only done a dozen approaches after 5 years of inactivity.

Post: #53

Great job on this amount of approaches things will only get better.

Post: #54

I repped you for the nice thread. Very good info indeed.

Post: #55

@ Travesty Thanks for the words of encouragement
@ Rawmeo Thanks for the rep point , I suppose the info your referring to is how many approaches it takes for a newbie to get his first game aware flag ?

18/02/2014

I did 20 approaches and only managed measly 3 numbers . Ran into a lot of bitch shields...I did get discouraged but I'm putting it down to the game . I think Im smiling too much during my approaches . None of the numbers I hit lead anywhere .

I've managed to set up a date with a dream girl for tomorrow. I honestly didn't expect her to reply let alone agree to go on a date . I'm expecting a flake so I'm going to do a couple approaches tomorrow morning .

I've been getting more and more discouraged this week and I've been neglecting my workouts and my diet plan . I also took a break from approaching today for the same reasons . I think I was just burnt out from so many approaches .

Should be getting back on track soon .

Post: #56

21/02/2015

2nd Game Aware Date

*Long story Short : I went on a date with my dream girl . I got the make out but got cock-blocked in a major way .

Thanks to game I went on a date with my dream girl . Easily the hottest girl i've ever been with . She's way older than me ( 26 ) , i'm 21 . She's feminine , sweet and dressed to kill . Easily a 9 in my book , maybe a 8 for you veterans .

I daygamed her last week and she gave me her number , I didn't expect her to reply though , I expected her to flake today but she showed up .

We had trouble communicating through sms so I was actually on my way home when she called me .

I greet her and start teasing her almost immediatly , I'm touching her upper back and arms when making jokes . I'm basically bullshitting her saying im 54 years old , I have a supercar and i'm half martian . She's playing along and we're vibing well .

As we're walking we're getting all sorts of looks from strangers , so much so that she actually mentions it to me . ( " People do stare weirdly around here" )

We get to the bar we're I was planning to say for at least an hour but apparently they need ID on a friday night . I wasn't aware of this but I keep frame and say " it's cool , I got a back up plan "

As we're walking to my Plan B bar she mentions to me that she's hungry and I make a mental note of it . We talk for a bit more as we're walking and I say " Hey , do you want to come over and get something to eat ? " . I didn't expect her to say yes but she did .


She walk to my place which is a 20 mins walk from the center of town ( I told her it was a 10 mins walk ) . However I get cock-blocked in the worse way possible .

My family had told me they we're going out and I wasn't expecting them to be back so early . We get back and my family plus my cousins are all in the house , my little cousins have messed up the room I cleaned .

I get her into my room and eject my little brother from it . My little cousins keep peeking into the room and running off when we spot them. ( I've never brought a girl home before )

I try my best to keep frame , I excuse myself and give my cousins a stern warning and tell them to go back downstairs .

She's obviously very nervous and I try my best to make her feel comfortable . I bullshit for like 4 mins then I go for the make-out . I then start to kiss her neck and move down to her breast but she pushes me away as I reach her breasts .

I lean back , we talk some more than I go down and start kissing the skin just above her pussy , I unpop her jean button and start to go down but she pushes me away .

I lean back but at this time she's put some distance between me and her and suggests we get some weed . I take this as a sign she's DTF but just needs more comfort . We bullshit some more and I kiss her every now and then .

She's also on the her phone more often and she says it's her over protective brother . I smile and change the subject , eventually she says she has to go . I take her phone to send a message to my connect to cancel the transaction and see a message from " Mum " saying " We're outside " .

As we go downstairs i bump into my father who , being the cockblocking idiot he is , proceeds to make her feel even more uncomfortable by frowning when she says " Hi " to him . And then proceeding to say some bullshit such as " This a family house , next time , do not come here "

I escort her outside , do a little damage control regarding what my father said . Kiss her a final time and I say goodbye .

I thinking of not texting her until Monday ..

Post: #57

(02-20-2015 07:32 PM)Sensei Creation Wrote:  

21/02/2015

2nd Game Aware Date

*Long story Short : I went on a date with my dream girl . I got the make out but got cock-blocked in a major way .

Thanks to game I went on a date with my dream girl . Easily the hottest girl i've ever been with . She's way older than me ( 26 ) , i'm 21 . She's feminine , sweet and dressed to kill . Easily a 9 in my book , maybe a 8 for you veterans .

I daygamed her last week and she gave me her number , I didn't expect her to reply though , I expected her to flake today but she showed up .

We had trouble communicating through sms so I was actually on my way home when she called me .

I greet her and start teasing her almost immediatly , I'm touching her upper back and arms when making jokes . I'm basically bullshitting her saying im 54 years old , I have a supercar and i'm half martian . She's playing along and we're vibing well .

As we're walking we're getting all sorts of looks from strangers , so much so that she actually mentions it to me . ( " People do stare weirdly around here" )

We get to the bar we're I was planning to say for at least an hour but apparently they need ID on a friday night . I wasn't aware of this but I keep frame and say " it's cool , I got a back up plan "

As we're walking to my Plan B bar she mentions to me that she's hungry and I make a mental note of it . We talk for a bit more as we're walking and I say " Hey , do you want to come over and get something to eat ? " . I didn't expect her to say yes but she did .


She walk to my place which is a 20 mins walk from the center of town ( I told her it was a 10 mins walk ) . However I get cock-blocked in the worse way possible .

My family had told me they we're going out and I wasn't expecting them to be back so early . We get back and my family plus my cousins are all in the house , my little cousins have messed up the room I cleaned .

I get her into my room and eject my little brother from it . My little cousins keep peeking into the room and running off when we spot them. ( I've never brought a girl home before )

I try my best to keep frame , I excuse myself and give my cousins a stern warning and tell them to go back downstairs .

She's obviously very nervous and I try my best to make her feel comfortable . I bullshit for like 4 mins then I go for the make-out . I then start to kiss her neck and move down to her breast but she pushes me away as I reach her breasts .

I lean back , we talk some more than I go down and start kissing the skin just above her pussy , I unpop her jean button and start to go down but she pushes me away .

I lean back but at this time she's put some distance between me and her and suggests we get some weed . I take this as a sign she's DTF but just needs more comfort . We bullshit some more and I kiss her every now and then .

She's also on the her phone more often and she says it's her over protective brother . I smile and change the subject , eventually she says she has to go . I take her phone to send a message to my connect to cancel the transaction and see a message from " Mum " saying " We're outside " .

As we go downstairs i bump into my father who , being the cockblocking idiot he is , proceeds to make her feel even more uncomfortable by frowning when she says " Hi " to him . And then proceeding to say some bullshit such as " This a family house , next time , do not come here "

I escort her outside , do a little damage control regarding what my father said . Kiss her a final time and I say goodbye .

I thinking of not texting her until Monday ..

Just read through this entire thread. Great growth and great job on your approaches. That's a ton of work put in to finally get to your first date.

Your going to need to lock down your logistics though. Having your family block you like that is obviously counter productive.

Post: #58

Wow, sorry to hear that logistics problem. You did what you had to do.

Post: #59

Hey the cockblock happened because of bad logistics which can be fixed easily, but on the bright side, look how far you've gone. Could you have imagined even taking this girl out just 2 weeks ago? I'm happy for you man.

Post: #60

Just some words of wisdom. Getting attached to an older woman is usually a rough affair. Keep this in the back of your mind as you grow in success.

Post: #61

@ LandonR and Rawmeo

Unfortunately I am going to be in this terrible logistics situation for quite some time . It just pushes me to try harder to tighten my game even more . If I can get a decent number of bangs whilst being in this predictament , things will be laughably easier when I finally get my own place in a " towns sweet spot " .

@ Edtf

Thanks for the words of encouragement bro . Honestly I'd never thought that I'd be making out with my dream girl back in november . Recently , anytime I've been feeling lazy or buthurt over a rejection , I simply think back to that moment as a means of inspiring myself .

It's given me a glimpse of what I have to look forward to if I keep on working on my game and body .

@ Travesty444

Thanks for the words of wisdom , unfortunately due to parameters outside of my control I find myself more attracted to women of the 23-28 age category than that of my own 18-22 .

I think it's an ego thing . The added challenge of gaming someone more experienced than me in a way .

23/02/2015

Since my last update i've done 24 approaches and gotten 7 numbers . Using my regular approach method . This means I'm on approach 204 . I blew through this hundred much faster than the last one .

Post: #62

I've decided that from now on i'll keep detailed notes in my player book and on this thread i'll give monthly updates complete with the raw statistical data .

The reason for this change is after more than 200 daygame approaches under my belt , I feel like i'm finding my gaming style . I no longer need to give a rapport on every single approach here in this thread for forum members to critique .

Secondary reason is I suspect numerous people I know in real life are lurking here .

As we've reached the end of February , I think that this is a perfect time for the first monthly statistical update :

( As it's the first monthly stat update I'll be posting my statistics since the beginning until now )

November + December 2014

18 Approaches
3 Numbers
0 Dates/Day 2s
0 Bangs

January 2015

46 : Approaches
9 : Numbers
0 : Dates/Day 2s
0 : Bangs

February 2015

140 : Approaches
37 : Numbers
3 : Dates/Day 2s
0 : Bangs

Analysis

1. As you can see from my raw data , there is a positive correlation between my # of approaches vs my # dates/day 2s .

This is basically common knowledge I'm not reinventing the wheel here , but at least now I have the proof before my eyes . The more I approach = The more dates I have .

2. My number of approaches have increased exponentially . This is directly linked to me forcing myself to approach beautiful women that intimidated me from the jump . When I saw myself actually having success ( to a certain extent ) , with these women , I had less and less anxiety before and during the approach .

When I first started I had to prepare myself mentally 20-30 minutes just to do a single indirect approach . I was averaging 6 approaches a day .

Now I can do 20 direct approaches in a single day , maybe even more if I want to .

Post: #63

(02-20-2015 07:32 PM)Sensei Creation Wrote:  And then proceeding to say some bullshit such as " This a family house , next time , do not come here "

Mate that is rough, it's hard to imagine a more interaction killing event. After hearing that she would feel like a slut on some level, and all future projections by her of getting more serious with you have now been deep sixed.

Pretend your old man is speaking to you, and honestly, he has a point. What girl would want to get naked with kids sticking their heads in the room? Ambitious at best, and you'd have to question what kind of girl you are with if she did.

Your house is not an option, at all as a sex location.
You need to move out or set things up in outside accommodation. I repeat, you will continue to nuke good prospects and good options by taking birds there again. If she was as hot as you say, that lesson was expensive, don't double down.

Post: #64

(02-28-2015 09:21 PM)Ollave Wrote:  

(02-20-2015 07:32 PM)Sensei Creation Wrote:  And then proceeding to say some bullshit such as " This a family house , next time , do not come here "

Mate that is rough, it's hard to imagine a more interaction killing event. After hearing that she would feel like a slut on some level, and all future projections by her of getting more serious with you have now been deep sixed.

Pretend your old man is speaking to you, and honestly, he has a point. What girl would want to get naked with kids sticking their heads in the room? Ambitious at best, and you'd have to question what kind of girl you are with if she did.

Your house is not an option, at all as a sex location.
You need to move out or set things up in outside accommodation. I repeat, you will continue to nuke good prospects and good options by taking birds there again. If she was as hot as you say, that lesson was expensive, don't double down.

I agree with this wholeheartedly and actually cringed reading about how that all transpired. Experienced day gamers will probably crucify me for this, but I honestly think that your time might be better spent picking up a side job in order to pay for your own place. Looking at your numbers, 140 approaches in a short month seems like a good bit. With the way your picking up steam and being more efficient with your approaches, you could cut that number in half and still have your hands full with prospects. The other 5-10 hours each week could be spent working to pay for your own place where such issues would be non existent.

Don't get me wrong; I love what you're doing and your progress as admirable, but consider a good balance that will help maximize results while also improving other aspects of your life.

Post: #65

Even though I've decided to limit this thread to only posting end of month statistics and analysis , however I feel like it's only right I break this rule when I experience milestones in the development of my game .

Today was one such occasion .

I was one the train on my way home from uni , I had already done 8 approaches and gotten two numbers so I was in a relatively social , open mood .

I step onto the train and I see a cute 7 sitting down next to the window . Our eyes lock for a split second . I smell blood and approach immediately .

" Hey you seem cute so I had to come over and introduce myself "

After this I go through my usual age , and cream routines . She's eating it up . To be honest I don't think I've ever vibed as well with a girl since a got into game .

5 minutes into the interaction I say " let me see something " , and I remove her beanie hat . As I do this I tenderly stroke her hair/cheek and I make a joke about how she has a big forehead . We exchange hats and we're generally just vibing really well .

She's leaning in , her legs are on mine , I tease her and say she's huge scars on her face and use it as an excuse for more kino .

I try and invite her over to my house immediately and she asks if I live by myself , I tell her no I live with my parents and she refuses to come . ( Damn.. )

I tell her we should chill at hers and she tells me she's going to see a friend . ( Basically she's going to get fucked )

She asks for my number and I tell her " i don't feel comfortable giving you my number , you might be a serial killer trying to add me to your black guy collection "
That made her laugh , I make her give me her number .

As we arrive at the station , and going our seperate ways , we make plans to hang out on sunday . She goes in for the hug and I kiss her . We kiss 3 times and then I eject . Between kisses she laughed .

I'm not sure if it was because she was taken aback by my confidence or because she was nervous

Basically I kissed a girl I had met literally 20 mins ago . I feel like that's a milestone I needed to document on this thread . If my logistics had been up to scratch , I think I would have gotten the SDL .

It took me more than 100 approaches to get a make out last month . This month it took me less than 30 .

Statistically speaking , this month is already better than the last and it's only just begun .

P.S

Thanks for the suggestions JohnKreese and Ollave .

I actually already have a part time job , I work in a retail store . Half my salary I use to commute to my uni town 2 days a week and the other half goes into protein shakes , clothing and savings .

Post: #66

I met Sensei today and we daygamed in Central London and just wanna say.. this guy is hilarious!!! I'm surprised he describes himself as a natural introvert. If that's the case, then he has the biggest balls I've ever seen from a daygamer - one such case included approaching a girl surrounded by BF and family complete with little sisters in the corner of McDonald's hahaha.

Post: #67

That was probably one of the funniest day game sessions I've had . We definitely need to meet up again soon .

Post: #68

This thread is all sorts of awesome man. Keep it up!

Post: #69

Thread Conclusion

So when I first started this thread it was to document my first 100 approaches , when I finished the challenge , I decided to continue updating my thread until I got my first game aware bang . Which happened this weekend with a HB7 .

I hadn't updated the thread since february , but I did approximately 100 day game approaches in March and 100 in April .

This means that it took me in total 400 daygame approaches to go from being a complete game beginner to getting my first bang.

I'd say it took me 150/200 approaches to find my ideal gaming style and I really started to see progress in my game when I hit that number .

I'd like to give a lay report on how my bang happened :

I'm walking home from the gym and I see a cute brunnette walk past me , she doesn't give any IOI's but I love her style so I turn around and follow her for a bit ( I always try to avoid approaching on the main busy road if I can ) .

Eventually I decide the time is right and I run beside her and spit my opener . I run my usual teasing game that's been documented above and she's eating it up . I grab the number but we keep on talking and eventually she ask's me if i'm busy right now as she's going to look around the shops for some new trainer's and she could use my help .

I wasn't expecting the insta date , I agree and we start walking towards the stores , I'm spitting game and I'm making her laugh a lot , lot's of teasing and hand touching occurs .

After about 30 mins , she smiles and spits the first true shit tests of the interaction :

- " Hey [ Sensei ] your really cool but let's just be friends okay ? "

* " Friends ? I'm not familiar with that term , what does it mean ? ( Whilst pulling a fake confused face ) "

- " It's when we hang out , we have fun but we don't have sex

* " I'm not familiar with that concept , it sounds like a bunch of gibberish to me "

She laughs , I smirk and I go in for the kiss : it's rejected . I fall back , it's cool .

Eventually we end up spending 2 hours just vibing in the town center . Lots of teasing , hand touching and more shit tests ( keeps on saying i'm never going to have sex with her without me even sexualising the conversation )

After the two hour insta date , I take her back to her bus stop ( I've got my arm around her at this point but still no kiss ) . We wait for her bus and I bounce .

On the way home I'm thinking about what to text her but then I realise that the insta date went so well I may as well just call her right then and there .

So I call her and she's still in the bus , we continue the banter and I set up a date for the next day .

Date 1

Luckily the weather is on my side , so I take her to a park , we sit down and I run my usual game , more teasing and kino and eventually she lets me kiss her . We end up making out for rest of the date . She lets me feel her breasts and I put her hand on my boner , she fakes indignation and we laugh it off .

That night instead of texting her , I just call and we end up spending an hour on the phone , I set up a date for the next day and she invites me to hang out at her place .

Date 2

Arrive at her place pretty late , we make out , she has heavy LMR , so much so that it took me all night ( Literally ) to break it .

After the bang I get up to get to work and I'm pleasently surprised to find out she's already prepared my lunch for work . ( Girl game ? )

In summary , I met her on Wednesday , banged on Friday and sent not one text to her before the bang . I think I'll experiement more with this " No texting game " and see If I can get more postive results . Lord knows I've lost many a bang due to my poor text game .

I don't think I'll be posting in this thread much anymore , I think it has served it's purpose of documenting my thoughts and strategies from the beginnning until my first bang .

I leave you a photo of my HB7 preparing a fruit salad just after we banged :

Post: #70

Been following this thread even before I registered and man I gotta say you are doing a great job. If you go back to the start of the thread and read through you can see the transformation and that is just getting me more motivated to continue with my approaches. Kudos on the bang and that tight ass you had !

Post: #71

Great job! Cute ass definitely. LMR is a solid boner killer for me, and makes me push to get the bang but dump her after.