Post: #1

Went out on a date yesterday, got rejected the first time I went in for the kiss while standing at the bus stop.

I brush it off and we continue talking. As we're talking I decide to lift her off the ground like in the photo.

She screams in shock and tells me to put her down. I tell her that the only way she's getting down is if I get a kiss.

She stares at me and says: "ok let's see how long you can carry me"

3 minutes in and she gives in, I get the kiss.

Try this out the next time she denies you the kiss. Make sure you don't drop her though. (I kid)

Post: #2

You got the kiss (and well done on the technique), but did you successfully take it further?

Anything less than a bang is no cause for celebration in my books.

Post: #3

No bang brother. The girl has only been with 2 guys so I'll give it one more shot (pardon the pun)

Post: #4

I like the move, helps making closer contact while showing your strength.
Might use it, not in the "kiss me" context howether.

Thanks.

Post: #5

I like this game, pretty agressive. Especially considering it happened at a bus stop. I have never done this. I presume there needs to be a certain vibe already there to pull this off succesfully?

Post: #6

well done. a strong display of masculine dominance will always make the gina tingle. Since getting involved in this community, I've become way more assertive with women. Dont ever ask permission, just take what you want. If a woman gives me some resistance and makes a lame excuse, I look her in the eye with the look that I want to fuck her brains out and with a smile I quietly & seductively tell her to shut the fuck up, put my hand around her head and kiss her. from then on she is mine.

Post: #7

(12-13-2014 10:40 PM)Agreddor Wrote:  No bang brother. The girl has only been with 2 guys so I'll give it one more shot (pardon the pun)

And you believed her?

Post: #8

(12-13-2014 10:33 PM)Windom Earle Wrote:  You got the kiss (and well done on the technique), but did you successfully take it further?

Anything less than a bang is no cause for celebration in my books.

Surely getting dome is a cause for celebration.

Post: #9

@lowside just make sure you don't drop her. Practice would help.

Post: #10

@goldfinger I gave her the benefit of doubt

Post: #11

(12-17-2014 06:57 AM)Agreddor Wrote:  @goldfinger I gave her the benefit of doubt

Just saw that you're probably in Singapore, thought this was in Merica. Benefit of the doubt isn't too far off.

Post: #12

I don't know, if you're in Singapore maybe rules are different there, but I personally would never do something and say "This isn't ending until you give me a kiss." Physical affection coerced like that seems disingenuous. A kiss to a girl should seem spontaneous and spur of the moment, not forced.

If you can't get a kiss without carrying her around the city like that, which seems kinda clownish to me, it seems like you just need to build more attraction.

Of course you kissed her but I wouldn't be surprised if she was like "Jesus this guy is actually not letting me down, I better just give him a kiss so he puts me down this has already been 3 minutes, what the hell."

Sudden acts like picking her up, giving her a salsa spin, tickling her, anything like that which creates new physical sensations, can often be a good segue into a kiss. But if you have to keep doing it for 3 minutes I would just drop it, take a step back, build more attraction, and try again later.

FWIW in my experience actual Asian chicks are way less into PDA than American chicks so just brining her to a private location may have been all you needed. And that may be all you need in the future. Invite her over, or invite her to a location right near your apartment, then transition there, and see how she feels.

Post: #13

If she really were unwilling to give said kiss, she would do whatever it takes to get down eg. Fidget a lot, scream for help, and in extreme cases headbutt you.

The fact that she relents would indicate that she's attracted to you sufficiently, but was unwilling to cross the rubicon, so to speak, until compelled to do so.

If anything, I see this more as a romantic gesture.

Post: #14

(12-13-2014 10:33 PM)Windom Earle Wrote:  You got the kiss (and well done on the technique), but did you successfully take it further?

Anything less than a bang is no cause for celebration in my books.

This is the newbie forum, man. Some people here (myself included) couldn't even have basic conversations with girls before discovering this website. What seems to you like something insignificant may very well be a huge step forward for someone else.

If that's the case for you, OP, congrats!

Post: #15

Great idea, but careful...

God forbid a newbie on here tries it with his fatty four or five...don't do it at the expense of a broken back
   

Post: #16

Technique question.
Hoe exactly does one sweep a girl off her feet bridal style?
I tried it once before and failed hilariously.

When walking side by side or facing each other, do you bend down and move the forearm behind the knees to start the motion? Or do you have to place the arm behind the shoulders first?

Post: #17

Ya all motherfuckers need to go learn salsa or Judo JJG wanna jump in with your wisdom?

I lift girls off their feet all the time, it's almost a reflex now. Girls love being manhandled and it really shows off your masculine side, particularly since most guys are so beta they don't even dare to touch a girl.

The catch is that you need to do it without hesitation or fear. Aint no point showing masculinity and muscle if you actually struggle to lift her (you even lift bro?) or drop her on her ass.

There's so many ways to lift girls up, I'll go with the most basics:

-If you are walking side by side: suddenly stop, she should be taking one or two steps forward. Now you are right at her back. Wrap your arms around her mid back just under her arm-pit. The other arm goes directly behind her knees and sweep up FAST. For better balance you should have the leg on the side of the first arm forward. Bend down if you have to, but it's better to use the first arm to lift her up so your other arm can just sweep her up. Do it fast, if the girl has time to scream before she's flying you are doing it wrong.

-If you are talking and standing around, make a funny comment/remark and point to another direction to distract her. This by itself should be a great tease. When she turns away do the above.

-If you are both sitting, get off your chair. Put one of her arm around your neck and do as above. Hell for special effects lift her up together with the chair (not recommended for newbie... Physical pain is sure to follow). I did this from time to time and always brighten girls up.


-If you have already established comfort with the girl or she's really interested, when you first see her and she's walking toward you for a hug, hug her then step on the side, wrap your arm around her midback , lift her up and swing her body to throw her legs over your other arms. Something like this at 1:09 but catch her leg with your other arm.





-For special effects and added fun, after you do the above like the video at 1:09, spin around and swing her around. She will scream like a baby and then you will have tons of shit to neg her with. I do this by default with girls that I like and it always work like a charm.

I stretch that none of this would work if your frame is weak or you don't do it with conviction. Do this with a laugh. If she doesn't like it (she does. If not ditch the bitch) and pretend to complain neg her about it and pretend it never happens. Ex: sometimes I lift girls that are really petite and light. After the lift and swing, as they are still catching breath and I would laugh and add "damn girl you are OBESEEEEEE" Works even better if you are ripped, then she definitely knows it's an exaggerated joke. Give her shit.

If you really feeling it then do a dirty dancing style lift 3:20




Any of you fucker that drops the girl, fucking hit the gym or stop chasing fatties for fuck's sake. I'm 5"4 125lbs and I lift girls taller than me on a daily basis.

Post: #18

^ pretty solid

Is it tough learning salsa btw?

On another note, I'm thinking about taking mandhandling to a ole new level. Think bicep curlin bitches/ military pressing them (zyzz game)

Post: #19

What the hell? 125lbs????? Dude you're really light! What's your physique like? I weigh 180 and I donink I have the stamina to swing chicks around like that