Post: #1

How do you guys deal with a jealous girl, i.e. a girl that won't go out with you unless you satisfy her narcissic jealousy needs?

I have a mini-relationship with a girl now, and I got this today.

Her: "Tonight sounds fun. But I'd like to ask you something. Can you delete XXXXXX from your friend list? I really do not like this girl?"
Me: "I understand, don't worry, but I can't delete someone just because someone wants me to."
Her: "If you really want to respect me, you will do that for me. It makes no sense that you talk to those people while you know that I don't like them. You are trying to hurt me more?"
Me: "My friend list is under my responsibility and this is going to be the final decision. Still on for tonight?"
Silence.

How do you guys handle that?

Post: #2

No different from how you did. Freeze her out until she come back around.

HSLD

Post: #3

Make your friend list private. Adjust your privacy settings so that your friends can't tag you. Or if they do only their friends and you bit not your friends can see the tags. Same with posts on your wall. As for that exchange. Shoot like that always better discussed in person

Ala

She: blah blah blah disrespect me blah blah
You: I hear and I'm sorry that upsets you. Come over at eight. Bring the movies

You name abd acknowledge her feelings without doing anything really about it. Then when she comes over you fuck her in the ass. That changes the attitude

Post: #4

^take out "and I'm sorry" and you're all set. Never apologize to a bitch.

Post: #5

NO - you gave in too much into her frame. What the fuck does it matter if you have a mile-long friends list of your former conquests?

Her: "If you really want to respect me, you will do that for me. It makes no sense that you talk to those people while you know that I don't like them. You are trying to hurt me more?"

That's one hell of a manipulative move.

Her: "Tonight sounds fun. But I'd like to ask you something. Can you delete XXXXXX from your friend list? I really do not like this girl?"

Me: "Lol. You are cute when you are jealous. See you tonight."

If she persists:

Silence. I will not even discuss that crap. In order for a woman to have that much hand in a LTR, she better be my fiancee already and an heiress to a multi-billion-dollar fortune. Then I might consider that. And even then I won't acknowledge it, but delete it silently. Fuck if I have to admit defeat. If she thanks me for "respecting her wishes" then I would answer with: "Hrmmpf." A grunt is all I would be willing to utter. And that is for a woman who would have one hell of some hand over me.

In your case - zero discussion.

Post: #6

Of course I will never do it for her, no matter who the girl is, it's a question of principle. I don't really care about the "friend" she wants me to delete, it's just that if I say yes, she is gonna do more next time. Here's how I handled it this time.

2 days ago, I told her, I will not delete her, it's a question of principle. If she deletes me, I won't re-add her, but I won't be the one initiating that. So I added the girl to my secondary account that my girlfriend doesn't know of, told the girl that if my girlfriend asks, she deleted me to avoid making trouble in my couple, and deleted her.

When a girl acts like a child, we must reply like a child.

Post: #7

(12-15-2014 03:34 AM)alex3948 Wrote:  Of course I will never do it for her, no matter who the girl is, it's a question of principle. I don't really care about the "friend" she wants me to delete, it's just that if I say yes, she is gonna do more next time. Here's how I handled it this time.

2 days ago, I told her, I will not delete her, it's a question of principle. If she deletes me, I won't re-add her, but I won't be the one initiating that. So I added the girl to my secondary account that my girlfriend doesn't know of, told the girl that if my girlfriend asks, she deleted me to avoid making trouble in my couple, and deleted her.

When a girl acts like a child, we must reply like a child.

You have opened the door, she will now ask for more.

Post: #8

Was this over text or in person?

Post: #9

Zelcorpion Wrote:Her: "Tonight sounds fun. But I'd like to ask you something. Can you delete XXXXXX from your friend list? I really do not like this girl?"

Me: "Lol. You are cute when you are jealous. See you tonight."

Glad I'm starting to internalize some of this shit! My thoughts exactly though--To me the correct play isn't even an "lol" but to either ignore the question entirely or put a simple "no".

EX:
"No. I'll pick you up at x:xx"
"Oh it will be fun! See you at x:xx"
"I'll see you at x:xx"

Edit: lmao on that child shit. When a child acts like a child does an adult act like a child? No you punish that little shit lol

Post: #10

One of the most valuable lessons I've learned with chics is to be indirect, don't answer questions, sidestep questions, etc, etc.

I'm no expert, just a thought:

Her: "Can you delete XXXXXX?"
You: (Blank stare for a second) "I totally just lost my train of thought...are Brian and Megan coming out too?" (or some random thought)

The honest way of handling it is to not take her seriously...and say yes, but don't do it right there. If this works for a while, great. If she insists you do it right now on your phone (either in that moment or two weeks from then) you act dumbfounded at how ridiculous she's being for demanding you go into your contacts and delete a friend. ZERO emotions besides dumbfoundedness at her ridiculousness. It's honest because it is ridiculous...unless she means it.

Post: #11

(12-14-2014 05:26 AM)alex3948 Wrote:  How do you guys deal with a jealous girl, i.e. a girl that won't go out with you unless you satisfy her narcissic jealousy needs?

I have a mini-relationship with a girl now, and I got this today.

Her: "Tonight sounds fun. But I'd like to ask you something. Can you delete XXXXXX from your friend list? I really do not like this girl?"
Me: "I understand, don't worry, but I can't delete someone just because someone wants me to."
Her: "If you really want to respect me, you will do that for me. It makes no sense that you talk to those people while you know that I don't like them. You are trying to hurt me more?"
Me: "My friend list is under my responsibility and this is going to be the final decision. Still on for tonight?"
Silence.

How do you guys handle that?

Radio silence. She will either send something else, or you can talk to her in person. That kind of ridiculous text deserves no response.

Once in person if she persists you can say, "I'm not going to remove her or anyone, don't ask again. You can block her, but I'm not involved in it and I don't want to be."

Post: #12

(12-14-2014 05:26 AM)alex3948 Wrote:  Her: "Tonight sounds fun. But I'd like to ask you something. Can you delete XXXXXX from your friend list? I really do not like this girl?"
Silence.

Fixed that for you.

Post: #13

Why would you spill your seed anywhere near someone like this?

Quote:Her: "If you really want to respect me, you will do that for me. It makes no sense that you talk to those people while you know that I don't like them. You are trying to hurt me more?"

This screams BPD or some other weird manipulative personality disorder shit and is just a really costly entanglement waiting to happen. I would avoid like the plague. If you find yourself wondering why you would tolerate this kind of manipulation, it's worth some introspection. But in any case, improve your game so you can bang some higher quality (internally, not just externally) women and twits like this won't hold enough allure for you to bother with them.

Quote:How do you guys deal with a jealous girl, i.e. a girl that won't go out with you unless you satisfy her narcissic jealousy needs?

How do you guys handle that?

I don't. Next...