Post: #1

Im a longtime reader of Roosh but i've rarely ever posted. Game has changed my life, and in very short time too. I was a typical pining beta, but about a year ago, I took the redpill and things have improved drastically.

Here's my story:
I'm a student at a very SJW friendly college and shit sucks in terms of parties, friends, and chicks imho. I threw a huge party this summer and I charmed a girl at the party, who was absolutely gorgeous, and who it turns out was a model working in ny. She came back home for the summer and because the spring before she had gotten jaundice and had to take a break from modeling. My party was big enough that through a friend of a friend she heard about it and came. Got her number, went on a traditional date (unheard of right?) and started dating her by the third date.

(Full disclosure, im 6 ft 2in, blond blue-eyed and /fit/.) But that means nothing, most good looking guys are thirsty as fuck and get absolutely nothing at college, even the frat bros who i used to hang out with. Really sad actually, the state of college campuses... Not to mention the rape awareness scare, but i digress.

Here's my predicament. She's really cute, feminine, best sex i've had in my short young life, cooks for me and brings it to my college dorm, wants to move in with me, and is really the opposite of all the feminist cunts ive pumped and dumped throughout college. Idk how I would have gotten through fall semester without her.

But im going to Russia, speak Russian, and made the plans to go there and bang lots and lots before i even met her.

I feel awful for wanting to fuck up something like this. Am i just not alpha enough? I really can't ask for advice from anyone i know, hopefully some of the older guys can give me their 2 cents.

Post: #2

How long is the trip, how long have you been dating this chick, what are your moral standards on cheating, etc? These are all factors that should weigh in to your decision.

If it's for an entire semester I think that's a long time for you to stick together with so much distance between you two. I think the best way for you to have your cake and eat it too would be to break up before going to Russia, bang a bunch of Russian girls, and then make an attempt to pick up the pieces when you get home.

I tend to view everything as temporary though. There are no guarantees that she will wait for you to get home. It would be quite a shame if you went to Russia, spent a lot of time being faithful to your girl, and then it doesn't work out anyways. Failing at making the relationship work and then also not enjoying your trip as much as possible would be my biggest fear.

Post: #3

(12-15-2014 11:12 PM)tallandblonde Wrote:  How long is the trip, how long have you been dating this chick, what are your moral standards on cheating, etc? These are all factors that should weigh in to your decision.

If it's for an entire semester I think that's a long time for you to stick together with so much distance between you two. I think the best way for you to have your cake and eat it too would be to break up before going to Russia, bang a bunch of Russian girls, and then make an attempt to pick up the pieces when you get home.

I tend to view everything as temporary though. There are no guarantees that she will wait for you to get home. It would be quite a shame if you went to Russia, spent a lot of time being faithful to your girl, and then it doesn't work out anyways. Failing at making the relationship work and then also not enjoying your trip as much as possible would be my biggest fear.

Moral standards are a bitch because i still have them. I figure that if i see something better in russia though, I can't be blamed for it. I dont think breaking up is a possibility either...

I think that attitude is correct though.

Post: #4

(12-15-2014 10:53 PM)mugen Wrote:  Im a longtime reader of Roosh but i've rarely ever posted. Game has changed my life, and in very short time too. I was a typical pining beta, but about a year ago, I took the redpill and things have improved drastically.

Here's my story:
I'm a student at a very SJW friendly college and shit sucks in terms of parties, friends, and chicks imho. I threw a huge party this summer and I charmed a girl at the party, who was absolutely gorgeous, and who it turns out was a model working in ny. She came back home for the summer and because the spring before she had gotten jaundice and had to take a break from modeling. My party was big enough that through a friend of a friend she heard about it and came. Got her number, went on a traditional date (unheard of right?) and started dating her by the third date.

(Full disclosure, im 6 ft 2in, blond blue-eyed and /fit/.) But that means nothing, most good looking guys are thirsty as fuck and get absolutely nothing at college, even the frat bros who i used to hang out with. Really sad actually, the state of college campuses... Not to mention the rape awareness scare, but i digress.

Here's my predicament. She's really cute, feminine, best sex i've had in my short young life, cooks for me and brings it to my college dorm, wants to move in with me, and is really the opposite of all the feminist cunts ive pumped and dumped throughout college. Idk how I would have gotten through fall semester without her.

But im going to Russia, speak Russian, and made the plans to go there and bang lots and lots before i even met her.

I feel awful for wanting to fuck up something like this. Am i just not alpha enough? I really can't ask for advice from anyone i know, hopefully some of the older guys can give me their 2 cents.

You should never bend over backwards for a girl. She's not your wife, if you get caught cheating so what? No girl is an angel, every girl has her flaws. Go to Russia, it's your male imperative to do so.

Post: #5

If you think you've met someone who is special and amazing then that's awesome. Congratulations.

As someone earlier asked, how long are you going for? If it's a week, that's nothing. If it's a semester, make sure you have "the talk" beforehand and that you trust her answers. The worst thing to do is you be faithful while surrounded by slavic beauties, while she is boning the janitors.

If it's not a school thing, and you were going just to bang girls, why not postpone the trip for a few months?

Post: #6

How ever special this girl is, there is no way she is going to be the reason to cancel your trip to Russia. That simply cannot happen.

Without getting into details on where she stands in all this, or other backup options she might have, let me say this:
If you leave to Russia flying high as her top priority alpha, I can guarantee when you come back and hit her up, she will come running (assuming she doesnt have a bf at the time, but thats not in you control).

My initial suspicion is shes probably one of the hottest pieces of ass you have locked up?

I can say the same about myself, as I found myself infatuated with a sexy girl I locked up for a short period of time, only to get burned for it in the end.

Post: #7

You're still young. You gotta have some war-scars to feel empowered enough to walk away.

Go fuck other girls, go make mistakes and focus on other aspects of your life.

Two valuable quotes I learned from this forum (credit to whoever mentioned them):

- Never judge a woman on her looks, only her behaviour;

- You lose money chasing women but you never lose women chasing money

Forget about the alpha/beta dichotomy. Stop comparing yourself to others.

What do you want to do?

Do it.

If you were mistaken, trust your wisdom to learn.

If you were correct, enjoy the rewards.

Post: #8

I will add these mildly sarcastic questions:

1. Did you write 'striking gold' as the thread title because she had jaundice? If so, that would be pretty funny.
2. I have never heard of an adult getting jaunice, just babies. Sounds like you could have some health issues on your hands as she ages.

My advice would be to enjoy your relationship with Madam Jaundice until the honeymoon phase wears off. Don't get her pregnant, move in or get married in the meantime. Something like re-evaluate your russia plans 1 year from now would probably coincide with that phase and you'll know if you want to pass up russian poon to keep what you've got or not.