Post: #1

I’ve been in Makati for 10 days and I have 2 notches.

I can’t figure out what is happening. I’m working Filipino Cupid and Tinder hard and other than the easy responses, I’m getting a lot of American style attitude and bitch shields.

The White God syndrome has worn off. I feel like these broads are gaming me.

Any advice? What am I doing wrong?

Post: #2

You're complaining about two notches in 10 days?

White god syndrome is wearing off. What does your profile look like? Post some convos and let's see what you are doing.

Post: #3

It's a numbers game on these sites. Takes a lot of screening too with the matches you get to figure out which girls you find attractive AND are actually keen rather than playing games. Did you pipeline at all before landing? It can take a few days of chatting to warm up some girls. My strongest leads landing were ones I talked to a week or two so I had a few ready to go my first few days.

Post: #4

I'm interested in this actually. . .
I keep getting new matches every week but most are rubbish leads. Then when I do date and bang a girl it's because it went super smooth from the start.

You mention talking to girls for more than one week.
How does that exactly look like?
When I try to play it a bit longer like that they invariable lose interest and ghost. Also there's the issue of one word answers and/or taking hours or days to reply. I'm not even sure I can put up with that without falling in the orbiter category.

Post: #5

I guess you're about 5 years too late...

Post: #6

^ Yep, might as well go home, OP.

I'm Here.

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #7

Thanks for all the replies. I’m thinking if I come here again, I’m going to post up somewhere far from Manila. Get me some province girls that aren’t westernized.

Post: #8

Oh no, only two bangs in a week - the horror.

Post: #9

(03-28-2019 05:30 PM)Heart Break Kid Wrote:  Oh no, only two bangs in a week - the horror.

For real. If you haven't pipe lined beforehand or don't have solid game, I'd say 2 is pretty decent. Did you go out to the night life at all OP?

Post: #10

Thought I would update the thread now that I am back.

I wound up ringing up about 10 notches in 3 weeks in Manila. Some self-reflection:

1.) This is a lot of work. I need to focus on raising quality and slowing down.
2.) I have to get out of Manila next visit.
3.) I realize I am not putting the proper effort into my profile and my Tinder game.
4.) I have been doing this all online, so it's time for in-person approaches.

Thanks all for your responses. You're not wrong!