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RE: Seriously, how did Paul Janka do it?
(12-22-2014 09:38 PM)RawGod Wrote: Firstly, attractiveness is not everything- game is real. See Krauser. If you do 1000s of approaches you can get a subtle calibration that will boost your results by orders of magnitude. Ordinary looking guys can get a magnetic vibe after years of practice. These is what makes them elite.
Secondly, and to add to nuance to that, Janka IS a very attractive guy. Sometimes this is hard for us men to realise. What seems to be a slight difference in facial aesthetics can actually be a very wide looks gap.
Take this famous OK Cupid test - the image shows the number of unsolicited mails received by each man.
To me, I could almost say, eh, the guys that got 2 or 12 responses are almost as goodlooking as the guy that got 38. Maybe the top guy just has a better photo. But actually, to women, that guy's looks are top tier and he gets 10x the response. I think Janka is indeed in that top tier male model category.
A lot of guys seem to have a tough time understanding what an attractive guy looks like.
They usually undervalue attributes such as bone structure & overrate factors such as bicep size.
Anyway, thats my one 'no homo' post for the day out of the way.
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RE: Seriously, how did Paul Janka do it?
(12-24-2014 10:26 AM)El Chinito loco Wrote: (12-24-2014 01:47 AM)Rush87 Wrote: A lot of guys seem to have a tough time understanding what an attractive guy looks like.
They usually undervalue attributes such as bone structure & overrate factors such as bicep size.
Anyway, thats my one 'no homo' post for the day out of the way.
It's because a lot of guys mistake charisma with handsomeness. Men see value in another man having charisma but most men (unless you're gay) don't care about a man's relative attractiveness. A man can be charismatic and good with socializing with men and fail at women too. Seen this type quite a few times.
Women love natural mesomorphs with a long upper body, broad shoulders, lean muscle, and long legs. Every single guy that i've seen a woman get immediately crazy over has this body type. The face just needs to have a nice masculine jawline. Even if a guy isn't tall but looks proportionate with an above average face he is still good to go.
Paul Janka fits the mesomorph profile very well.
Yes many guys can't put together what makes an attractive male in pure looks by facial bone structure, eyes, symmetry, proportions etc...
A male 8 in pure looks (face is about 90%+ of this if the guy is 5'8" or taller) and gets treated on a relative scale that much better than a male 6 the same way a female 8 gets treated better than a female 6 all based on looks alone off the bat.
The only difference is how behavior changes once that male 8 opens his mouth for a couple minutes vs. a female 8 who will always be treated well no matter what she says.
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RE: Seriously, how did Paul Janka do it?
(12-24-2014 12:32 AM)DarkTriad Wrote: (12-23-2014 10:28 AM)Zelcorpion Wrote: (12-23-2014 07:01 AM)iknowexactly Wrote: Looks+Height +Harvard+ DiligentGamePractice--- How could he NOT get girls..
EVERYTHING except unusual wealth or fame was in place.
Smoking models who aren't world famous dream of bringing a guy like him home to mom and dad instead of the good-looking bartender who isn't too bright .
People who attend Harvard refer to telling dates they attend Harvard as "the H-Bomb" because it intimidates them so much.
I jealousy-hate the guy because he can snare out of my league.
However I have to admit he answered my game question once, I asked how could so many girls live in Manhattan when it's so expensive, he said their dads subsidize the rent.
Dropping the H-bomb works on k-selected provider Game. Pussies don't get wet by degrees or physics PhDs would be swimming in it.
He usually did not even go on dates and his Game model was highly concentrated on: "I live close. I wanna fuck. You up for it tonight?" Just put more eloquently and with a high automatic rejection rate.
IIRC, it was a little slicker than that. Invite them on a date, have them meet at his apartment, offer cocktails while he finished "getting ready" and then keep escalating till they left or he got the bang (never going on the actual date).
As I said above Janka had two iterations of his model. In the first iteration he would meet girls at a lounge bar, buy them two drinks and then invite them over. The second iteration had them come straight to his place.
There is a lot of logistics gold in janka's pdf. And don't forget this shit is from 10 years ago. Good looking or not, he was way ahead of most of us in his logistics.
Some choice quotes:
* Most difficult women remain difficult.
* Always be prepared to walk from the pussy,
* I am usually out of the lounge after two drinks, sometimes three.
* I often say I know of a place where we can have another drink, and that I’m tired of this joint. They agree and ask “where?” Here you should be vague, ..Tell her it’s a spot uptown and then walk out, hail a cab and pile in.
* As the woman trails behind me at 2am, ascending the stairwell to my floor, I have the plan in place. There is only a single leather chair with ottoman in my apartment, and here she must sit. I’ve usually prepared before heading out that night, and so all the lights are off and there are a couple of candles and matches by the front door. I’ve found that women will tolerate most anything, provided the
experience is candle-lit
This quote is from here http://blog.juliaallison.com/Images/Paul...%20NYC.pdf
Quote:Tell the bartender how it is - she works for you for the 2 hours or so you’ll be
there. I tell them I don’t drink but that I am meeting a lady, and that I don’t want her to
feel uncomfortable so could they please bring me seltzer waters, in a high-ball glass, with
a lime. And call it a Tom Collins. Or a Gin and Tonic if you prefer. Never leave your
drink, and don’t let the girl sip it – she will freak out, I guarantee you. If you go to the
bathroom, take it with you. When done, take both her glass and yours to the bar and give
them to the bartender. Also, I find that drinking 2 or 3 seltzers on top of the meal I ate an
hour before (solo or with a buddy) can be a challenge; I usually tell the bartender to make
mine almost entirely ice; hers, little ice and stiff.
Bring the drinks back (it’s best to order at the bar while she’s sitting on the couch
so she can’t hear the conversation) and do a nice little toast, making strong eye contact
when the glasses clink. Avoid giving orders to the waitress out loud because she may
here you say “Tom Collins” and respond, “I thought you were drinking seltzer” or
something worse. Advise them to NOT announce your drink when they hand it to you, as
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RE: Seriously, how did Paul Janka do it?
This is very simple..
Looks + Game + Logistics + Free Time + Thousands of Approaches = Lots of numbers, dates & sex!
-Looks is mostly genetic. But, fashion, hair, grooming, body fat, muscularity, etc. all require effort and dedication.
-Game is sometimes genetic and upbringing, but, most often, it is the result of dedication and practice.
- Logistics is sometimes luck, but, we are all free to move to a better location if we want to.
- Free time is sometimes luck, but, we are all free to rearrange our priorities.
- Thousands of Approaches.. This is sheer effort. There are no shortcuts.
Paul Janka was born with good genetics and pedigree but he put the work in to become elite.
Many guys are born with genetics and pedigree, yet, they still struggle with women. Janka deserves credit because of his hard work and dedication.
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