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Remorse for leading `nice girls' on?
Hey guys. First post on the forum.

I went on a few dates with two conservative girls with a low notch count. They both obviously want a relationship. Is there a somewhat decent way of letting them know that a relationship wont happen? I feel like just dumping them after sex might damage them long term and transform them into carousel riding skanks.
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RE: Remorse for leading `nice girls' on?
Just tell them you're a wealthy medical specialist and you want them to have your babies. Be 'emotionally honest' about it though.
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I feel disrespected when we get such awful conspicuous trolls

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I'm not trying to troll. Just want to know how I should handle it
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RE: Remorse for leading `nice girls' on?
Rule number one there's no such thing as a nice girl.

Rule number two your nut is sacred.

Rule number three you are obvious troll because this is game 101 and not worthy of a thread. You can learn to use the search feature and post in another thread.

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RE: Remorse for leading `nice girls' on?
Sorry about that, I did not find anything by searching. Can you recommend some threads?

(06-18-2015 08:15 AM)hwuzhere Wrote:  Rule number one there's no such thing as a nice girl.

Rule number two your nut is sacred.

Rule number three you are obvious troll because this is game 101 and not worthy of a thread. You can learn to use the search feature and post in another thread.
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Start by introducing yourself and that you are new then proceed to ask about your issue.

Though again I can already imagine the answer as something like: "Why would you not fuck these girls? Keep them around and fuck them while you can. Just not too long. Give them the time of their lives; why waste the enjoyment for both parties? As long as you leave them off good you'll be fine. "

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RE: Remorse for leading `nice girls' on?
Thanks hwuzhere. I guess I made a fool of myself with my first post Undecided.

(06-18-2015 08:32 AM)hwuzhere Wrote:  /thread-24128.html

Start by introducing yourself and that you are new then proceed to ask about your issue.

Though again I can already imagine the answer as something like: "Why would you not fuck these girls? Keep them around and fuck them while you can. Just not too long. Give them the time of their lives; why waste the enjoyment for both parties? As long as you leave them off good you'll be fine. "
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RE: Remorse for leading `nice girls' on?
One way to stop these trolls/newbs might be to have them read books like the Rational Male series and/or test them on it before they post. We could even have fun with it and use previous troll/newb posts to test them. Sorry blackaldr, but I'm going to use your unfortunate first post as an example:

Quote:I went on a few dates with two conservative girls with a low notch count. They both obviously want a relationship. Is there a somewhat decent way of letting them know that a relationship wont happen? I feel like just dumping them after sex might damage them long term and transform them into carousel riding skanks.

Which of the below is the best forum response that isn't teeming with feminist-like snark? Choose one:

a) "And you know they're conservative girls with low notch counts after a few dates because ... you've stalked them?"

b) "You should be completely honest with them, because the effect of your awesomeness pumping and dumping these fair maidens just once each is going to instantaneously turn them into raging alcholic, coke-snorting whores."

c) "Look, if you just want casual sex, go find casual sex chicks. If these girls really are conservative, they won't have sex without a relationship anyway. They'll hook conservative guys with something else - cooking for them, etc."
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RE: Remorse for leading `nice girls' on?
(06-18-2015 07:30 AM)blackaldr Wrote:  Hey guys. First post on the forum.

I went on a few dates with two conservative girls with a low notch count. They both obviously want a relationship. Is there a somewhat decent way of letting them know that a relationship wont happen? I feel like just dumping them after sex might damage them long term and transform them into carousel riding skanks.

Ok so maybe you aren't a troll. Here goes:

1. You don't know their notch count. Maybe it's high. Maybe it really is low. If so...

2. Even if they are 'nice girls' with low notch count, you don't know what you think you do about them. You don't know they're dying for someone to make sweet sweet love with and have been looking for a guy with the balls to close the deal.

3. You don't know that they're disappointed when you aren't willing to be the asshole that fucks them silly for a few months.

4. You don't know if you can bang them. Don't think you have carte blanche.

5. If you do bang them, you don't know if after you fuck them once or twice they'll want anything to do with you. Don't think you have carte blanche. She still holds the key to the kingdom.

6. To my last point, maybe she'll fuck you once or twice because she's dying for someone to make love to, and be done with you. You're worried you're playing them like a fiddle. Make no mistake, you are the fiddle.

7. Your job isn't to keep their count low. That's their job.

8. You don't know their notch count.

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RE: Remorse for leading `nice girls' on?
Good advice heavy. I should not worry so much about the girls. Most of the time I do not care at all and just tell them to get out after the bang. I live in a smallish city so going on multiple dates with different girls is complicated as I always run into the other chicks.
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RE: Remorse for leading `nice girls' on?
I liken this situation to selling something.

Just like a fool and his money are easily parted and therefore why shouldn't it be me that gets it?

In this case someone is gonna pump and dump them...may as well be you.

You have no loyalty to them.
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(06-18-2015 09:30 AM)blackaldr Wrote:  Good advice heavy. I should not worry so much about the girls. Most of the time I do not care at all and just tell them to get out after the bang. I live in a smallish city so going on multiple dates with different girls is complicated as I always run into the other chicks.

It's more about humility than about about not worrying about the girls.

Generally, the girls you meet, bang or otherwise, have been more intimate on more occasions than you**, they're better manipulators than you, they can sub-communicate better, they enjoy good sex more than you, they're better at getting what they want, they're better at assessing you and your intentions pre-relationship and certainly pre-coitus than you are at assessing hers, they're better liars, and they're more desired by more men than you will ever desired by women.

No go forth, wrapped in the humility of those truths.

"for my strength is made perfect in weakness"

**By "intimate", I don't mean only sex. Go watch young girls (bffs) interact with one another, especially in a larger group of people. They're constantly touching each other and assessing their bffs and others. They're incredibly intimate with one another and the situation.
***This affects all aspects of what it means to be a woman. For instance, women lie about their notch count. But it's not lying like you or me think of it. The reason they lie is because it doesn't feel like lying, and if we had their lives, it wouldn't feel like lying to us. Why? To them, sex isn't the 'event' like it is to us. Sex is more like their day to day life than it is for us. The touching and feeling, even the full-bodied nature of the female orgasm, is more holistic and part of life to them than it is to us. It's like one of many gradually sloped hills on the graph of their lives, and it blends in with other external highs and lows of life like being rewarded for a good job at work or being passed over for a promotion at work. To our stable lives sex is more of a peak. When, outside of sex or attraction, do men intimately touch and feel other people? Not often for most men.

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RE: Remorse for leading `nice girls' on?
There are no 'nice girls'.

No remorse.
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RE: Remorse for leading `nice girls' on?
It's simple as this:

Just fade away little by little, you're busy, you realize you don't want to waste each others time, etc, etc

It's not complicated and hard to mess up.

I disagree I think there are genuine nice girls, especially if you're aware of the evils women can pull.

The last thing we need are more jaded feminist armed whores.

It's not putting pussy on pedestal, I assume I can fuck every girl I meet on the first date because they're a slut.

It's a nice surprise when they actually are feminine and conservative.


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RE: Remorse for leading `nice girls' on?
Pump and dump them and see how "nice" they really are
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I agree kaotic. I was worried pump and dumping would create more ``jaded feminist armed whores". Letting them go gently seems to be the best way.
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Never feel remorse. These "nice girls" aren't the special flowers you think they are.

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If it really turns out that they are all that and a bag of chips, just keep fucking both of them and put them on rotation. I don't see a problem here. I never really got the huge desire to only bang a chick one time, if the pussy is that good, I will want to hit it repeatedly. Granted, new pussy is always welcome.

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(06-20-2015 01:25 PM)Gmac Wrote:  Never feel remorse. These "nice girls" aren't the special flowers you think they are.

I agree, "nice girls" are just adult humans with tits and a pussy. They can make up their own minds about you or not...you don't have to 'save them from heartbreak'

That being said, I've also found life to be a bit easier when I live it with a bit of integrity and treat everyone, man or woman decently. I found that I was always looking over my shoulder when I was cheating and lying to peoples faces.

So, if you've got a 'nice girl' hooked on you, I wouldn't lose sleep over her broken heart as long as you are being somewhat genuine...as in not committing if you are spinning multiple plates vs. outright lying to her face that she's 'the only one'

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A lot of "nice girls" secretly want to be be dirty little sluts.

Who do you think buys all this female erotica about all sorts of dark fantasies?

That doesn't mean you should treat them badly, but stop pedestalizing them, they are not the delicate flowers you think they are.

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I nexted 2 girls in my harem last week, did they cry ? did they get hurt ? Abso fucking lutely.

What was I doing ? Gaming new girls, went on 2 new dates and banged my LTR.

Girls are replaceable, there is a difference between idolizing them, worrying about their "feelings" when you're debating cutting things...and nexting them because you realize they want something different and might want to go all in.

I couldn't tell you how many ONS's I've had where I never even bothered texting the girl after....needless to say they didn't give a shit after.

I agree with MrXY bang these girls right, treat them like a slut in bed, push the envelope every time.

The other side of the sword is that they'll be putty in your hand and some will catch feelings.

Sonoma's right about seeing how they are after you pump and dump then.

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(06-21-2015 07:41 PM)kaotic Wrote:  I nexted 2 girls in my harem last week, did they cry ? did they get hurt ? Abso fucking lutely.

What was I doing ? Gaming new girls, went on 2 new dates and banged my LTR.

Girls are replaceable, there is a difference between idolizing them, worrying about their "feelings" when you're debating cutting things...and nexting them because you realize they want something different and might want to go all in.

I couldn't tell you how many ONS's I've had where I never even bothered texting the girl after....needless to say they didn't give a shit after.

I agree with MrXY bang these girls right, treat them like a slut in bed, push the envelope every time.

The other side of the sword is that they'll be putty in your hand and some will catch feelings.

Sonoma's right about seeing how they are after you pump and dump then.

Hell hath no fury than a woman scorned - but it doesn't mean you need to bring negative energy into the world.

Agree with everything Kaotic said. And plus, dont fucking worry about hurting girls you have not banged for god’s sake !

As for breaking off without hurting them, its so easy. Do the exact opposite of everything we practice here. Act super needy, text and calls them every freaking hours, and start drama when she even talks to a guy on the phone, act emotional and show your weakness. She will break up with you and forget about you in seconds.

I did this with my ex who was super attached because I wanted to get rid of her and sure enough after 2 weeks she broke up with me, and she didn’t even text or message me after. Just go to show how heartless women can be if you start being weak.

If you don’t like it/have the time to play the above game, then just play the “its my fault/you deserve better than me” card.

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RE: Remorse for leading `nice girls' on?
Girls with really low notch counts will tend to become more attached than girls with more, for obvious reasons.

I've been seeing a 25 y.o. with only one partner besides myself (confirmed) for a few months, and as much as I've squashed my old beta good boy ways over the last year, it still seems somewhat wrong when I occasionaly hook up with other girls.

If I wasn't burned by other women in the past, I would settle back into my normal LTR modus operandi and be the good guy my family and society desires.
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(06-23-2015 01:25 AM)ordinaryleastsquared Wrote:  Girls with really low notch counts will tend to become more attached than girls with more, for obvious reasons.

I've been seeing a 25 y.o. with only one partner besides myself (confirmed) for a few months, and as much as I've squashed my old beta good boy ways over the last year, it still seems somewhat wrong when I occasionaly hook up with other girls.

If I wasn't burned by other women in the past, I would settle back into my normal LTR modus operandi and be the good guy my family and society desires.

I'm almost positive my LTR has less than 4, and she's very attached to me.

You can be a good guy, just don't be that chump from before. Holding onto the memories of a woman burning you is like holding a hot coal, you're the one getting burned in the end. Just learn from it and move on.

Forget about those stupid hoes, enjoy the women you surround yourself in the present, look forward to new girls. If you're one of the guys on the forum that is a man of his word and sticks to the LTR only, more power to you, but be the man you need to be and the man she craves.

You don't have to be mean, hell I'm more a perverted/cocky guy around my main, let alone a total dork at times, BUT I have the power in the relationship and maintain a strong game.

Now marriage and what society wants you to do is another story.

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