Post: #1

How's it going guys,
Got a situation with a girl in my class at college. I sort of know how to handle it but would still like some insight;

We in the 4th week of the semester right now. The first week we didn't speak, the second week I pulled up a chair next to her and we chatted briefly for about 5-10min, pretty casual. Third week we walked out of class together chatting briefly, she was running to another class and I saw her off and was unconsciously acting pretty aloof looking back on it now, she was asking most of the questions. Anyhow the 4th week we didn't speak, I did catch her glimpse coming my way here and there but nothing much. She got up and left a few minutes early, I was tempted to walk with her but decided to stay put.

I'm left feeling weird now bc I'll only see her in 2 weeks time. And I'm starting to feel I want this girl more and more. The question is how do I play this situation out where I don't come off weak/desperate... my end goal is to fuck her. I'm new to hitting it off with girls in my class (freshman)

Thanks guys, appreciate all comments

Post: #2

(08-27-2015 10:39 AM)poncho Wrote:  We in the 4th week of the semester right now. The first week we didn't speak, the second week I pulled up a chair next to her and we chatted briefly for about 5-10min, pretty casual. Third week we walked out of class together chatting briefly, ...

I tuned out around there because your story is boring. Is this how you ramble with chicks?

Are you actually talking to this girl or do you just see her in passing?

How about this plan: you go up to her and ask her to go do something with you. I mean you do the whole GALNUC thing but at least do the C - "you seem cool want to go hang tonight?"

First few weeks of Freshman year is not the time to play the long game, my friend. 4 weeks into the school year she's probably had 3 dicks already. It's beyond stupid to get one-itis for a girl you ain't even talking to.

Post: #3

yeah one-itis is the first thing I saw with the post. That "Netflix and chill" video the other day was funny, but pretty good illustration of playing the numbers game.

/thread-50066.html

Post: #4

Even if she's the only one in the class you're interested in, it's good to talk to others (male and female) to be seen as social and not desperate. Plus it's good to practice conversation.

By now you should have some idea of what days she doesn't have class right before or after the class you're both in. "Hey, let's go over to the dining hall and have a cup of coffee." Not lunch, just coffee.

Post: #5

My advice, based on Rollo and others:
Do not engage students. I understand that the "Yes means Yes" could get you expelled.

Focus on daygaming outside the campus or night game.

Post: #6

Newbie Forum.

Start talking to other girls. Once you start talking/banging other girls, you won't care as much about that her. Abundance mentality. Stop wasting your time thinking about her and go out and do something awesome. Come back with a good story.

Post: #7

If the question begins with "there's this girl..." the answer usually begins with "forget her".

Post: #8

Oneitis had developed. I would forget her and start approaching other girls until you get your head on straight about this one. Fixating on one girl is a recipe for disaster with modern hypergamy. Especially with girls in this age group. Move on.

Post: #9

Hit on other girls in the class

Post: #10

(08-27-2015 02:25 PM)TheMaleBrain Wrote:  My advice, based on Rollo and others:
Do not engage students. I understand that the "Yes means Yes" could get you expelled.

Focus on daygaming outside the campus or night game.

Not even funny how bad this advice is. Unless your game is horrid that will never happen to you. Just an understanding of how women need to save face and not being labelled "creepy" will do you just fine.

OP find another girl. You aren't missing anything by not hitting it off with one girl.

Post: #11

Only 1 post since June...updates?