Post: #1

I mean on the first date. On one hand I don't like her doing so it but on the other hand she may have legitimate reasons not to fully trust a man she met just a few hours before.

Post: #2

Points for her. What if you're a serial killer? Can't blame a girl for taking precautions.

Post: #3

Perfectly legitimate.

Every now and again, you see stories on the news about someone that up and disappears. Happens to both men and women. Last seen at _____, then nobody knows where they went.

I do the same thing with a longtime buddy of mine. I just don't tell the girl that I'm doing it.

How did you know she was telling her friend your address ?

Post: #4

She asked me my address before heading to my place, said she wanted a friend of hers to know.
Maybe I wasn't clear in my first post.

Post: #5

Well unless you are actually planning on killing her (via bad massage or not haha), I wouldn't worry about it.

I've text girls pictures of my car number plate in the past when I could sense a fear of being picked up for a first meet.

Who cares as long as she actually shows up?

Post: #6

OK understood. This is actually one of the reasons I'm glad I'm not a woman.

Post: #7

Yeah defo legit. If I go to girls place first time I'll tell someone too.

Post: #8

I see no reason to worry about it, it's not like you could stop her from telling her friend anyway.

But next time a girl asks, invite her friend along to join in the fun

Post: #9

points for her I'd say, she has a head on her shoulders and isn't just relying on a princess/pussy pass view of reality.

Post: #10

(11-14-2015 05:40 PM)FireStarter Wrote:  I see no reason to worry about it, it's not like you could stop her from telling her friend anyway.

But next time a girl asks, invite her friend along to join in the fun

Easy there, this is the Newbie forum.

Post: #11

(11-14-2015 08:11 PM)The Truth Wrote:  

(11-14-2015 05:40 PM)FireStarter Wrote:  I see no reason to worry about it, it's not like you could stop her from telling her friend anyway.

But next time a girl asks, invite her friend along to join in the fun

Easy there, this is the Newbie forum.

Good point, that was meant more as a half-joke than serious advice. I should have been clearer about that. But I will say that even for a newbie taking long shots will occasionally pay off.

Post: #12

I see nothing bad there. If you have no intention of hurting her, then sure. She will feel more confident, and my guess is that LMR will be lower.

Post: #13

I'd take a contrarian view and say that I'd more likely want to hang at her house, especially if she's a college girl (makes me think of false accusations).

That said - that's without me knowing absolutely anything else.

If you have an issue with it - try to hang at her house - her friend will know where she is. If not - plow on as usual.

G

Post: #14

You killed the opportunity for a threesome including her and her hot friend.

Post: #15

(11-15-2015 12:31 AM)FireStarter Wrote:  Good point, that was meant more as a half-joke than serious advice. I should have been clearer about that. But I will say that even for a newbie taking long shots will occasionally pay off.

Haha yeah I agree, I was just joking too.