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I just want to thank everyone for existing, young or old, great game or bad game, ugly or good looking, all of you thanks for being alive and joining me on this planet to try and find happiness. I love you all.

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I'm super drunk again, and let me know if I'm out of line and should get banned but I just feel like sharing.

Today I had this girl who I thought was not a prospect at all because I broke all the rules showing too much interest tell a friend of hers she wanted to have lunch with me and her. So cool, thought she was long gone. I just didn't care if she lost interest cause I invited her to party with me too many times, I felt like it was really her loss if she didn't come and I guess she's still interested in seeing me!

I went out tonight just to have fun with a buddy of mine and got super drunk off the cheap beer in this expat bar in baires. I chatted up a dude who was cousins with this girl who was best friends with this 9 who I ended up chatting up and she loved me! She told her cousin in front of me that she thought I was aweosme. I talked to her like I didnt care, like if she was a dude, like if I just wanted to have fun. And it worked charms! And so I got her email, she was from DC (ironic I know) cause she didnt have a phone and when I left, she emphasized that I should email her haha. I'm honestly super happy right now.


And to top it off I got this OKCupid message that read like this

Hey,

Mendoza was a lot of fun. Thanks for asking.
It would have been nicer if grapes were actually growing, but it was nice to see some place new. I'm glad I went. Did you have fun that weekend?

I am jealous that you've been skydiving. I want to go (but I am terrified).

We definitely need to hang out soon. I am going to Uruguay on Saturday and to a soccer game on Sunday, but evenings and nights during the week work well for me.

Jodie



Its been officially 8 days since I called this chick to hang out and she said she couldn't and I thought she wasn't interested and then I get this message!


I got 3 girls cooking but the point is that I don't care if I dont bang the 3 of them. I'm having fun and I honestly know its their loss if they don't hang out and fuck me. I've never liked and thought myself so cool in my entire life, its my first time.


Thanks for helping me love myself, all of you.

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Drink a few glasses of water.

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(06-29-2011 01:06 AM)Riker Wrote:  Thanks for helping me love myself, all of you.

Here here, I've never felt better in my life then I have since I've been exposed to this community

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Ok so 3rd time I'm super drunk in a week. And you know what, the subject is drunk post, so no one can bitch about reading some worthless crap cause that shit was a warning for you. So sad how I'm even insecure about that....


Anyways for you guys reading my girls "omg help me lay this 9" post. Bitch is actually a 8........ anywyas I'm depressed. I went out with her today and she brought along her best friend. We had fun and all but then later at night when we talked on facebook about what we were doing she told me she was going out with her friend and her cousin and just signed off without telling me anything else. Figures anyways I shouldn't care. I care too much about everything. I just want to be cool but this little voice in my head says I'm not. And I cant make it go away it sucks. And so I go to this club tonight with my friend and my cousin shows up and he is a model and charismatic and all the girls like him and it makes me feel ugly and bad. And it sucks. And I know I shouldnt care and I know I sound like a pussy but I'm drunk so I don't care.

I feel like when I'm sober and I'm on my game I pretend to be cool and confident but now that I'm drunk and had some failures my true loser self comes out, the loser who would write all this out to begin with. But yea, maybe I am cool and the alcohol/failures just fuels insecurities.

Anyways I kinda feel better. Hopefully my hangover tomorrow isn't that bad. For those of you who read through this, the least I can do is thankyou. Thanks!!!!!!

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When you're "super drunk" for the 3rd time in a week it's time to start thinking about what you're doing to yourself.

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Riker,

I have to say I've been amused and entertained by your whole "enterprise" with the supposed 9 chick who's been treating you like crap. I've also been finding quite funny your random "drunk post rantings" and find you quite humorous in a tragicomic kinda way. So I thought about chipping in my 2 cents on the whole affair... I'll be quoting your last post.

(07-03-2011 04:03 AM)Riker Wrote:  Figures anyways I shouldn't care. I care too much about everything. I just want to be cool but this little voice in my head says I'm not. And I cant make it go away it sucks.

I feel like when I'm sober and I'm on my game I pretend to be cool and confident but now that I'm drunk and had some failures my true loser self comes out, the loser who would write all this out to begin with. But yea, maybe I am cool and the alcohol/failures just fuels insecurities.

"I can't make it go away", "pretend to be cool and confident", "my -true- loser self"...

Don't think you can hide your "inner wuss" and don't think you can force your way out of it. The first step to get rid of this true loser self of yours is to EMBRACE it. Otherwise, you will always be pushing it to the side, to the back of your head, and it will REMAIN there, dormant, waiting for your moments of weakness (i.e., when you have a 9 lurking around) to pop its ugly head out. I get the whole "fake it till you make it" thing and I agree with it to a certain extent, but this inner loser self is something that should be FELT THROUGH.

Many of us have dealt with such things, and I say that the best (only?) way to deal with these types of insecurities is embracing it, feeling it through, not denying it, and give it some time. There are times you will have to fake, pretend, and that's -ok-, but to yourself you must know you are faking, and be ok with it as well. Stop worrying that you feel like a wuss, accept the wuss and in the given time it will go away FOR GOOD.

Girls subconsciously know you are faking, pretending to ""act alpha"" and react accordingly. Likewise, girls subconsciously pick up when they are dealing with a REAL MAN, who has gone through de painful process of accepting and feeling through his weaknesses, his wussiness, his "betahood".

Stop worrying, learn to let go of girls who mistreat you and accept, be ok with that wuss side of yours. In the given time, you will outgrow it.

Be happy and stop worrying.

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Vicious, yea its too much maybe. When go to a milonga to dance tango I don't drink, have more fun, and its cheaper.... but if I want to go out with anyone else at night I have to go to a club and if I'm sober it gets boring. Maybe I should just drop the whole club thing or go way less.

Thanks

Amour,

How do I accept it? Is it kind of like just being in the moment and forgiving yourself for it while day by day working to get on the other side? When you say painful process what does that entail? I get that whenever those feelings come out I probably distract myself with something and ignore it only for it to resurface later. But what do I need to do, go to a psychologist? Cry? Meditate for hours everyday? I don't know what to do.

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Hehehe...

Crying in this sense can be a good thing! You are allowing yourself to FEEL INTENSELY.

Meditating is THE MOST transformative practice anyone can undertake. If you have the interest, I'd suggest it emphatically. It is the act of GETTING OUT OF YOUR HEAD (where you only spend your time worrying, overthinking, instead of FEELING and learning how to FLOW.)

... And a psychologist wouldn't hurt (I am a psychology student myself), you'd get to understand the emotional patterns you carry.

But I'd say you shouldn't worry too much, what you are going through is perfectly normal, undergoing change, learning new abilities etc.

Whenever we are confronted with situations that challenge our old patters, there is always the struggle where we unconsciously try to fall back to our old ways. We are conditioned to being such and such, and any long-lasting change is hard and takes time. Don't be too harsh on yourself and don't overthink it. With time, you will get the idea.

Think of it as a phase you are going through, one of the hardships of learning this "art" we call Game.

And lets not overdo this post, lets not deviate much from the purpose of the forum.

Hope to have been of some help.

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Oh god, I;m so drunk........... for real.

I'm listening to some country music for some reason.

Ripping off the VIP bracelet off my wrist. My cousin is off going to fuck a girl... we just got off dropping off his other girls friends.

Damn....... wtf........ its all so blurry.

What can I say. Can't we all fuck 10s, seems like the world would be a better place. But I guess we all need to earn it. Cause then it makes it worth it.

Guys. You guys. With all your posts. With everybit of wisdrom you give out. With every thing you guys help some guy somewhere get laid. Don't ever stop.

You are changing the universe. Some girl's life will be better, maybe some kid will be born. You guys are transforming the world. Love will prevail. And Game is Love I don't care what anyone says. Fuck it all. You guys rock.