Post: #1

I guess this would be good in Fargo (what up mixx) but let's say you're in a regular city and happen to be one of a handful of brown or black guys in an all white venue. Is this going to be good or bad for you? Will you have to work 5 times as hard or are you better off finding a spot that has a more diverse crowd?

Post: #2

(06-27-2011 01:48 AM)houston Wrote:  I guess this would be good in Fargo (what up mixx) but let's say you're in a regular city and happen to be one of a handful of brown or black guys in an all white venue. Is this going to be good or bad for you? Will you have to work 5 times as hard or are you better off finding a spot that has a more diverse crowd

In my experience, it can go either way. In Singapore im the elephant in the room but there's always a girl who wants to know what it feels like to ride the elephant...I get more play from the Europeans and Malays but the Chinese can be pretty shy so there is more work involved.

Post: #3

That shit never really affected me, i dont care a lot about the race issue, i saw a woman that i like, i will approach her without thinking twice.

I think you carry a lot of negativity and you may have some confidence issues without you knowing it. Dont pay too much attention to those details, just approach them and be ready to respond to whatever happens.

Matterfact sometimes is even easier when you are the minority in the club, most girls like whatever is different.

Post: #4

(06-27-2011 03:37 AM)pitt Wrote:  That shit never really affected me, i dont care a lot about the race issue, i saw a woman that i like, i will approach her without thinking twice.

I think you carry a lot of negativity and you may have some confidence issues without you knowing it. Dont pay too much attention to those details, just approach them and be ready to respond to whatever happens.

Matterfact sometimes is even easier when you are the minority in the club, most girls like whatever is different.

I agree but also it can be difficult. Some women there are looking for the men who normally patronize that bar/lounge/club. It all comes down to finding out the best locations with trial/error.

Post: #5

Yeah RaulValdelz your point is valid too.

Post: #6

I never gave a fuck. However, win-over the males first!

That makes it seem you are part of the pack.

As such, any city in the world where I stand out works in my favor. Even all black clubs too! Just be cool with the guys, and show you are cool
All-around. Don't be a dick to any of the males, buy some drinks for a few to make instant wings, and they will help you get laid with their women.

I've never really had issues. Walk around with your tail between your legs and everyone will smell your discomfort from a mile away. I just walk around with my chest-out and chin-up!

Mixx

Post: #7

What Mixx said.

I've been in these situations so much I don't even think about it anymore. 9 times out of 10 it's worked to my advantage, if you stand out you've already got everyones attention. How relaxed and comfortable you are will usually make the difference between good attention and bad attention. Also, be cool with the other guys.

Post: #8

(06-27-2011 06:56 PM)azulsombra Wrote:  What Mixx said.

I've been in these situations so much I don't even think about it anymore. 9 times out of 10 it's worked to my advantage, if you stand out you've already got everyones attention. How relaxed and comfortable you are will usually make the difference between good attention and bad attention. Also, be cool with the other guys.

OP,exoticness always helps-you stand out. In itself a major selling point with ALL chicks. Eg in Kigali or Kampala I'm just another black guy,right? Not exactly-as a Kikuyu am circumcised,the lone mushroom in a roomful of uncircumcised. Difference or novelty always helps with chicks!!

Post: #9

Been there always.
Don't care. everywhere seems the same way: School, work, venues.

Post: #10

In the US, I found it in the northern mid-west states(Idaho, Dakota, etc) to be harder...The southern states (Georgia, Texas) to be easier...The metropolitan cities, its easier as well..