Post: #1

I'm pretty high right now writing so please excuse me for any this if it doesn't make much sense. Maybe this could be s thread in which we anlayse someone's lives and help make the best decisons for them as we are logical thinking men.

Age twenty
Name : Bambi
Height 5'6
Brown hair crappy brown beard
Accrativenes 5\10 ( I have jaw surgery coming up soon so should push that up to a 6\0
Weight 125 lbs
Location: London
Fashion: basic level

Highest level of occupation high school (a levels)
Occupation accounts assistance
Annual salary: £20K
Happiness with the accounts assistance job is 0/10. ( finance in general I fucking hate it.
Interest:MMA, Musing production
I have a job opportunity to a business in Turkey which could make me a lot of bank but it's just started up as it's my brothers business.

I can't train MMA here in London as I don't have enough time to fit it in. I have a dog at home indoors all day and classes only run at 6:30 where I live so it's really unfair on the dog that I have to leave the house at 7:30 am and return home at 8:45.

Game rating 2\10 {virgin unless you count an escort which I don't) I've kissed many girls now and came really close to another kiss until is it was deflected. My game is clesary not ready for what happens after you are deflected yet she's still there smiling etc. Or however even taking a girl home what to do etc.

The reason I'm telling you all this is for you to decide how I could live the happy and content life.

What I have planned to do is move to Turkey with my brother running a business that could potentialy break bank.
Due to the free time aspect, I will be able to train literally anytime I want. living in a villa near the coast is also much better than my current abode in a shitty East London house. However I will miss my friends a lot and things work a little differently over therr.

I will then in Turkey train for a year and then return to London to have an ammateur MMA fight.

Im basically saying do you think that is the thing I should be doing based on the above information.

Many thanks!

Post: #2

Quote:The reason I'm telling you all this is for you to decide how I could live the happy and content life.

This is not for us to say. You must make that decision for yourself. Take a good hard look in the mirror and come up with an answer. It doesn't matter what you come up with. Making your own decisions on what you want out of life and how to get it will lead you to having more confidence.


This forum, and other manosphere material is a great resource for men searching for answers to all kind of questions. However that doesn't mean we're here to tell you how to live your life. Go out there and experiment. Try.

Post: #3

What kind of jaw surgery? Is it to correct some kind of defect or to just plastic surgery to make it look better? Does the government pay for it?

Post: #4

To answer your question, I guess you're doing alright for age 20. My income at age 20 was 0. You have a lot of time ahead of you. Spend it on making money and improving yourself. Don't waste too much of it on getting high or drunk or such bullshit.

If you think the opportunity in Turkey is good, go for it. At your age, this is the time to take risks. Later in life, you may be stuck in a job you don't want to give up, other commitments, maybe family and kids, etc.

Post: #5

You're 20 years old and you have the oppportunity to go live somewhere warm, in a villa by the sea, make some money, and have the time to partake in your hobby? Why are you asking this? Just do it. If it doesn't work out you still have your whole life ahead of you.

Post: #6

I agree with da_zeb above me, but I would add: Stop smoking weed. Weed may not be physically addictive and it may be less harmful than cigarettes, but the real damage weed does is that it makes you content. When you smoke, you're happy with your life even if it's shitty. That sucks away all your motivation to improve your life because your brain thinks that all will be better if you just fire up a joint (and that's a shitload easier than anything that would actually improve your situation). It doesn't help you reach your goals, it makes you content with mediocrity.

I'm saying this because several of my friends started smoking the shit in high school, dropped out of university and are working jobs that just cover some very basic living and smoking expenses. They're not trying to start a business. They're not doing a specialized trade. They're working service jobs that pay by the hour at or slightly above minimum wage. That's no way to be living when you're 22+.

It pains me to see because many of these guys are actually clever and were a lot sharper than me when we were in school.

Post: #7

What will happen to the dog when you move to Turkey?

Post: #8

I'm extremely suspicious of this thread, because I remember another thread just like this:

/thread-46862.html

Quote:Little background:

I'm 19 years old, Turkish but born in and raised in England. I speak both languages fluently.

I'm 5'7, 125 lbs. As I've taken the red pill, I've become somewhat insecure about my height. This quite a sticking point for me in terms of self esteem.

I'm probably a 5/10, 6/10 on a good day. I'm also quite insecure about how I look because I have a severe overbite and recessed chin. I'm currently awaiting surgery and also have braces to correct this. With jaw surgery, I think I'll go up to a 6/10 maybe 7/10 because my other facial features such as cheek bones are decent. I find myself constantly worrying how my jaw looks and covering it with my hand when talking to people. Guess I'll just have to deal with it til my surgery.

And OP's OTHER thread about this:

/thread-44955.html

Quote:Hi there guys. Just wanted to take this opportunity to introduce myself.

My name is James, I'm 19 years old, 5'7, half Turkish half English (Caucasian).

Like many people here I have struggled immensely with women and have become incredibly jaded and cynical at life as not much has gone my way in terms of companionship and life in general. I grew up in a single parent family with a mother who is quite crazy. We were poor (naturally) and moved around a lot staying in crummy places all the time.

I'm also quite ugly in terms of looks. This has caused my great anxiety when it comes to my looks and I feel like the ugliest guy anywhere I go. I also have a problem where I feel inferior to other guys when I'm out in a social setting.

It appears NOTHING has changed since 2-8-15

Either shit or get off the pot.

You've gotten some good advice and obviously haven't put it to use.

You haven't updated us either on your changes, which seems to be lacking to begin with.

Post: #9

^DAMN Kaotic good catch.

Post: #10

Kaotic, don't forget this thread: /thread-49872.html

(08-17-2015 07:09 PM)BambiNotForLong Wrote:  After lurking, and taking no action. I feel like I'm waisting too much time reading and not putting anything into practice. So here it goes.

About me:

Age: 20

Past experiencesd : kissed 2 girls couple years ago and have banged a few hookers. The hookers served no purpose. I've yet to get laid with someone who is not a hooker.

Height: 5'6 (wear boots most of the time to bump me up to 5'8)

Body type: Very slim. I'm strapped for cash right now until my next pay day so cannot afford to sign up at this moment.

Dress: Needs to be improved ASAP but my financial situation cannot afford new clothes. Every month I'll acquire something new.

Looks: Average/slightly below. However I do have a severe overbite which gives me a feminine jawline. This is being fixed however in the next few months via surgery and a chin genioplasty. After that is fixed my looks will become above average as the rest of my face is quite aesthic. I have quite big eyes and was wondering if this creates any sort of attraction?

Race: Half English half Turkish.

So Bambi and JamesW95 are definitely the same person.

I've no doubt that the OP is struggling in real life, but as Kaotic said either you take action or stopping trolling us for advice you'll never put to practice.

Also, what is the point of this thread? You've already decided to go to Turkey and that's a major life change in the right direction. You seem so confused that the last thing you need is to spread your attention on multiple fronts. Focus on going one step at the time.

Go to Turkey and report back when you're there. Stop with the mental masturbation.

Post: #11

I think he is improving himself. He is having the surgery. That is a step. He has goals. He want to learn to fight very well and be able to protect himself and others. That is another goal. A goal that is worth a lot of money. How do I know? I know that because training is not cheap. It's a big goal. Tell any girl that you are trained in a martial art and are afraid of no one....she will get the Gina tingles before you can blink 8 times.

Trust yourself OP. Always bet on yourself and believe in yourself. I don't care if you're a virgin or if other people have told you that your ugly. NEVER, ever, ever, say again from today that you are ugly. EVER. It doesnt matter if your dream doesn't like you. There are too many women ON EARTH who would fuck you.

Self respect will take you far. If you believe you are attractive (you must, you have no option), then so will girls. Girls may not tell you, but it is recognizable and detected. You must not talk shit about yourself. If yiu do, find the positives immediately.

You lose the game, before you start it with your mentality. You do and have not realized it.

Trust me. It's true. There is no mma fighter who goes into a cage with the intention of losing. It's a gladiator sport. You wanna be a fighter. Good. But it starts in your head, before the training. A trained fighter can talk himself out of a fight if he has to, by using his head. You can not and will not defeat yourself before you even step into the arena. Girls look at you like guys do. Are you a chump or are you a warrior?


With regard to your trip..list the pros and the cons. If the most valuable pros outweigh the worst cons, then you must go. If you have more pros than cons, you must also go. If this trip will be bad on your bankroll and that means a lot to you, that is something you must analyze. Lifestyle. Will it go up? Will you make more money? Could you continue to grow as a man?...you said you would train mma, so yes. Would you make friends? Would you fuck girls or have access? All questions I would answer if I were in your situation.

-KNOCKOUTKID

Post: #12

To quote Bukowski:
You're "a smudge of excrement on a tissue surging out to sea with a million tons of raw sewage."

Post: #13

Dude, take it from me: do not post on the forum when you're drunk/stoned and don't tell people you're drunk or high.

You don't know who is reading this stuff.

Now for practical stuff:

I do think it's a good idea to move abroad. I left USA for Asia 9 months ago and I haven't been happier in a long, long time, but I will say this:

Try to invest in a skill that you can scale upwards into the future.