Post: #1

I'm not a newb, but I've come across this scenario a few times over the years including recently and I'm not sure the best way to handle it.

The most recent experience went down like this:

Girl invites me into her place after drinks on a first date. I've thoroughly escalated during the date and she's clearly DTF. She goes to the bathroom and comes out with a towel around her waist and the towel falls away as we walk into the bedroom and she's naked from the waist down. We kiss and she sucks my lower lip into her mouth then *bites* it hard. It was really painful, breaking the skin inside my mouth and drawing a bit of blood and something that I'm really not into.

It pissed me off and got me out of the mood really quick.

I think girls might not realize that biting sensitive areas on a man can really hurt, since they can do stuff like punch us in the arm and we're not bothered by it.

What I want to happen is to:

1) Clearly communicate to the girl that in no uncertain terms that that is not okay and that she is never to do it again. Ever.

2) Continue to get physical sexually.

In the past, I've done #1 and it screwed stuff up for #2.

In some ways, I think it might be a huge shit test. Like, let me physically abuse this guy and see if he'll put up with it for the potential of sex or more sex. Or maybe they like pain and are doing to me what turns them on. Or maybe they are just drunk and stupid and don't realize that biting can really hurt (this girl had had a few).

Anybody have similar experiences or advice how to handle scenarios like that?

Post: #2

Tell her verbally not to do that. If she does it again then tell her to leave.

I've had girls give me hickeys and I tell them not to do it. If they do it again I refrain from seeing them.

Post: #3

Tell her not to do it again and make it clear that it pisses you off, don't be scared to express your feelings on the matter.

If she does it again she could be testing, but regardless of that it's a blatant act of disrespect, in this case she's done.

Post: #4

Pussies.

This (NSFW):

http://efukt.com/21176_Lexi_Belle_Has_A_Breakdown.html

Post: #5

Press charges, contact the media.

Imagine if the roles had switched....

Post: #6

Had a psychopath do this to me on the first date in a wine bar once. I pulled away, calmly got up, walked out and stuck her with the bill.

Post: #7

Bite her back and see if she likes it.

Post: #8

^A bitch might...

Post: #9

^^Then it's game on.

Hope you had your logistics properly lined up.

Post: #10

Call her a bitch and slap her across the face. Then fuck her brains out with your hand pressing down on her throat.

She'll beg to see you again.

What is the problem here?

Post: #11

(09-10-2016 02:47 AM)roberto Wrote:  Call her a bitch and slap her across the face. Then fuck her brains out with your hand pressing down on her throat.

She'll beg to see you again.

What is the problem here?

Well.... Here's how it went down after she bit my lip:

I threw her on the bed and pinned her wrists down by her ears and yelled in her face, "Don't you ever fucking do that to me again!! That is not okay. You will never ever to that to me again. Do you understand!?"

*silence*

Me: "Do you understand?!"

Her: "Go in the kitchen and get my drink, BITCH!"

Me: "NO!"

*Me thinking this bitch is kinda cray, and I guess not submissive. I'd actually rather be in the kitchen right now and let this defuse, but like hell am I going to have her call me bitch and order me around.*

Her: "Go in the kitchen and get my drink, now!"

Me: "You don't talk to me that way! Ask me nicely and I will"

*silence*
*this girl is freaking me out*

Her: "Go in the kitchen and get my drink"

Me: "OK, I'll go get your drink"

*really just wanted to get away from her at this point*

*I let go of her wrists and get off of her*

*She hops over to the other side of the bed, reaches in her nightstand, pulls out a small pistol, probably a 38 auto, makes an over exaggerated gesture and racks the slide and points it at me!*

*Maybe she said something too. My ears weren't working at this point. My brain was just focused on what I was seeing*

*I hightailed it out of the apartment with her coming after me*

*I closed the door behind me, but was afraid she would shoot me as I ran down the stairwell. So I held the door closed, standing to the side in case she shot through the door. Sure enough, she was yanking on the door trying to open it (don't think I mentioned it earlier, but she was naked from the waist down at this point)*

*She stopped pulling and I could hear her going back further into the apartment. I let go of the doorknob, ran down the stairs and out the building to my car*

Gotta say that this was an obvious case of where I just should not have stuck my dick in crazy, so it's probably best I didn't get the bang anyways.

The most screwed up part is I found it all a bit exciting.

On the downside, I left my favorite hat there. Never getting that one back.

Post: #12

So a girl tries to shoot you and you start a thread about girls biting?

Right....

Post: #13

In the future, take a bullet proof vest and a combat helmet to your dates.

Post: #14

The gun was a clear shit test, OP!
Next time, shout "SHOOT ME BITCH! I AIN'T AFRAID OF NO GUN!".
She then shoots you, but you're a Real Alpha so you don't feel pain and then naturally proceed to fuck her hard.

Happens to me every other week, classic female behaviour.