Post: #1

Hey guys,

Quick question for some of you who may be more seasoned in this realm than myself. I am seeing a girl (having sex with her, nothing serious) and certainly have the upper hand in the relationship. I am texting her and get on the topic of sexual fantasies and she mentions that her #2 is a threesome with one of her friends (girl), but she states they are looking for someone who can handle it.

She then asks mine and I put threesome as #2 on my list and state it is a newer desire of mine but that the girls I have been with recently have not been adventurous enough for it.

We then get on the subject of other fantasies. I did not want to seem too eager for it at this time since I have never been eager or desperate throughout our dealings together. I figured she would not have brought it up unless she was testing the waters to see how I felt about it. Nonetheless, I figured this was a conversation better had after sex when we are lying in bed together so I did not push the issue over text. Was thinking about trying to have her setup a meet up where we could all go out together for a drink. What are your thoughts? I have never had a threesome before so I am trying to navigate the waters without blowing the opportunity.

Any advice or direction would be helpful. I know there are other threesome threads out there and so do not mean to create new posts but this is a specific situation where the girl initiated the convo and it would be with one of her friends. Thanks!

Post: #2

If she initiated then:
1. Take them both out for drinks
2. ???
3. some

So you're on the right track. You may have to let it happen a bit organically, you don't want to be in a position of constantly telling your plate to ask her to find a date/time, etc.

If they're both into it, then it will happen. You got the green light, just don't fuck it up.

Post: #3

Remember that if you want the threesome to happen you have to build comfort with the other girl, treat her like just another girl you're trying to game + you have the advantage of the preselection as you are with the other woman. transitioning to a sexual conversation is the goal, as you have to somehow plant the seed of sex. There is a great video with RSD todd who is doing the exact same thing with a plate of his and a girl he met on tinder.

Post: #4

(10-03-2016 06:54 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:  If she initiated then:
1. Take them both out for drinks
2. ???
3. some

So you're on the right track. You may have to let it happen a bit organically, you don't want to be in a position of constantly telling your plate to ask her to find a date/time, etc.

If they're both into it, then it will happen. You got the green light, just don't fuck it up.

Second this, exactly how it happened for me.

Post: #5

If you already have a girl thats doing the recruiting with you, its pretty easy with todays sexual climate.

OP did good by playing it cool, the fuck buddy may want it but if she sensed too much thirst she may decide to use that to shut you down instead because well, girls are girls.

If you regularly see the other girl you may try to engineer it on the spot otherwise youll have to bring your friend on board first then recruit the other girl together.

Now how to best bring it up in detail, i have no idea. But since she already has, it cant be too complicated.

Post: #6

Best tip I can give you, go for drinks as everyone else has said, and/or a strip club is ideal. Buying two slightly tipsy girls a lap dance pretty much seals the deal. I did this with a regular and a random we met at a house party.

Oh and remember that even though you're not 'serious' with this girl, it can be very important to make sure the one you have history with doesn't feel left out at any point during the act - jealousy is a surefire way to ruin any group activities!

Good luck riding the tricycle comrade!

Post: #7

(10-03-2016 09:11 PM)burncushlikewood Wrote:  

On Tinder, being extremely conventionally attractive really helps a lot!

Most cats are sitting around looking for the "How to get a chubby 5 to respond with something more interesting than 'lol. nice.' before she ghost like Yasser Arafat" videos.

My guess is that the game guys who are banging out girls like that on the regular from Tinder have to run to have a threesome is essentially "yo. you down for threesome" so the video seems a little superfluous