Post: #1

G'day Gents,

Haven't been active on her in a while, caught a bad case of ONEITIS. I'll save you the details. I am looking for some advice that will help me get back on the horse and shake some rust of my cogs.

I have two tinder dates scheduled this week. One for Friday and one for Saturday.

Tinder girl one is a virgin, but she tells me that she used to have a porn blog, post nudes etc etc, tells me all her sexual fantasies and tells me she likes being dominated. Her blog has been taken down, and she wont send me nudes. She was messaging me while she was masturbating...or so she says. We are meeting up on Saturday, and I would like to escalate from just talking about sex, to actually being sexual and avert the risk of being an orbiter.

Tinder girl two is a Venezuelan living in Australia, she also answers my questions when they get sexual, but she keeps reiterating the fact that she doesn't have sex on the first date, and that she would like to marry the next boy she sleeps with etc etc. She keeps shit testing me by telling me not to waste her time, and to not expect sex, things of that nature. I laugh her off and tell her to stop dreaming, I need to be wined and dined before you can get me in the sack. We are meeting up on Friday, about 15 mins from her house.

Basically, i'm asking how do I best proceed with not fucking this up?
The way I see it, the hard work is done, now its just up to me not to fuck this up at the last minute

Thanks,

Flossie

Post: #2

Text messaging is the hard part?

Sounds like you are gonna fuck it up.

Here's my advice. Control the date, be a gentlemen, make them comfortable, when they say they want to get married or run a porn blog or whatever.. let it go in one ear and out the other. Lastly, don't push for sex and get them on the 2nd or 3rd date for e.g.

Good luck.

Post: #3

Someone says they run a porn blog but are also a virgin? Yeah that seems like a helluva red flag to me.

I can't exactly run you through the dates, just pick a good venue for socializing, be dominant and masculine, make sure your intentions are clear and coming across as you want, get a few drinks in them, and bang em.

Physical escalation is gonna be pretty important.

Honestly just stop worrying about it and try and have a good vibe going into them. Don't get overly concerned about these dates or you'll get in your own head and give off a detrimental vibe. Even if you did fuck it up its just a couple of tinder sluts, and you'll learn something. Lord knows there are more than enough of those to have your way with.

Post: #4

Sounds like girl #1 is trolling you. Sounds like you could potentially be scaring the cat with girl #2. Don't get so sexual and talkative over text. Text for for light/fun chat and setting up logistics for the date thats it.

Either way you say you have dates set up. Like you said, just don't fuck up. Make the dates fun. Be casual and joke around/tease them. Don't make it like an interview and don't let them control the date/interaction. Get them talking about themselves, laughing, and smiling.