Post: #1

I've been on a roll recently. Finally picking up game to the point where I am picking up numbers, getting dates, pulling bangs, etc. it's been fun but recently I started dating this girl who's in my mind "different" (I'm already aware that this is just my brain pulling tricks on me, but I can't stop the emotions from being there).

She's the only girl who hasn't let me get far with her (conservative Muslim but very hot) and we've been on two dates. Going on third, I have a feeling she wants to make this exclusive. This is uncharted territory for me, so I'm really at a loss as to what I should do.

I'm for sure developing oneitis...should I give in to my emotions??? Or is this setting me up for psychological disaster? I'm an emotional dude and even the slightest rejection from someone I know ruins me (don't care about rejection from randoms though).

Very complex emotions I'm feeling right now, and I'm not comfortable with it to be honest. Would appreciate some forum wisdom.

Some background info, I'm 22 and almost done with college

Post: #2

Experiencing emotions with a chick is a good thing, without them there wouldn't be a point really. Just because you are doesn't mean you have to be a slave to them.

There's nothing wrong with taking it slow with a chick that you see has long term potential either. Just don't let her set the frame - instead, show a strong masculine presence to reassure her that you're up to the task.

Post: #3

1. You are misinyerpreting her being hard to get with her being good LTR material. I am not saying she is not cause I cant know. However playing games like that is a bad sign and does not say the girl is automatically worthy because of that.

2. We cant hold you by the hand. Try to make it work if you really like her and report back when you get stuck somewhere.

Post: #4

Two dates is pretty early, no?

It's OK to have emotions but keep your cards close to your chest. Don't blurt out an "I love you" on date 3.

Also if you think of her as "Bitch" then you're probably going to have a tough time connecting with her.

Post: #5

Yea, referring to her as a "bitch" really shows your maturity and the fact that you're ready to give this relationship a shot. I bet this will work out beautifully. Keep us posted.