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RE: 10 year old Autistic Child gets arrested.
About time. A family member of mine, who is a special education teacher, suffered a spinal injury while stopping an autistic student from mauling another student. The injury required surgery. I've volunteered to work with special education students in the past and you learn quite a bit about the state of things.
First, most of these kids come from broken families with single mothers and at best a step dad. If they don't have autism or downs they have a debilitating brain defect from their mother abusing drugs during the pregnancy. At best the schools can make them literate and serve as a daycare.
The state I'm in had to sanction a method that allows teachers to physically restrain children who lost control. Most of the kids have no discipline at home and the parents are quick to complain if their child mentions being disciplined at school(discipline at school being not allowed to go to recess after they punch another student). The police have arrested several children at the school my family member works at over the years. They usually didn't file charges and took the kid home. They should file charges more as a means to hold parents accountable for their lack of parenting.
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RE: 10 year old Autistic Child gets arrested.
(04-20-2017 09:30 AM)Number one bummer Wrote: About time. A family member of mine, who is a special education teacher, suffered a spinal injury while stopping an autistic student from mauling another student. The injury required surgery. I've volunteered to work with special education students in the past and you learn quite a bit about the state of things.
First, most of these kids come from broken families with single mothers and at best a step dad. If they don't have autism or downs they have a debilitating brain defect from their mother abusing drugs during the pregnancy. At best the schools can make them literate and serve as a daycare.
The state I'm in had to sanction a method that allows teachers to physically restrain children who lost control. Most of the kids have no discipline at home and the parents are quick to complain if their child mentions being disciplined at school(discipline at school being not allowed to go to recess after they punch another student). The police have arrested several children at the school my family member works at over the years. They usually didn't file charges and took the kid home. They should file charges more as a means to hold parents accountable for their lack of parenting.
Let me guess. Your family member is a female right?
No men around to restrain an out of control special needs child, so she thinks she is strong enough to restrain one, how exactly? She could not call for assistance?
Arresting a special needs child is stupid. If you are going to support this route, you might as well start post birth abortions for any child not fit for emotional control and good temperament.
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RE: 10 year old Autistic Child gets arrested.
This story raises a lot of questions for me that are unanswered. I've worked with special needs and severe behaviorally challenged kids for many years. First, you have only mom's claim regarding his autism and mom's belief that he doesn't understand what's going on. No one associated with the school would be able to comment on that due to privacy laws. If he is autistic, there are different levels of the spectrum, we have no idea to know where he would be. There's no video, but the kid is quoted in the article so he can speak clearly. In my years in that field I was punched, bit, hit with chairs, scratched, stabbed with a fork, etc. Some really had zero impulse control or mechanisms to manage themselves. Others knew what they were doing. I'm talking about the kids on the autism spectrum, not the little bastards that just had major behavior problems and knew exactly what they were doing. It is extremely difficult work being with this population and no one, even if it's by a kid, should have to accept getting assaulted as a daily part of their job. There needs to be ways to protect the staff and fellow students. For the students that are aware of their actions, there needs to be consequences.
That being said.....
If he was kicked out of school in October, and arrested in April, that's just absurd. Also, he was kicked out of school but sounded like he needed to return for the mandated state wide testing. We had to deal with that shit in my state as well. With our population of students it was fucking stupid. All autistic kids had to "take" the test. Even if they just scribbled and stabbed the book with their pencils, that was fine, it counted. Everyone has to take it. The ten year olds that are on 2 second grade level had to take the test. So it's like "ok, you're just finally learning to read, but here is a test of what normal kids your age are doing. Good luck!" You can't even imagine the shit we had to deal with around state mandated testing time.
Mom was throwing a lot of blame around in that article. Maybe it was warranted. Certainly if an arrest was to be made it should have happened much sooner, six months after the fact doesn't make a whole lot of sense. But my experience is telling me to lean more towards what Number One Bummer just wrote. A lot of blame lies with the lack of quality parenting. Mom complains about the school not being equipped to handle her son. I would love to know what SHE is doing about learning how to handle her own son.
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RE: 10 year old Autistic Child gets arrested.
(04-20-2017 10:10 AM)TravelerKai Wrote: Let me guess. Your family member is a female right?
No men around to restrain an out of control special needs child, so she thinks she is strong enough to restrain one, how exactly? She could not call for assistance?
Arresting a special needs child is stupid. If you are going to support this route, you might as well start post birth abortions for any child not fit for emotional control and good temperament.
There are supposed to be safeguards in place so that one person is never alone with the susceptible to violent students. But, unfortunately lapses do happen. A person steps out to take a quick piss, get a drink from the vending machine, or even if someone pops out to get an extra person from the room across the hall to come cover for them. Shit can happen quick. That's not the student's fault, it does lie with the staffing, but it's damn near impossible to maintain perfect protocol day after day after day. Especially if things have been quiet for a while. Without knowing more details, perhaps the staff involved with the "mauling" felt the situation was urgent enough that immediate action was necessary.
There could also be a money issue with the school district which caused police to be called. Based on the mom's last quotes in the article, this certainly makes it seem like this was not her son's first episode in the school. Again, I don't know enough circumstances regarding what class setting he was placed in. But if this was a regular public school, even if he was in a special needs class, they may not be able to handle him. He possibly would need to be placed in an entirely special needs school, like the one I worked in. But to go there requires money from the school district. Even money put aside to pay for the kid's transportation to the special needs school would need to be accounted for. Perhaps the school has tried to get this kid classified but the district wouldn't listen (because they don't want to pay). Now the school can say look "we have examples A, B, and C here with this kid. Now we have example D that was so extreme that the police had to be called." They can point out that he is too violent to be allowed back in the building. (except for statewide testing of course) None of this excuses the 6 month gap for making an arrest though.
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RE: 10 year old Autistic Child gets arrested.
As a father to a teenager with Autism, I will withhold my commentary for now
I will add that contrary to an earlier comment, most of these kids are not from broken homes, single moms or at best parented by a step-dad. Many parents are doing their absolute best to juggle dr. appts, new treatment, physical/occupational therapy and medications.
That sounds like a blanket explanation I've heard expressed when trying to explain juvenile delinquency or youth crime.
Everything can't be explained away by "more discipline" or "better parenting"
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RE: 10 year old Autistic Child gets arrested.
A lot of people have warrants out for their arrest. The police don't usually actively pursue these, unless they are for serious crimes.
Some people have warrants for a long while and some aren't even aware of the fact. It's not a big police priority to go after everyone who has an arrest warrant.
The school officials may have been pissed that the kid was never arrested, so when he was scheduled to come in for testing, they saw their chance to follow up and called the police in.
Good for them.
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RE: 10 year old Autistic Child gets arrested.
As someone who works is the education field, calling the cops on any 10 year old can be questionable on its face. That said, I fully support more significant punishments coming down on students shielded from responsibility by their IEPs. Understanding that their disability may play an important role in their ability to control visceral reactions, violent behavior should not be allowed with impunity. It is not the responsibility of the public to turn a blind eye or play the "oh, he's special. He/she doesn't know any better," card when violent incidents occur. The blunt truth is if your child is volatile enough physically assault another person over something as innocuous as humming (firsthand experience), deal with the consequences of their actions don't allow them in public.
Hell, today a school in my system had a parent lose her shit and threaten to involve the legal system over her academically grade-level son being suspended for two days for violently assaulting another student who had the audacity to stand in the "way" of the trash can.
This kid also pushed another kid down the steps earlier in the week and was only giving a "talking to" by the admin simply out of fear and frustration of kid's litigious and "never at fault" cunt mother. I don't know what more disgusting; the behavior, the bitch who spawned him, or that he understands, and apparently his past teachers and/or parents have ingrained in him, that it is not right to hit girls so if a girl student annoys him, he will assault the closest boy.
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The video was working for me before I posted. Now I've watched it. "Violent" autistic behavior is only borderline accepted or understood when you can tell the individual has autism from 20 yards away. No one would know would that this kid has autism unless they literally read it in his IEP or medical records. This is a classic case of an exploitative parent seeking an autism waiver for special services and accommodations, a POS, spoiled boy, and a doc who is probably notorious in the area for signing off on parent diagnoses. Good for the school.
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